Rochefort en transition : Breakup Rules for the Modern Dater: Navigating Online Love

Nom de l'événement

Description

[[https://bit.ly/4h6fmi3 Paranoia and Relationships: How Far Is Too Far?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h7JWIo Love Without A Limit?!]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YlRsbc I Got That White Girl: The Hampton Edition.]]
[[https://bit.ly/3BKWiG8 Behind the Macho Mask]]
[[https://bit.ly/4f6EvHB Witty Wisdom For Dating Mating And Crime-Fighting]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h7K2je The Cruelest Things Women Consistently Do To Men]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YlRwHY Dating Do’s And Dont’s For “Nice” Guys And Girls]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h7cAJx Closure And The Big Owe.]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h9iqtR The Most Overrated Things About New York City]]

Hopefully the person you choose to link your life with already has the same perspective on what’s important so you’re both already going in the same direction. I think the perspective shift from trying “to experience God’s love for you through another human being” to “being filled to the brim and overflowing with God’s love so another human being can experience God’s love through you…” would be the key shift in thinking…

hope that makes sense. I think the only way we can pour ourselves into another person completely without feeling drained, needy, losing ourselves and expecting something else in return is use the relationship to give and not to seek, not to gain anything…

instead, finding our needs met elsewhere: through a fulfilling life (meaningful work), a fulfilling relationship with God and a fulfilling relationship with friends (close social network). that way we see the relationship in terms of what we can give instead of gain.

any thoughts?

Wes Says:
January 8th, 2011 at 12:33 am
Well said. I hadn’t thought of it that way. I’ll have to let that rattle around for a while….
I haven’t seen this particular movie but I have seen more than my fair share of what are likely similar movies and I think what makes guys roll their eyes at the typical chick-flick male hero is that he gives and gives but you never see him going ‘back to the well’ to get filled up again. I look at it and think – that’s just not me, I couldn’t devote my entire life to trying to keep up with a woman’s need to feel desired! So I guess I am to come to two conclusions:
1. I am not yet a complete person, not yet “overflowing with God’s love” and therefore incapable of experiencing this type of love – very possibly true
AND
2. I have not yet known a complete person who is also overflowing, having her own needs met elsewhere and therefore not needing to constantly feel pursued and desired – also very possibly true
I’m thinking the relationships that really work hit the sweet spot where both people come together at a time in their lives where they are close to this point of completeness and can just enjoy what the other person adds to an already full and fulfilling life.
Again, great site, thanks for all the advice!

MidoriLei Says:
January 8th, 2011 at 12:48 pm
Oh Wes,

Début de l'événement

Fin de l'événement

Récurrence

Jusqu'au :

La date de fin a été forcée pour réduire le nombre de répétitions à 600 !

Tous les jours

Toutes les semaines

Tous les mois

Toutes les années

En :

A quel moment du mois ?

Lundi

Mardi

Mercredi

Jeudi

Vendredi

Samedi

Dimanche

Jour

Sauf

Cette évènement est un évènement récurrent lié à la fiche {{recurrenceBaseId}}.
Toute modification de cette fiche cassera le lien avec l'évènement de base !

Horaire

Site Web

Tarif