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datetime_create,datetime_latest,"Nom de l'événement *",Description,"Début de l'événement *","Fin de l'événement *",Horaire,"Site Web",Tarif,"Image (facultatif)",Documents,Adresse,"Code postal *","Ville *"
"10/12/2016 07:46:25","29/01/2019 15:13:46","6e rencontre Circuits-Courts de Rochefort en Transition au CCR","Rappel des objectifs de la démarche du groupe du travail CC : le développement de systèmes alimentaires locaux durables, équitables et accessibles.

Cette rencontre qui a lieu au CENTRE CULTUREL DES ROCHES DE ROCHEFORT est ouverte à de nouvelles personnes, n'hésitez pas à diffuser...


",2016-12-13T19:30:00+01:00,2016-12-13T22:00:00+01:00,19h30-22h00,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/6eRencontreCircuitsCourtsDeRochefortEnTr_logo2-1.png,,"Rue de Behogne, 5",5580,Rochefort
"23/02/2016 21:33:32","24/02/2016 10:21:06","20H : Bouillon d'idées : Changement de propriétaire","Une soirée autour d'une soupe puis  d'un ou plusieurs documentaires afin de découvrir de nouvelles idées. En mars, dans le cadre du [[http://www.festival-atraverschamps.be/ Festival du film A travers champs]], deux documentaires seront présentés à Forzée : **Changement de propriétaire** (sur la spéculation foncière) et** La Jungle étroite** (sur les jardins des Fraternités Ouvrières à Mouscron).",2016-03-17,2016-03-17,"19H30 pour la soupe - 20H pour les projections",,"5 euros - soupe offerte à 19H30",,,"rue du Bonnier 12, Forzée",5580,Forzée
"02/03/2020 20:08:31","23/06/2020 18:08:39","ANNULÉE! - Rencontres annuelles de l'habitat léger en Condroz-Famenne !","LA RENCONTRE EST ANNULÉE POUR CAUSE DE MESURES LIÉES AU COVID / ELLE SERA PEUT ÊTRE REPORTÉE SOUS UNE AUTRE FORME EN SEPTEMBRE

2e édition des Rencontres de l'habitat léger, en Condroz-Famenne.
Ateliers, conférences, table-rondes, concerts... autour de l'habitat léger !
Du samedi 27 juin 10h au dimanche 28 juin 12h --> Bloquez déjà la date dans votre agenda !
Plus d'infos suivront !
Contact : educationpermanente.ptgv@gmail.com ",2020-06-27T10:00:00+02:00,2020-06-28T12:00:00+02:00,,http://www.lepetittheatredelagrandevie.com,,,,,5580,Rochefort
"25/03/2016 12:55:38","25/03/2016 13:08:58","Atelier ail des ours.","Atelier proposé par le groupe Semences.
Identification de l'ail des ours, cueillette et préparations à ramener chez soi. 
Bonne humeur transitionnnelle communicative (on l'espère !). 
Plus d'informations sur le matériel à apporter vous seront données par Isabelle au 0496.392.387.
Réservation indispensable ;-)",2016-04-10,2016-04-10,"De 9h00 à 13h00. ",,"10 euros. ",,,,5580,Rochefort
"10/02/2020 17:56:32","10/02/2020 17:56:32","Atelier herboristerie","Par Céline d'Auria, herboriste à Vencimont et Directrice de l'Ecole des Plantes d'Orval
Inscription : 082/71.30.22 info@beauraing-culturel.be

De 9h30 à 12h, de 14h à 16h30 ou de 18h à 20h30
Samedi 29/02/20 : sauge + bonbons
Samedi 28/03/20 : bouleau + macérats de bourgeons
Samedi 25/04/20 : conifères + sel de bain
Samedi 23/05/20 : plantain + macération par intermédiaire alc.
Samedi 20/06/20 : rose + poudres et gels

Les écrits théoriques sur les plantes médicinales ont traversé les époques mais notre expérience pratique a été presque effacée de la mémoire collective. Afin de perpétuer ce savoir-faire qui passe nécessairement par l'action et la transmission, nous vous proposons un cycle d'ateliers !
1, 2, 3, c'est parti : explorez, essayez, mélangez, rectifiez, annotez, savourez... Retrouvez les gestes des anciens et perpétuez-les. Que ces ateliers deviennent une piste d'envol vers le monde ""simple"" mais fabuleux de la phytothérapie !

Prix : 40€ / atelier ou 180€ le cycle de 5 ateliers",2020-03-28,2020-03-28,,https://www.beauraing-culturel.be,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/AtelierHerboristerie_herboristerie.jpg,,"Centre Culturel de Beauraing : 3 rue de l'Aubépine",5570,Beauraing
"10/02/2020 17:57:12","10/02/2020 17:57:12","Atelier herboristerie","Par Céline d'Auria, herboriste à Vencimont et Directrice de l'Ecole des Plantes d'Orval
Inscription : 082/71.30.22 info@beauraing-culturel.be

De 9h30 à 12h, de 14h à 16h30 ou de 18h à 20h30
Samedi 29/02/20 : sauge + bonbons
Samedi 28/03/20 : bouleau + macérats de bourgeons
Samedi 25/04/20 : conifères + sel de bain
Samedi 23/05/20 : plantain + macération par intermédiaire alc.
Samedi 20/06/20 : rose + poudres et gels

Les écrits théoriques sur les plantes médicinales ont traversé les époques mais notre expérience pratique a été presque effacée de la mémoire collective. Afin de perpétuer ce savoir-faire qui passe nécessairement par l'action et la transmission, nous vous proposons un cycle d'ateliers !
1, 2, 3, c'est parti : explorez, essayez, mélangez, rectifiez, annotez, savourez... Retrouvez les gestes des anciens et perpétuez-les. Que ces ateliers deviennent une piste d'envol vers le monde ""simple"" mais fabuleux de la phytothérapie !

Prix : 40€ / atelier ou 180€ le cycle de 5 ateliers",2020-04-25,2020-04-25,,https://www.beauraing-culturel.be,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/AtelierHerboristerie2_herboristerie.jpg,,"Centre Culturel de Beauraing : 3 rue de l'Aubépine",5570,Beauraing
"10/02/2020 17:55:20","10/02/2020 17:55:20","Ateliers herboristerie","Par Céline d'Auria, herboriste à Vencimont et Directrice de l'Ecole des Plantes d'Orval
Inscription : 082/71.30.22 info@beauraing-culturel.be 

De 9h30 à 12h, de 14h à 16h30 ou de 18h à 20h30
Samedi 29/02/20 : sauge + bonbons
Samedi 28/03/20 : bouleau + macérats de bourgeons
Samedi 25/04/20 : conifères + sel de bain
Samedi 23/05/20 : plantain + macération par intermédiaire alc.
Samedi 20/06/20 : rose + poudres et gels

Les écrits théoriques sur les plantes médicinales ont traversé les époques mais notre expérience pratique a été presque effacée de la mémoire collective. Afin de perpétuer ce savoir-faire qui passe nécessairement par l'action et la transmission, nous vous proposons un cycle d'ateliers !
1, 2, 3, c'est parti : explorez, essayez, mélangez, rectifiez, annotez, savourez... Retrouvez les gestes des anciens et perpétuez-les. Que ces ateliers deviennent une piste d'envol vers le monde ""simple"" mais fabuleux de la phytothérapie !

Prix : 40€ / atelier ou 180€ le cycle de 5 ateliers",2020-02-29,2020-02-29,,https://www.beauraing-culturel.be,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/AteliersHerboristerie_herboristerie.jpg,,"Centre Culturel de Beauraing : 3 rue de l'Aubépine",5570,Beauraing
"19/02/2019 18:41:18","19/02/2019 18:41:18","Aujourd'hui : film documentaire","Un documentaire sur les initiatives de transition dans la région de Rochefort : producteurs locaux, Volti, ecole des petits chemins,...
Dès 16H : marché Relais pour faire le plein de bons produits.",2019-03-15,2019-03-15,"16H - 22H",https://www.facebook.com/Aujourdhui-le-film-383955105504791/,"Paf libre",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/AujourdHuiFilmDocumentaire_52574039_400335847200050_4022332315467251712_n.jpg,,"Centre Culturel de Rochefort, rue de Behogne 5",5580,Rochefort
"13/11/2015 12:53:35","17/11/2015 16:26:22","Banquet citoyen","rhhoooo super !",2015-11-19,2015-11-19,19h,,10,,,"grand place",7900,Leuze-en-hainaut
"11/04/2025 11:36:08","11/04/2025 11:36:08",blog,abcd,,,,http://,,,,,,
"11/04/2025 13:03:00","11/04/2025 13:03:00",blog,abcd,,,,http://,,,,,,
"15/10/2024 16:52:08","15/10/2024 16:52:08","Breaking Stereotypes: Feminism and the Future of Online Dating","[[https://bit.ly/3BFQf5M Five Subtle Signs That He Ain't Bad]]
[[https://bit.ly/489iDcn Do You Expect Your Partner To Cheat?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4eNP1Eg 10 Reasons Why You Will Not Get A Call Back]]
[[https://bit.ly/3zOZeky Why I Never Will Date A White Woman]]
[[https://bit.ly/4eG8jeE Tiger Woods Elin Nordegren And Golfgate]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h1qih5 The Five Worst Times To Approach A Black Woman]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h2CAWt Why Won’T You Let Me Be Great?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4eLj4MO What men usually hear when women are talking to us]]
[[https://bit.ly/3BFQdea Bedroom Tactics Gone Bad: 5 Things You Really Should Ask About.]]

Kishore Says:
August 26th, 2011 at 5:11 am
Hi MidoriLie,

I am feeling quite relieved when i read your replies to various posts.

I have a girlfriend. We love each other a lot. I have often quite possessive of her. For around last 3-4 months, i had never shown her my possessiveness. But one day when i told her, she was very hurt and later i said sorry and she forgave me as she could not stay away from me. I feel possessive when she is out for a dinner with friends or gives time to her friends or with coworkers.

In one of her posts as you have said that a girl needs time to spend with her family, friends and coworkers. I think that is what was making me feel insecure. I will try to work on your points. But i still need few more words of guidance from you so that i get out of my current situation and be a good lover to her.

I liked your point that i am just a part of her life and she does not need to leave everything else for me. And also it is healthy that we do not become each other’s world.

Also tell me how can i take care of her if i feel that if not she, then some else might take her away from me? I know this is a feeling of insecurity. I trust her a lot but to practice trust what do i need to do/show?

Thanks,

MidoriLei Says:
August 26th, 2011 at 6:00 pm
Kishore, possessiveness always traces back to insecurity and a fear of losing your beloved. I know it’s a scary thought that another person you care about so deeply and can’t imagine your life without has the freedom to be with you… or leave you alone. A lot of things in relationships are out of our control, for example, you don’t have any control of the other person’s decisions to stay or go, and you don’t have control of if they become attracted to another person.

The secret is to not focus on the areas you cannot control. Focus on the areas that are within your control. You can not force someone to stay, to love you, all you can do is be the best lover for her and prove to her through your words and actions that you are the best choice she can make, that you are the man who she can trust, who will always be there for her.

",2022-10-30,2022-10-31,,,,,,,5646,Rome
"16/10/2024 17:51:02","16/10/2024 17:51:02","Breakup Rules for the Modern Dater: Navigating Online Love","[[https://bit.ly/4h6fmi3 Paranoia and Relationships: How Far Is Too Far?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h7JWIo Love Without A Limit?!]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YlRsbc I Got That White Girl: The Hampton Edition.]]
[[https://bit.ly/3BKWiG8 Behind the Macho Mask]]
[[https://bit.ly/4f6EvHB Witty Wisdom For Dating Mating And Crime-Fighting]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h7K2je The Cruelest Things Women Consistently Do To Men]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YlRwHY Dating Do’s And Dont’s For “Nice” Guys And Girls]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h7cAJx Closure And The Big Owe.]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h9iqtR The Most Overrated Things About New York City]]

Hopefully the person you choose to link your life with already has the same perspective on what’s important so you’re both already going in the same direction. I think the perspective shift from trying “to experience God’s love for you through another human being” to “being filled to the brim and overflowing with God’s love so another human being can experience God’s love through you…” would be the key shift in thinking…

hope that makes sense. I think the only way we can pour ourselves into another person completely without feeling drained, needy, losing ourselves and expecting something else in return is use the relationship to give and not to seek, not to gain anything…

instead, finding our needs met elsewhere: through a fulfilling life (meaningful work), a fulfilling relationship with God and a fulfilling relationship with friends (close social network). that way we see the relationship in terms of what we can give instead of gain.

any thoughts?

Wes Says:
January 8th, 2011 at 12:33 am
Well said. I hadn’t thought of it that way. I’ll have to let that rattle around for a while….
I haven’t seen this particular movie but I have seen more than my fair share of what are likely similar movies and I think what makes guys roll their eyes at the typical chick-flick male hero is that he gives and gives but you never see him going ‘back to the well’ to get filled up again. I look at it and think – that’s just not me, I couldn’t devote my entire life to trying to keep up with a woman’s need to feel desired! So I guess I am to come to two conclusions:
1. I am not yet a complete person, not yet “overflowing with God’s love” and therefore incapable of experiencing this type of love – very possibly true
AND
2. I have not yet known a complete person who is also overflowing, having her own needs met elsewhere and therefore not needing to constantly feel pursued and desired – also very possibly true
I’m thinking the relationships that really work hit the sweet spot where both people come together at a time in their lives where they are close to this point of completeness and can just enjoy what the other person adds to an already full and fulfilling life.
Again, great site, thanks for all the advice!

MidoriLei Says:
January 8th, 2011 at 12:48 pm
Oh Wes,

",2022-10-29,2022-10-31,,,,,,,3435,Singles
"02/03/2020 18:32:40","02/03/2020 18:32:41","Café léger - rencontres autour de l'habitat léger","L’antenne locale du collectif Halé* propose des rendez-vous conviviaux au petit théâtre pour échanger autour de l'habitat léger. Venez rencontrer, partager vos expériences et témoignages, trouver du soutient, être en lien.
Les Cafés légers ont lieu tous les deux mois au petit théâtre de la Grande Vie.

**Pour cette édition : focus juridique : **nous ferons l'état des lieux de la législation sur l'habitat léger et partagerons nos connaissances pour tenter de répondre aux questions de chacun·e. 
(attention, les personnes ressources qui seront présentes ne sont ni juriste ni avocat·e·s et illes ne pourront donc pas forcément répondre à toutes vos questions concernant votre cas spécifique).

Ouvert à tou.tes, habitant·e·s du léger, réel ou potentiel, sympathisant·e·s et curieux·ses. Entrée libre.

Plus d'infos : educationpermanente.ptgv@gmail.com

* Halé ! est un collectif de personnes, habitant·e·s en habitat léger, actuels ou potentiels, et sympathisants du léger, qui s'unissent pour faire reconnaître l'habitat léger et alternatif en tant qu'autre manières d'habiter!
Site Web d'Halé : http://www.habiterleger.be 
Intéressé·e·s? Rejoins-nous! Pour l'antenne locale Condroz-Famenne, écris à : educationpermanente.ptgv@gmail.com",2020-03-18T19:30:00+00:00,2020-03-18T22:00:00+00:00,,http://www.lepetittheatredelagrandevie.com,"entrée libre",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/CafeLegerRencontresAutourDeLHabitatLeg_cafe-leger-18-03-20.jpg,,"petit théâtre de la Grande Vie - 12 rue du Bonnier",5580,Forzée
"21/02/2025 10:34:39","03/11/2025 17:11:03","Can Therapy Save a Failing Marriage","<p><a href=""https://pad.riot-os.org/s/aUMXEnwai"">Screw ""Dating"": Let's Hang Out!</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://pad.karuka.tech/s/J1L8K97RE"">How Many Online Dates Does It Take</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://hackmd.hub.yt/s/AGwbeyOAi"">5 Ways Women Play Themselves While Dating</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://pad.hacc.space/s/t97tMs6JB"">If You Stop Looking They Will Show Up…Right?</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://hedgedoc.private.coffee/s/sbmNXXDFA"">I Want a Naturally Unfolding Relationship</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://single-women.sexybegin.be/"">Impact of relationships on happiness and health</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://single-women.champion.be/"">Maintain Your Individuality</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://single-women.jobcenters.nl/"">Simple ways to harmonious life</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://single-women.hetmooistedorp.be/"">Secrets To Happiness</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://single-women.start-casino.nl/"">Tips to Change your Inner self</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://single-women.startentree.nl/"">Ways to avoid post-wedding blues</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://single-women.brabantmotorverhuur.nl/"">Stop being selfish</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://single-women.vakantiestartpagina.net/"">Value of being silent</a></p>a",2022-02-25,2022-02-27,,,,,,,23,SA
"10/02/2020 18:40:58","04/03/2020 21:18:13","Carrefour des ruralités","//====Venez découvrir et célébrer le dynamisme et la diversité lors d'un événement convivial ! ====//

__**Animations sous chapiteau** __- square de l'Amicale
**11h - 18h** : Les acteurs de la ruralité wallonne vous présentent leurs projets de manière interactive et accessible à tous.

__**Débats et conférences** __- Centre Culturel 
**11h - 12h30** : ""Manger mieux, facile à dire !""
Il faudrait manger local, bio, durable, équilibré... les recommandations ne manquent pas et on s'y perdrait parfois ! Tour d'horizon d'initiatives qui aident.
**14h - 15h30** : ""Wallonie, 2040, que sont devenus nos villages ?""
À quoi ressembleront nos campagnes dans 20 ans ? Échanges au départ de scénarios possibles.
**16h - 17h** : ""La nature est leur champ d'action : comment la protègent-ils ?""
Agriculteurs, cultivateurs, chasseurs... comment entretiennent-ils l'environnement où ils sont actifs ?

__**Projections**__
**20h** : Docu ""Vaarheim"" de Victor Ridley (en présence du réalisateur, sous réserve)
**21h** : Docu ""Les vaches n'auront plus de nom"" de Hubert Charuel (projection suivie d'un échange avec Terre-en-Vue et Agricall, animé par le Rwdr)

Restauration toute la journée.

Dans le cadre du Festival À TRAVERS CHAMPS",2020-03-28T11:00:00+00:00,2020-03-28T22:00:00+00:00,,https://www.festival-atraverschamps.be,gratuit,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/CarrefourDesRuralites_atraverschamps.jpg,,"Centre Culturel des Roches : 5, rue de Behogne",5580,Rochefort
"17/02/2020 12:02:59","17/02/2020 12:02:59","Cine-débat : L'illusion verte","Aujourd'hui, les industriels investissent beaucoup de temps et d'argent à ""verdir"" leur image : voitures électriques, huile de palme labellisée bio, ou encore produits issus du commerce équitable… tout est fait pour nous déculpabiliser et expliquer que nous pourrions sauver le monde en consommant ces produits. Une pratique dangereusement populaire nommée greenwashing ou éco-blanchiment. Mais si à défaut de sauver le monde, ces achats responsables ne faisaient qu’enrichir les multinationales ? Werner Boote et Kathrin Hartmann parcourent le monde pour révéler l’envers du décor. 
En invité, Daniel  TANURO, auteur de «L’Impossible capitalisme vert».

Ce film documentaire sera également présenté le 21 mars à Forzée dans le cadre du Festival A travers Champs.",2020-02-25T20:00:00+00:00,2020-02-25T22:30:00+00:00,,https://www.cepag.be/sites/default/files/activites-regionales/2020-02-25_-_ceppst_-_illusion_verte.pdf,"Entrée gratuite",,,"Rue des carmes 3",6900,Marche-en-famenne
"24/02/2020 21:13:36","24/02/2020 21:13:36","Ciné Goûter","Le Ciné Goûter revient le mardi 25 février à 14h, pour une séance en famille pleine de douceur, de complicité et de délicieuses choses à grignoter.🍪🥧 
➡️ Réservations indispensables via reservation@cine-gedinne.be",2020-02-25T14:00:00+00:00,2020-02-25T16:00:00+00:00,14h,http://www.cine-gedinne.be,7€,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/CineGouter_86728810_10159490709672306_7111406509967278080_o.jpg,,"Rue de la croisette, 11",5575,Gedinne
"24/02/2020 21:11:35","24/02/2020 21:11:35","Ciné rencontre","Aujourd’hui, quels sont les choix pour accoucher autrement? Maison de naissance, domicile, ou maternité : trois couples nous montrent le chemin vers des naissances plus naturelles. Des derniers mois de grossesse jusqu’après l’accouchement, nous découvrons leurs histoires, leurs motivations, et les moyens dont ils disposent face à une surmédicalisation banalisée.
| Tarif unique | 6,00 € |
| La projection sera suivie d’une discussion autour du film avec Natasha Köchli, sage-femme |
Une soirée qui s'annonce belle et enrichissante. 
",2020-03-06T20:15:00+00:00,2020-03-06T23:30:00+00:00,20h15,http://www.cine-gedinne.be,6€,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/CineRencontre_87058365_10159516347717306_1236368376956190720_o.jpg,,"Rue de la croisette, 11",5575,Gedinne
"23/02/2016 17:46:39","24/02/2016 15:06:46","clôture de l'appel à projet illustration Voltî",,2016-03-31,2016-03-31,,,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/fichier_Appel_a_projet_billets-_Final.pdf,,5580,Rochefort
"24/09/2019 09:18:44","24/09/2019 09:18:44","Comprendre le monde dans lequel on vit - Formation","Le capitalisme façonne le monde, conditionne nos actes et suscite, aujourd’hui encore, beaucoup d'espoirs. Plus qu'un système économique, c’est aussi un système culturel qui, quoi qu’on puisse en dire, détermine nombre de nos comportements.   Bien que chaque jour, nous soyons de plus en plus nombreux à dénoncer ses limites et ses dérives, nous devons aussi reconnaître que nous sommes partie intégrante dudit système.    Heureusement, rien n'est joué ! Nombreux sont ceux qui tirent la sonnette d’alarme depuis de nombreuses années ou encore qui se mobilisent pour que cela change !  
  C’est pourquoi, pendant deux journées, nous vous proposons d'interroger le système, de le triturer, d’essayer de le comprendre pour qu’ensemble, nous puissions penser les stratégies qui mettront en place un changement.  

Avec un spectacle, une conférence gesticulée, des discussions avec Guy Bajoit, un film, ...(programme ci-dessous)
 
Une formation (en 2 jours) s'inscrivant dans la venue du Musée du capitalisme à Rochefort. Deuxième journée : jeudi 5 décembre.",2019-11-13,2019-11-13,"9H - 17H",,"Pour les 2 journées : 50€ pour les professionnels/ 40€ pour les non-professionnels - A verser sur BE72 0017 8955 4616 en communication Musée du capit + Nom",,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/ComprendreLeMondeDansLequelOnVitFormat_fichier_forma-museecapiprogramme-detaille.pdf,"CCR, Rue de Behogne 5",5580,Rochefort
"24/09/2019 09:20:43","24/09/2019 09:20:43","Comprendre le monde dans lequel on vit - Formation II","Le capitalisme façonne le monde, conditionne nos actes et suscite, aujourd’hui encore, beaucoup d'espoirs. Plus qu'un système économique, c’est aussi un système culturel qui, quoi qu’on puisse en dire, détermine nombre de nos comportements. Bien que chaque jour, nous soyons de plus en plus nombreux à dénoncer ses limites et ses dérives, nous devons aussi reconnaître que nous sommes partie intégrante dudit système. Heureusement, rien n'est joué ! Nombreux sont ceux qui tirent la sonnette d’alarme depuis de nombreuses années ou encore qui se mobilisent pour que cela change !

    C’est pourquoi, pendant deux journées, nous vous proposons d'interroger le système, de le triturer, d’essayer de le comprendre pour qu’ensemble, nous puissions penser les stratégies qui mettront en place un changement.


Avec un spectacle, une conférence gesticulée, des discussions avec Guy Bajoit, un film, ...(programme ci-dessous)

Une formation (en 2 jours) s'inscrivant dans la venue du Musée du capitalisme à Rochefort.",2019-12-05,2019-12-05,"9H - 17H",,"Pour les 2 journées : 50€ pour les professionnels/ 40€ pour les non-professionnels - A verser sur BE72 0017 8955 4616 en communication Musée du capit + Nom",,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/ComprendreLeMondeDansLequelOnVitFormat2_fichier_forma-museecapiprogramme-detaille.pdf,"CCR, Rue de Behogne 5",5580,Rochefort
"19/03/2019 17:11:50","19/03/2019 17:11:50","CONFERENCE-DEBAT LE 27 MARS  à 20h00 ACCUEIL-FAMENNE  Rochefort rue d'Austerlitz,56","Biomimétisme, de l'effondrement à l'entraide? par Gauthier CHAPELLE
Ingénieur agronome, docteur en biologie 
co-auteur, avec Pablo Servigne et Raphaël Stevens du livre
Un autre fin du monde est possible
Organisé par Ecolo Rochefort********  ",2019-03-27T20:00:00+01:00,2019-03-27T22:30:00+01:00,," http://rochefortentransition.org -Ecolo Rochefort","3€ ou 2 voltis",,,,5580,RROCHEFORT
"07/02/2016 00:43:52","07/02/2017 22:38:14",COP21,Résultats,2015-12-12,2015-12-12,,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/Cop21_2.jpg,,,5580,rochefort
"05/03/2020 15:49:48","05/03/2020 16:14:43","Cours de jardinage en vue de produire des semences","Formation organisée par le groupe ""Semences"" un samedi après-midi toutes les 3 semaines : premier rendez-vous le samedi 21 mars à 13h30 jusqu'à 16h-16h30. A partir de cette date, les formations se donneront à intervalle de 3 semaines.

Le nombre d'inscrits est limité à 15 personnes pour privilégier au maximum la qualité et les échanges.
Le prix de la formation est fixé à 5€/5V par jour de formation.",2020-03-21T00:00:00+00:00,2020-03-21,"13H30 - 16H30",https://rochefortentransition.org/?SemenceS,5€/5V,,,,5580,Rochefort
"11/11/2018 17:03:41","11/11/2018 17:05:14"," Cycle de formation d'autonomie alimentaire","Une formation et un coaching essentiellement pratiques d’une année, pour celles et ceux qui souhaitent acquérir des compétences en vue d’aller vers une autonomie alimentaire, au fil de saisons. 
Pour toute personne qui veut aller vers moins de dépendance par rapport au système agroalimentaire et restaurer petit à petit sa souveraineté alimentaire. Un cycle complet de formation de 12 séances est proposé aux personnes qui souhaitent démarrer et approfondir leur formation en autonomie alimentaire, soit 6 séances d’initiation et 6 séances d’approfondissement. Par ailleurs, les 6 dernières séances (séances 7 (à partir du 22 juin 2019) à 12,) sont ouvertes aux personnes qui ont déjà suivi une première formation en autonomie alimentaire, ou qui ont de l’expérience et qui souhaitent l’approfondir. ",2018-12-08,2018-12-08,,,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/CycleDeFormationDAutonomieAlimentaire_fichier_autonomiealiment-2019.pdf,"rue principale 8",6953,Ambly
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[[https://bit.ly/4c037lm Healing a Marriage by Confronting Insecurities and Building Trust]]
[[https://bit.ly/4kSx1Mh Religious Differences and Strengthening Marriage Bonds]]
[[https://bit.ly/4bUogNH The Affection Gap: Bridging Emotional Distance in a Long-Term Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/4bUohkJ Workplace Dating Detours]]
[[https://bit.ly/4bUohRL When Blind Dates Go Wrong]]
[[https://bit.ly/4bUoiFj Comfort Vs. Fulfillment In Modern Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/41R8Y7P Demanding Respect and Openness in a Relationship]]
[[https://bit.ly/4bVNmvE Get Outta My Dating Pool]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iFRbaL Seeking Clarity and Connection in Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/4izaKBE Gym Flirting 101]]
[[https://bit.ly/41Yixlv Finding Balance in Love After Loss]]

I’m back! Well, kind of. There is still plenty to do and lots of people to see before I can get back to my regularly scheduled blogging but I had to stop by and say hello to everyone. I know that you are all going crazy with anticipation of my amazing family Thanksgiving. You are, aren’t you?

Well, it was GREAT. I got to sleep in until 10am and woke up to snow. I turned on the Philadelphia Thanksgiving Day Parade and saw flurries all over, got up and looked out the window and there it was…our first snow. Luckily nothing stuck and traveling was still fine but it was a very nice sight.

At around 3 I went down to my parents house and lent a hand until around 4 when everyone started to show up for dinner. As always, my mother made entirely too much food. Before the official dinner even started there was guacamole, shrimp, spanikopita (Greek phyllo dough filled with spinach and cheese), and bruschetta. In other words...entirely too much food.

It was a smaller Thanksgiving for us, just the 12 of us. It was me, Yiayia, my parents, my sisters, my niece, my sister’s fiancé and daughter, and Matt’s parents. Usually we are at my Aunts house with all the cousins and it’s insane with around 30 people. Since my Dad is still on the mend we decided to have a low key Thanksgiving and enjoy a little engagement party too. It is important to us to spend some quality time with Matt’s parents and get to know his family better. Luckily we didn’t scare them off. J


I think we went through a good 3 bottles of wine before dinner even started. We had a very lovely prayer and then sat down to an amazing dinner. We had the normal turkey and stuffing, mashed potatoes, spinach casserole, green bean casserole, candied carrots, sweet potato casserole, corn, rolls, sweet potato muffins, olives and pickles, cole slaw, and more wine. Seriously, who needs that much food!?

As if a family dinner isn’t crazy enough, add two cute but crazy 4 year olds and it’s just plain tiring. So, after much dinner was consumed, desert (pumpkin pie, fruit tart, cookies, and a white cloud engagement cake) we cleaned up and the kids went home incredibly cranky. Matt’s parent’s stayed a bit longer and then we had a bit of down time.


Now, I am 30 years old and I have never, not once in my whole life, gone out shopping on Black Friday. Not once. There was a reason for this; I just didn’t know it yet. I agreed to go Black Friday shopping at the Philadelphia Outlets with my youngest sister Gina, who at 20, can do stuff like that! I cannot. Good LORD! So around 9 we decided to nap and get ready for our crazy shopping outing. I managed a name till around 11:20 and then we rallied and left in the cold drizzly weather to make the trip to HELL!

A 30 minute trip took us 2 and half hours. I’m serious! We sat for about 1 ¾ hours in stand still traffic trying to get to the outlets. It dawned on me that ALL these cars were going the same exact place, that parking was going to be a bitch, and that I was flat out crazy. It was nice to spend the quality time with Gina, but dear God I am not a patient person and I hate traffic with a fiery passion.

So we get in there, park, and make our way to the stores. There are lines, around buildings, in the rain, of people waiting to get into Coach, Polo, etc and it’s insanity! Anyway, we get in and out of our stores, which by the way had amazing sales!! Get back out to the parking lot somewhere around 3:45 am and head off to Target. Target was opening at 4 and we only needed a couple things in there while we wasted time to go to Dick’s Sporting Goods to get my father’s hammock.



Apparently Target had a huge sale on flat screen TV’s because every cart had a giant HD 40 inch flat screen in it. We pick up about 5 pairs of boots and shoes, some belts, costume jewelry, and then get into the express checkout line. We are pros! We are in and out of there in no time. We go over to Dick’s and guess what…hammocks are sold online only. Awesome! So we leave to head home and oddly enough I’m not even remotely tired. At around 6 am I drop my sister off at my parent’s house and head home to sleep.

Needless to say I didn’t get much sleep. A solid 5 hours and I’m up again. I am feeling super lazy but managed to order a baby shower gift and the hammock online (free shipping is awesome) and then just veg out.

Tonight is going to be a nice relaxing night with my sisters Alana and Gina over at Alana’s new place. We’re going to have some soup, cozy up on the sofa and watch her newly purchased, Eat, Pray, Love. J I can’t wait to watch the movie because I loved the book SO much. I’ll be sure and let you know how it is.


I'm sleeping at the parent's house tonight so tomorrow I can go with Gina, at 7am, to Rice’s Flea Market. It’s my first time there but she swears by it. I am excited for some good deals and lots of cool stuff. I’m not sure if I will be shopping for myself or for others but I plan on having fun regardless.

Have a great day/night everyone!",2022-03-25,2022-03-27,,,,,,,3423,SA
"10/04/2025 17:17:17","10/04/2025 17:17:46","Date #95 + updates","<p><a href=""https://kazan.milaulas.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=There%E2%80%99s%20No%20Such%20Thing%20as%20a%20%E2%80%9CGood%E2%80%9D%20or%20%E2%80%9CBad%E2%80%9D%20Marriage"">There’s No Such Thing as a “Good” or “Bad” Marriage</a></p>
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<p lang=""x-none""><a href=""https://tuaulavirtual.educatic.unam.mx/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Love%20Rewards%20the%20Brave"">Love Rewards the Brave</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://ubiqua.uvic.cat/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=The%20Book%20That%20Changed%20the%20Way%20I%20Look%20at%20Love"">The Book That Changed the Way I Look at Love</a></p>
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<p><a href=""https://ucilnica2223.fmf.uni-lj.si/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=The%20Silence%20That%20Can%20Save%20Your%20Relationship"">The Silence That Can Save Your Relationship</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://ufu.elearning-home.de/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Is%20It%20Ever%20OK%20to%20Lie%20to%20Your%20Spouse%3F"">Is It Ever OK to Lie to Your Spouse?</a></p>

I’m back after a few days out of town, with some updates:

Date #95: the night before I left, I had a one-hour drink with a guy I’ll call Mr. Maybe. I wasn’t overwhelmingly impressed, but he was a nice enough guy. I’d consider a second date, but only if he contacts me next.

Smiles: I left a message on his voicemail just before I went away, no reply. This is quite telling: before my previous trip, he asked me to call him when I got to my destination, so he’d know I got there safely. This time – nothing. Then…

A good friend of mine, also on Match, got an e-mail from Smiles via the Match website – he’s never met her or any of my other friends. She wrote back something along the lines of “thanks for writing – but you should know, you’ve been dating one of my good friends.”

He writes back: “Small world – who’s your friend?” She wrote back “Loverville”. No reply from him.

I think it’s safe to say he’s out of the picture. Not because of this incident (which I actually found quite funny – for such a big city, New York is a tiny place!) – but if it’s not working, it’s just not working. No harm done. It was fun while it lasted.

On the Positive Dating News front: while I was away, I considered writing to UN to plan our next date for this weekend – but I resisted the urge, thanks in part to advice provided by Cute Jewess (thanks, CJ!) to play it cool. I always feel the need to plan ahead, but suppressed that urge this time. After coming home, I found a message from UN, saying that he believed I was coming home that day, and would I like to get together soon? Hopefully I’ll see him this weekend.

Now – re: Smiles. I’m sure he senses as well that this is going nowhere – it’ll be interesting to see what happens from here -- as in, how will this end? Normally, I’d want to close the book by having “the talk” – but since I left the last message and haven’t heard back from him, I’m sure it’s safe to assume that his silence says it all.

But there’s that part of me that wants him to call or e-mail so I can refrain from responding to HIM. Immature? Maybe. But if anyone is going to be pulling the plug around here, I want it to be me!",2024-04-29,2024-04-30,,http://google.com,,,,,23432,SA
"02/04/2025 17:12:09","02/04/2025 17:12:09","Date #156... and an apology.","[[https://bit.ly/4ldGi1t Weird Boobs and Little Wieners]]
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[[https://bit.ly/4iT6soS Our Kids Drove Us Crazy]]
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[[https://bit.ly/3XIDpMe Our Grown Daughter Moved Back In]]
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[[https://bit.ly/4cdVdEZ My Teenage Daughter Is Ruining Our Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/445L9LZ My Stepdaughter Is Ruining Our Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/4caKGu4 (Broken) Laws of Attraction]]
[[https://bit.ly/42aQEqp Things You Should Be Doing To Find the Right Man]]
[[https://bit.ly/4lgI6ac Why Splitting Costs Isn't Splitting Love]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iKpVYJ Why I Like Messed-Up Girls]]
[[https://bit.ly/445ZLep Pilates It Is A Great Place To Meet Girls!]]
[[https://bit.ly/4lgI7uM How to Date Your Partner Forever]]
[[https://bit.ly/4lgI81O Slender Young And Pretty Girls]]
[[https://bit.ly/3FMle29 Do I Only Date Pretty Women?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4ltSRpR Let’s Just Get Naked]]
[[https://bit.ly/448hwtA So… You Want to Date a Single Dad.]]

This snowy weather is making me tired and lazy, so I'm going to make this short and sweet and get back to some quality TV-watching and Match-surfing!

Date #156: ""Dominic""
Dominic was an English guy in my circle of friends in my 20s, and I had a HUGE crush on him for ages. We smooched once or twice, but it never went further than friendship.

This past weekend I had a brunch date with a British guy who now lives here in NY. I'm normally skeptical about a brunch date -- I generally think it's a good idea to have some darkness and booze to relax a bit around someone new -- but it seemed like it was the only time that worked for both of us. Let's-call-him-Dominic was smart and perfectly nice and had the kind of charming smile that I like -- but I'm just not sure the zing was there.

If I hear from him, I'd be happy to go out with him again -- if not, no harm done.

*******
Shocker of the week -- I got this email from Mr 2010 (and since I don't particularly care if he discovers the blog, here it is in its entirety):

Hi, yes, I am safely alive, thanks. I'm really sorry about last Sunday. I don't have a worthy explanation... I barely got out of bed all day, and then when I saw your text it was already late and I felt like a big jerk. I've been trying to figure out how to talk to you about it since then, but not very successfully, obviously.

It's a longer, bigger story than I can do via email right now, but I've been a bit of a mess recently. It's not something I'd want to inflict on anyone else. I like you, but I have to deal with my crap right now. I hope you understand, and I hope you can forgive me for being such an inconsiderate ass.

I hope you're well. Thank you for the concern, too.

[Mr 2010]


So -- that's that. Better late than never, I suppose? Anyway, my main thought was: whew! Dodged THAT bullet.

I haven't felt a need to write back. Done.",2022-04-15,2022-04-24,,http://google.com,,,,,453465,SA
"02/04/2025 17:12:31","02/04/2025 17:12:31","Date #156... and an apology.","<p><a href=""https://kazan.milaulas.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Weird%20Boobs%20and%20Little%20Wieners"">Weird Boobs and Little Wieners</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://kazanka.gnomio.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Our%20Son%20Is%20Disabled%20and%20It%27s%20Tearing%20Us%20Apart"">Our Son Is Disabled and It's Tearing Us Apart</a></p>
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<p><a href=""https://loveawake.gnomio.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Our%20Grown%20Daughter%20Moved%20Back%20In"">Our Grown Daughter Moved Back In</a></p>
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This snowy weather is making me tired and lazy, so I'm going to make this short and sweet and get back to some quality TV-watching and Match-surfing!

Date #156: ""Dominic""
Dominic was an English guy in my circle of friends in my 20s, and I had a HUGE crush on him for ages. We smooched once or twice, but it never went further than friendship.

This past weekend I had a brunch date with a British guy who now lives here in NY. I'm normally skeptical about a brunch date -- I generally think it's a good idea to have some darkness and booze to relax a bit around someone new -- but it seemed like it was the only time that worked for both of us. Let's-call-him-Dominic was smart and perfectly nice and had the kind of charming smile that I like -- but I'm just not sure the zing was there.

If I hear from him, I'd be happy to go out with him again -- if not, no harm done.

*******
Shocker of the week -- I got this email from Mr 2010 (and since I don't particularly care if he discovers the blog, here it is in its entirety):

Hi, yes, I am safely alive, thanks. I'm really sorry about last Sunday. I don't have a worthy explanation... I barely got out of bed all day, and then when I saw your text it was already late and I felt like a big jerk. I've been trying to figure out how to talk to you about it since then, but not very successfully, obviously.

It's a longer, bigger story than I can do via email right now, but I've been a bit of a mess recently. It's not something I'd want to inflict on anyone else. I like you, but I have to deal with my crap right now. I hope you understand, and I hope you can forgive me for being such an inconsiderate ass.

I hope you're well. Thank you for the concern, too.

[Mr 2010]


So -- that's that. Better late than never, I suppose? Anyway, my main thought was: whew! Dodged THAT bullet.

I haven't felt a need to write back. Done.",2022-04-15,2022-04-01,,http://google.com,,,,,453465,SA
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<p><a href=""https://outils.opteos.fr/coudja/?MansPerspective"">A Man’s Perspective on Homewrecking…</a></p>

Paul Murray,

“As Sara Swann, a former government adviser on child protection, puts it: “Many girls are terrified and with reason. We had a case in the West Midlands where a girl had her tongue nailed to the table when she threatened to tell,” she says.

‘Another had her head pulled back, and a kettle of boiling water held over her open mouth. You won’t give evidence when that’s happened.’”

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-546809/Is-political-correctness-stopping-police-ending-misery-teenage-sex-slaves.html

This is not “sex-trafficking hysteria”, this is actual sex trafficking.

http://lawandfreedomfoundation.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Easy-Meat-Multiculturalism-Islam-and-Child-Sex-Slavery-05-03-2014.pdf
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFIfcTqBsZc&t=1845

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johnnight August 31, 2014 at 02:56
> Self-advocacy has even been criminalized for these native English people

please explain, this is unclear.

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Opus August 31, 2014 at 04:33
Personally, and not withstanding the wilful inability of the ethno-masochistic police or the collusion (under their Muslim Chief Exec) of the charity Barnardos, I am not sure that I believe a word of this. It smacks too much of the white-washing of female-slutery, acceptable Islamophobia and the continuing anti-heterosexual witch-hunting as well of course as the usual MSM paedo-hypocricy and hysteria where adolescence is conflated with childhood. Those females (however many) happily exchanged sex for goodies.
",2021-12-10,2021-12-27,,,,,,,435345,Rome
"25/12/2018 15:24:26","25/12/2018 15:24:26",dddddd,ddd,2018-12-20,2018-12-20,ddd,http://xnxx.com,dddd,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/DddddD_ss.php.gif,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/DddddD_fichier_ss.php.gif,dd,666,PAris
"25/12/2018 15:25:06","25/12/2018 15:25:06",dddddd,ddd,2018-11-28,2018-12-27,ddd,http://xnxx.com,dddd,,,dd,666,PAris
"10/02/2020 18:10:43","17/02/2020 15:17:42","Double-projection : Qui vive suivi de Ceres","**__QUI VIVE__**
Anaïs Debus
Belgique–2019–19’ 
Avec Laura Fautré et Mohamed Sanouji
Court Métrage

Août 1914. L'Allemagne envahit la Belgique et terrorise la population. Malgré sa grossesse, Louise s'occupe seule de son petit garçon, de sa ferme et des moissons. Alors que le front tonne à quelques kilomètres de son foyer, un individu s'introduit chez elle en pleine nuit...

**__CERES__**
Janet van den Brand 
Belgique–2018–73’-V.O. St.FR.
Documentaire

Dans le Sud des Pays-Bas, Jeanine, Daan, Koen et Sven, âgés de 10 ans, se destinent à reprendre un jour les rênes de la ferme familiale. Pour ce faire, ces enfants découvrent, au fil des saisons, le cycle de la nature, mais aussi celui de la vie, afin d'être prêts à gérer plus tard l'exploitation de leurs parents. La réalisatrice a suivi ces enfants jour après jour, captant parfois la perte de leur innocence, notamment lorsque les bêtes qu'ils ont vu naître sont envoyées à l'abattoir.
Autour du film, dès 18h : Accueil festif et gourmand, découverte de l'exposition ""Territoires"".


Les deux projections se feront en présence des réalisatrices (sous réserve).

Autour des projections, dès 18h : accueil festif et gourmand, découverte de l'exposition ""Territoires""

Dans le cadre du Festival À TRAVERS CHAMPS.",2020-02-26T20:00:00+00:00,2020-02-26T22:00:00+00:00,,https://www.festival-atraverschamps.be,"Film : 5 € / Art. 27 : 1,25 €",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/ProjectionQuiVive_ceres.jpg,,"Centre Culturel des Roches : 5, rue de Behogne",5580,Rochefort
"06/04/2020 10:11:37","06/04/2020 10:11:37","DREAMING THE DARK - Demain le monde après la pandémie","« DEMAIN LE MONDE APRÈS LA PANDÉMIE »
APPEL À TEXTES ET RÉCITS SONORES ENREGISTRÉS
DANS l'ESPRIT DE LA SCIENCE FICTION ÉCOFÉMINISTE
- en Femmage à Starhawk -

En ces temps sombres de confinement, qui mettent en avant les crises politiques, sociales, écologiques et de coexistence des vivant.e.s, et dans lesquels une partie de la population est sans doute terrorisée par la possible fin de leur monde, il est nécessaire de porter l’attention sur cette peur et les désespoirs vécus.
Alors profitons de cet instant de repli en soi pour sonder nos peurs, interroger nos imaginaires et écrire ou raconter nos visions de demain. Ce demain tel qu’il n’existe pas encore; un demain libéré des contraintes politiques actuelles, des limites, des étiquettes, des injustices et inégalités; un demain proche de la chair, de notre terre-mère; un demain qui pleure, qui rit, qui chante, qui se crée d’autres façons de vivre ensemble, de nouveaux modèles, un demain qui construit de nouveaux habitats, de nouveaux moyens de transports, un demain qui se propose de nouvelles façons d’aimer, de se relier, de travailler, de manger, de vivre... Ce demain qui habite nos rêves les plus fous, ceux qu’on ne s’autorise pas...

CONSIGNES POUR L’APPEL À TEXTES ET À RÉCITS
Vos textes et récits peuvent prendre la forme libre que vous souhaitez et être composé à 2,4,10 mains et/ou voix - toutefois s’il y a des propos offensants envers une quelconque communauté ces textes ne seront pas retenus.
SESSIONS / ATELIERS SONORES
Pour vous plonger dans vos mondes intérieurs, passer le cap des angoisses et finalement vous mettre en écriture ou en récit, voici 7 ateliers sonores (respectant les consignes de confinement) qui seront diffusés à la Radio et publiés au fur et à mesure sur cette page avec un lien pour écouter et/ou réécouter l'atelier/la session. Vous pourrez donc les écouter de votre lieu préféré.

Lien pour accéder aux 7 sessions sonores : https://soundcloud.com/user-102830733/introduction-au-projet-dreaming-the-dark?fbclid=IwAR0V2xMtrr9EYqpEwES0yCc2J3hxCIi7aANrclodkYfcUB7ke1KWsIGxadA
",2020-04-06,2020-05-15,,https://www.facebook.com/dreamingthedark/,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/DreamingTheDarkDemainLeMondeApresLaPa_dreaming-the-dark.png,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/DreamingTheDarkDemainLeMondeApresLaPa_fichier_dossier-dreaming-the-dark-def.pdf,,0000,0000
"07/01/2019 18:11:26","07/01/2019 18:11:26","Echnage de semences","Le samedi 19 janvier, le groupe ""Semences"" de Rochefort en transition organise un échange/troc de semences au sein de la bibliothèque de Rochefort.
Et si vous êtes intéressés de rejoindre le programme de producteurs de semences, vous avez une 2ème raison de venir",2019-01-19T09:30:00+01:00,2019-01-19T13:00:00+01:00,,,Gatuit,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/EchnageDeSemences_echnage-semences.png,,"Bibliothèque de Rochefort",5580,Rochefort
"07/10/2024 17:06:04","07/10/2024 17:06:04","Emojis Over Emotions: How Online Dating Affects Personal Contact","[[https://akuttportalen.no/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=S%C3%B8k%20og%20redningsoppdrag 8 Things Commonly Assumed To Be Black That Ain’t Really]]
[[https://www.anglokom.org/tag/index.php?tag=the%20truth%20about%20men The Truth About Men]]
[[https://www.aulaccr.cat/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Black%20Culture%20Decoded Black Culture Decoded]]
[[https://www.blsjapan.info/moodle/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Signs%20That%20You%20Might%20Not%20Be%20Compatible Signs That You Might Not Be Compatible]]
[[https://www.cenforma.net/moodle/tag/index.php?tag=relationship%20rules Relationship Rules]]
[[https://www.childrensmedicaleducation.org/nurses/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Jobs%20Most%20Likely%20To%20Lead%20to%20Hanky%20Panky%20On%20The%20Job Jobs Most Likely To Lead to Hanky Panky On The Job]]
[[https://www.egmdss.com/gmdss-courses/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Movies%20That%20Will%20End%20Your%20Half-Assed%20Relationship Movies That Will End Your Half-Assed Relationship]]
[[https://www.fac.org.ar/moodle/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Reasons%20Why%20He%E2%80%99s%20With%20a%20White%20Woman Reasons Why He’s With a White Woman]]

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113NubianEmpress July 18, 2011 at 7:23 am
…and men with loans.

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114Tes July 18, 2011 at 8:49 am
…and men who can walk into a bank without getting the “Oh Lord, this ninja here” side-eye.

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115Todd July 18, 2011 at 9:02 am
Truth. Sometimes I swear it’s one of the reasons my wife married me. Of course, she tried her damndest to change that for me with certain, ahem, “money management habits,” but a brother is still winning at the bank. Less so than before, but not completely jacked up. :)

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116MzThang July 18, 2011 at 1:01 am
Definitely can atest to having a lot of stuff and so hard to let stuff go b/c feel like so will need it. Men and women’s necessities are totally separate things, which explains men’s attitude. Compliments are so hard to accept and definitely only talk about how good men look with my friends or other females in close proximity.

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117Malik July 18, 2011 at 1:01 am
This is generally true. I don’t know if I could function in a relationship with a woman if I didn’t receive an average of 10 texts each week that I’m beautiful/gorgeous/etc. I know that’s really terrible of me. And I don’t enjoy being that type of guy (excluding when I’m getting the compliments), but yeah.

And before anyone asks about how many compliments I dole out to said women. I proudly wear my double standard Eagle Scout badge when I see you get what you get. I have a powerful aversion to women fishing for compliments.

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118Amarie July 18, 2011 at 1:02 am
So could I get some feedback on my situation. I want to know if I am reading too much into this. Lol
",2022-10-17,2022-10-18,,,,,,,57375,Rome
"13/11/2016 14:22:31","13/11/2016 14:22:31","evenement test",test,2016-11-17T12:00:00+00:00,2016-11-17T18:00:00+00:00,,,,,,,44000,NANTES
"15/11/2021 09:37:13","15/11/2021 09:37:13","Faire pression pour décider de l'utilisation des finances publiques","Atelier citoyen
""Quand les citoyen·ne·s font pression pour avoir leur mot à dire dans l'utilisation des finances publiques""
Venez découvrir comment les habitant·e·s de Molina de Segura se sont organisé·e·s pour que leur municipalité mette en place un Budget Participatif et comment ils l'ont fait évoluer par la suite...
Cette après-midi sera l'occasion de réfléchir à des stratégies pour inciter nos communes belges à nous impliquer davantage dans le choix des investissements publics.
Pour nous accompagner :
- José Manuel Mayor Balsas, chercheur à l'Université de Murcia qui a étudié le BP de Molina de Segura, et a par la suite rejoint l'équipe en charge de son animation au sein de la municipalité,
- José Antonio Cano Díaz, président de l'époque de l'InterBarrios (fédération des comités d'habitant·e·s) qui a organisé ce lobby populaire.
Inscription : https://framaforms.org/21112021-atelier-citoyen-strategie...
Atelier organisé en partenariat avec Kayoux Voir moins",2021-11-21T14:00:00+00:00,2021-11-21T00:00:00+00:00,,https://periferia.be/cycle-bp-3-outil-changement-climatique-molina/,gratuit,,,"Salle Placet, rue des Sports 6 ",1348,"Louvain la neuve"
"06/02/2020 21:44:18","10/02/2020 18:03:20","Festival ""À travers champs"" à Rochefort","1 exposition, 
2 projections en avant-première,
15 films, dont 3 ""jeune public""
2 focus thématiques
1 apéro des lanceurs d'avenir
5 réalisateur.trice.s
Des repas
1 marché 
1 concert
Et... la CLOTÛRE DU FESTIVAL avec la remise des prix du JURY JEUNES et du JURY AGRICULTEURS !  ",2020-03-25T14:00:00+00:00,2020-03-29T22:30:00+00:00,,https://www.festival-atraverschamps.be,"Film : 5 € / Art. 27 : 1,25 €",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/ProjectionLIllusionVerte_atraverschamps.jpg,,"Centre Culturel des Roches : 5, rue de Behogne",5580,Rochefort
"05/02/2024 11:10:32","02/04/2024 08:53:36","Festival à Travers Champs","9ème Festival du Film sur la ruralité : films documentaires, expos à Rochefort et dans les communes avoisinantes.

[[https://www.ikziehetzo.nl/blog/lifestyle/how-to-get-and-keep-a-girlfriend/ How To Get And Keep A Girlfriend]]
[[https://www.infoboek.be/blog/lifestyle/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-with-jules-winnifield/ How To Get A Girlfriend With Jules Winnifield]]
[[https://www.start-hier.nl/blog/lifestyle/how-to-talk-to-women-11-sins/ How To Talk To Women – 11 Sins]]
[[https://www.ajbonline.nl/blog/lifestyle/online-dating-false-claims-nasty-statistics-and-marriage/ Online Dating False Claims, Nasty Statistics And Marriage]]
[[https://www.caronentertainment.nl/blog/lifestyle/daytime-dating-never-sleep-alone/ Daytime Dating – Never Sleep Alone]]
[[https://www.qby.be/blog/lifestyle/online-dating-advice-show-dont-tell/ Online Dating Advice – Show Don’t Tell]]
[[https://www.jmclandwind.nl/blog/lifestyle/online-dating-advice-action-over-information/ Online Dating Advice: Action Over Information]]
[[https://www.afvallenmetfitness.nl/blog/lifestyle/love-dating-what-everyone-really-wants-plus-why-letting-your-willy-lead-is-wrong/ Love Dating: What Everyone Really Wants + Why Letting Your Willy Lead Is Wrong]]",2024-03-01,2024-03-31,,https://festival-atraverschamps.be/,,,,,5580,Rochefort
"01/10/2019 15:52:18","01/10/2019 14:46:18","Festival à Travers Champs  mars 2020","Qui ne s’est pas interrogé un jour sur ce qui se cache derrière la ruralité? Pensez-vous que vous vivez dans une région rurale ? Si oui, comment la définissez-vous ? Et si non, comment vous représentez-vous une région « rurale » ? Par opposition à quoi ?

C’est à la rencontre de la diversité des définitions et des représentations de la ruralité que les organisateurs de la 7ème édition du Festival A travers champs vous emmèneront en mars 2020.

Depuis 2008, tous les deux ans, le Festival propose une sélection de regards de cinéastes sur la ruralité, à travers des films de fiction ou des documentaires. Sur ce qui la compose, la caractérise, et cela partout dans le monde. Sur les questions qui s’y posent, parfois avec urgence. L’agriculture, les métiers de la terre, l’habitat, l’environnement, les ressources alimentaires, la mobilité, les services publics… Y vivre et/ou en vivre ? Y vivre mieux ? La quitter ? La réinventer ? La protéger ? Où ? Comment ? Avec quels moyens, quelles ressources, quelles forces vives ? Et pourquoi ?

Les films qui ouvrent nos regards, avec la sensibilité de leurs réalisateurs, sont nombreux, depuis le début de l’histoire du cinéma.

Du 1er au 29 mars 2020, pas moins de 22 Centres culturels et/ou salles de village, répartis dans les provinces de Namur et de Luxembourg, vous accueilleront : Anhée, Beauraing, Bièvre, Ciney, Dinant, Durbuy, Erezée, Forzée, Hastière, Havelange, Hotton, Houffalize, La Roche, Libramont, Manhay, Marche-en-Famenne, Nassogne, Rendeux, St-Hubert (Vesqueville), Tellin, Tenneville, Rochefort. Autour d’une trentaine de films, de rencontres avec les réalisateurs, d’échanges entre citoyens, de moments conviviaux, d’expositions, de débats, de dégustations de produits locaux, avec le concours de nombreuses associations locales, le Festival permettra de mieux comprendre et de participer à la transformation et à l’évolution en cours ou à venir de « ces ruralités » aussi diverses.",2020-03-01,2020-03-31,,http://www.festival-atraverschamps.be/accueil,,,,,5580,ROCHEFORT
"10/02/2020 18:02:40","10/02/2020 18:02:40","Festival des plantes comestibles à Rhisnes","//====Le festival des plantes comestibles, c'est quoi ?====//

C'est un événement convivial et festif ayant pour but de favoriser l’échange et la découverte de connaissances pratiques sur les plantes comestibles de nos contrées, il s’adresse à un public aussi large que possible.

Une septantaine d'exposants horticulteurs, maraîchers et pépiniéristes seront présents pour vous faire découvrir leurs métiers, leurs savoir-faire et leurs produits. En plus de cela, vous pourrez vous détendre et en apprendre toujours plus grâce à une fourchette d’activités ludiques et variées : concerts, bal, conférences, ateliers, balades nature, animations pour enfants, cirque, théâtre,...",2020-04-25,2020-04-26,,https://festivaldesplantescomestibles.be/?fbclid=IwAR2aQnnftBc5aJyEWae8V4zLypUVWw38YbsepXxsS3VcRiUjA32hPn2-iGI,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/FestivalDesPlantesComestiblesARhisnes_festivalplantescomestibles.png,,"1, rue d'Arthey",5080,Rhisnes
"05/11/2018 10:43:52","08/11/2018 09:00:47","Festival des Terres Nourricières","Nous sommes conscients du fait que les agriculteurs vivent des moments de plus en plus difficiles. Ces derniers sont garants de la qualité de la terre et de ce qu’elle produit. En tant que consommateurs nous avons besoin d’eux. Tout comme d’autres citoyens, les agriculteurs doivent vivre décemment. Il est donc urgent que chacun(e) (consommateur et agriculteur) puisse se parler et se soutenir. Ce dialogue ne va pas sans tenir compte du fait que la terre ne pourra continuer à nous nourrir que si elle est travaillée dans le respect de ses besoins. Elle pourra alors fournir une nourriture saine, vivante et dans l’abondance.",2018-11-15T19:30:00+01:00,2018-11-17T16:00:00+01:00,,http://www.nassogne.be/notre-commune/PCDN/Festival_terres_nourricieres/festival-des-terres-nourricieres-15-16-17-novembre-nassogne,,,,"Rue du Vivier 8",6950,Nassogne
"10/03/2017 11:17:00","10/03/2017 11:17:00","Fête du jardin","Présentation du projet du GT Semences, échanges de semences et animations à Malagne dans le cadre de la fête du jardin.",2017-07-02,2017-07-02,"A préciser.",,,,,"Rue du Coirbois 85 ",5580,ROCHEFORT
"10/03/2017 12:04:24","10/03/2017 11:16:10","Fête du jardin. ","Présentation du projet du GT Semences, échanges de semences et animations à Malagne dans le cadre de la fête du jardin. ",2017-07-02,2017-07-02,"A préciser. ",,,,,"Rue du Corbois 85",5580,ROCHEFORT
"10/03/2017 12:01:04","10/03/2017 11:07:36","Fête du Printemps. ","Présentation du projet du GT Semences, échanges de semences et animations sur le site de Malagne qui célèbre le Printemps. ",2017-04-02T11:00:00+00:00,2017-04-02T18:00:00+00:00,,,,,,"Rue du Coirbois 85 ",5580,Rochefort
"10/03/2017 11:14:23","10/03/2017 11:14:23","Fête du Printemps. ","Présentation du projet du GT Semences, échanges de semences et animations sur le site de Malagne qui célèbre le Printemps.",2017-04-02T11:00:00+00:00,2017-04-02T18:00:00+00:00,,,,,,"Rue du Corbois 85",5580,Rochefort
"27/05/2019 22:10:17","27/05/2019 22:13:12","Fête Ferme Renaud - Bourdon","**=====Partenariat Terre-en-Vue -  Voltî autour de la Ferme Renaud à Bourdon=====**
 
**pour un soutien toujours plus fort de l'agriculture locale **

Afin de célébrer cette première association, une fête est organisée à la Ferme Renaud le dimanche 9 juin. Si vous voulez en savoir plus sur ces projets, venez rencontrer les fermiers, des représentants de Terre-en-Vue et du Voltî.

**À 10H30 : projection du film-documentaire Aujourd'hui** ( de David Islas -50 min - https://www.aujourdhuilefilm.be/), présentant les initiatives citoyennes dans la région de Rochefort et alentours. Avant d'enchaîner avec un échange de questions-réponses, et de partager un bon verre.",2019-06-09T10:30:00+02:00,2019-06-09T12:00:00+02:00,,,,,,"Grand Route 60",6990,Bourdon
"12/12/2015 11:42:19","18/01/2016 06:30:52","film ""Demain""","A voir absolument!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!",2016-01-07,2016-01-07,,,,,,,6990,Marche-en-Famenne
"06/02/2019 10:18:01","06/02/2019 10:18:01","Film : La Terre Vue du Coeur","Autour de Hubert Reeves et Frédéric Lenoir, des scientifiques, auteurs et artistes nous interpellent : la biodiversité est aujourd’hui menacée.  Si certains humains sont à l’origine de la crise, d’autres, de plus en plus nombreux, s’y attaquent à bras le corps et créent des solutions. 

Ensemble, dans ce film dédié aux générations futures, ils nous rappellent à quel point le vivant sous toutes ses formes est­ un fascinant et touchant mystère… qu’il ne tient qu’à nous de préserver !",2019-02-09T20:00:00+01:00,2019-02-09T22:30:00+01:00,,,,,,"rue du Bonnier 12",558à,Forzée
"05/02/2019 12:10:30","05/02/2019 12:10:30","Film Aujourd'hui","Projection du film Aujourd'hui, David Islas
En présence des réalisateurs et des acteurs de terrain!",2019-03-30,2019-03-30,20h,,,,,"Rue du Bonnier 12",5580,Forzée
"14/11/2015 12:19:26","17/11/2015 16:26:05","formation yeswiki",czleknfez,2015-11-14T10:00:00+01:00,2015-11-14T18:00:00+01:00,1à-18h,,,,,"rue du bonnier 12",5580,Rochefort
"17/10/2024 16:27:53","17/10/2024 16:27:53","From 8th Grade to Global Dominance: A Case for Female Leadership","[[https://bit.ly/4f3sCSY Breaking up with someone you still actually like]]
[[https://bit.ly/3BK9UkW First Dates You Should Never Take a Black Woman On]]
[[https://bit.ly/4884FHQ Why Women Should Rule The World]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YalUUb Do’s And Dont’s Of Making a Sex Tape]]
[[https://bit.ly/487pdQE Four Reasons Why women Shouldn’t Pursue Men]]
[[https://bit.ly/4f3LnFH Taking The Lead]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Y71J9O Can’t Trust It: 9 Women To Avoid At All Сosts]]
[[https://bit.ly/3BJEzih Five Surefire Ways To Scare Her Away]]

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thismayconcernyou {June 22nd, 2009 at 9:53 am}

@Panama Jackson,

Here we go Panama … “40 ounces of love … so intoxicating … 40 ounces of love … so inebriating … girl I’m getting drunk off you …”

That humor is ridiculous. But Hav Plenty actually has a good message. If it was remade with a real budget, it could do damage at the box office.

Just wonder who’d play Babyface and Tracey, cause they sure in the hell wouldn’t do that together.

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2Gem...BeThatAsItMay { 06.22.09 at 12:20 am }
tyrese playing the character of jody wasn’t the issue for me in Baby Boy. i dislike the movie becuz i think it’s a bad movie. the terrible acting aside, the plot wasn’t good and did not really (to me) address the greater dilemma, as presented in the first 30sec or so of the movie, about the maturing (or lack thereof) of adolescent males in the “hood”.

there are SO many things wrong in that movie that i won’t even get into. but the one thing that was completely ignored and unnecessary was jody’s other child. what ever happened to her?? they NEVER revisit her or the baby mama. they only focus on jody’s relationship with yvette and their son.

now if you just look at it from a comical perspective, it’s mildly entertaining. who doesn’t like to scream “JODY! JODY!” in that annoying high pitched voice that taraji has as yvette?? and the character rodney — pure comedy when he kicks through the pillows around jody/yvette’s son and says “f*ck yo lil fort”.

i basically can’t really find a way to make this movie NOT get it’s “bad wrap”… cuz it deserves it imho.

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Leila {June 22nd, 2009 at 12:34 am}

@Gem…BeThatAsItMay, “i dislike the movie becuz i think it’s a bad movie. the terrible acting aside, the plot wasn’t good and did not really (to me) address the greater dilemma, as presented in the first 30sec or so of the movie, about the maturing (or lack thereof) of adolescent males in the “hood”. ”
",2022-10-30,2024-10-17,,,,,,,462462,"Free Dating"
"22/02/2019 11:39:31","22/02/2019 11:39:31","Gala des petits chemins","L'asbl le collectif des petits chemins organise une soirée divertissante au centre culturel de Rochefort en vue de récolter des fonds pour l'école le vendredi 5 avril.
Au programme : 20h30 - spectacle humoristique de Félix Radu avec son spectacle ""Les mots s’improsent"" puis 21h45- swing et musique du monde avec Monos Trio.",2019-04-05T20:30:00+02:00,2019-04-05T00:00:00+02:00,,,"Adulte: 12€ - Sénior: 10€ - moins de 26 ans & article 27: 7€",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/GalaDesPetitsChemins_affiche-gala-tout-public.jpg,,,5580,Rochefort
"05/05/2019 19:00:11","05/05/2019 19:00:11","Gestion positive des conflits entre enfants - Formation","**Comment accompagner et outiller les enfants pour gérer leurs conflits ?**
Basé sur le programme ""Graines de médiateur"" élaboré par l'Université de Paix.",2019-06-01,2019-06-01,"Samedi 1er et 8 juin",,"110€  pour les 2 jours (syllabus compris)",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/GestionPositiveDesConflitsEntreEnfantsF_formpetits-chemins.jpeg,,"Rue de l'ile 26",5580,Lessive
"13/11/2015 12:52:58","11/12/2015 15:18:21","Grande fête de quartier","ce sera super",2015-12-13,2015-12-13,20-22h,,20,,,"rue de la poste",5000,Namur
"11/09/2019 16:47:21","11/09/2019 16:47:21","Grande vente de Vêtements et accessoires","**Grande vente de vêtements et accessoires**  
( bijoux, livres, cd dvd )
De 1 à 5 euros
Bar et restauration créole 
Au profit de la cantine famennoise (association qui vient en aide aux migrants)",2019-09-14T17:00:00+00:00,2019-09-15T14:00:00+00:00,,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/GrandeVenteDeVetementsEtAccessoires_pub15sept.png,,"Rue de l'Aujoule 13",5580,Eprave
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Pour toutes infos contacter Nicole le lundi ou le mardi au 083/61.32.60
Vous pouvez aussi envoyer un mail à mlc.volti@gmail.com",2016-02-02T20:00:00+01:00,2016-02-02T22:00:00+01:00,,http://coop-site.net/rochefort/wakka.php?wiki=MonnaiElocale,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/bf_imagelogo_le_volti.png,,"à préciser",6900,Marche-en-Famenne
"26/03/2025 16:46:21","26/03/2025 16:46:21","Guy update + confessional","
[[https://bit.ly/4j6gN0p How a Meddling Mother Nearly Ruined My Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iU3Cj0 How We Rebuilt Our Marriage Through Therapy]]
[[https://bit.ly/41Z9CjH Saving a Marriage After an Affair]]
[[https://bit.ly/41Z9DUN Can Marriage Survive Infidelity?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4j5u3lZ Is Your Marriage a Partnership or a Prison?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4l6wdng Keep Him From Walking Out That Door]]
[[https://bit.ly/4j4unBq Managing Expectations in Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/4j4upcw Why I Believe In Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/4j21Jkq Dating Advice From Happily Married Couples]]
[[https://bit.ly/4j4dFSB The Man or the Money]]
[[https://bit.ly/421UmCz Walk Away From Parental Control in Relationships]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iZu4rt When You’re Stuck in the “Casual Dating” Zone]]
[[https://bit.ly/4j3RWKI A Necessary Courtesy or Just Overkill in Online Dating?]]

I'd hoped to have a few dates this weekend -- but I guess that's unrealistic, since I was out of town til late Thursday, and just contacted my potential dates yesterday, Friday.

Foodie Guy: played phone tag yesterday, but he did say he wanted to get together over the weekend. Dude... the weekend is running out. It's his turn to call, and I'm not exactly keeping my calendar clear.

AdMan: his last few e-mails were quite eager (while I was still away) -- I left him a message yesterday, no word back yet.
UPDATE: he e-mailed, saying he got my message, but is extremely busy with work this weekend, as well as a funeral, but would like to get together during the week. I have a good vibe about him.
MORE UPDATE: I Googled him, and found his Friendster page. His friends wrote some really nice comments about him, saying what a catch he is. Now I'm even more anxious to meet him, but trying to be realistic. As I always say -- you never fricking know. ""Good on paper"" means squat if there's no face-to-face vibe.

Three-Letter-Man: *NEW* Funny -- I have a history of dating guys with just three letters in their names, so much so that my friends tease me about it. (""I'd introduce you to Bill, but he has too many letters for you."") A few brief e-mails back and forth, and he just left a message on my phone, will call him back shortly.
UPDATE: we're meeting for drinks tonight, Sunday. He seemed nice enough on the phone, but I got the impression that he hadn't actually read my profile, only looked at the pics. For example, he asked if I was a teacher (I'm not) -- while my profession is quite clearly stated on the profile.

Note to guys: brush up on the woman's profile before making that call! She'll be much more interested in you if it seems that you've taken 30 seconds to learn a bit more about her -- that's why the info is there.

Adventure Guy: *NEW* Very interesting, mountain-climber type. We've had a few e-mails back and forth, but he's about to go out of town for 2 months.

Neighbor Guy: OUT. We had one date earlier this month... I e'd him yesterday to let him know I'm back in town, any interest in grabbing a drink? He wrote back saying thanks, but he didn't think we were a match. No problem there -- I much prefer that response to no response at all.

Confession: I have a bit of a weight issue. It's not huge -- but I'm about 10-15 lbs heavier than I'd like. Ok, what the hell: I'm 5'4"", and currently about 140 lbs. Since I'm not *that* overweight, it's too easy to brush it off at times and convince myself that I look OK. But most of the time I think about how much happier/ sexier /more confident I'd be at about 125 / 130. And I've been there... have done Weight Watchers and other programs in the past, but then I'll get bored with it, and the weight gradually creeps back up.

Had a wake-up call this week while I was away: ran into a guy friend I hadn't seen in a while. When I hugged him goodbye, I mentioned that he had gotten so thin, and joked, ""I wish someone would say that to me.""

His response: ""Well, you can do something about that."" OUCH!

But he was right. So as of yesterday, I'm back on WW, with a short term goal to lose 10 lbs in 10 weeks. I'll report here regularly -- hopefully, having this info in the public eye (for all of my, um, 3 regular readers!) will be good incentive to keep this going.",2021-03-25,2021-03-27,,,,,,,3242,ВЫ
"07/11/2024 17:20:58","07/11/2024 17:20:58","How to End a Relationship Without Becoming the Villain","[[https://bit.ly/4hDsOKz Moments in Dating We'd Wipe Away if We Had the Chance]]
[[https://bit.ly/40x67lm Lies Damn Lies and Wonderbras.]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Azigvx Pole Position]]
[[https://bit.ly/40Bw1EE The Goggles]]	
[[https://bit.ly/3UGDvm6 Kinky Dating]]	
[[https://bit.ly/4hFWoiA The Art Of The Breakup: 10 No-Nos For The Dumper]]	
[[https://bit.ly/3YW6q84 The Dumpee Survival Guide]]
[[https://bit.ly/4hwN0xX Chick Logic (Or the Lack Thereof)]]
[[https://bit.ly/3UCE8gs Why Women Shouldn't Make the First Move in Dating]]


Shielding children and young people from the consequences of this behavior – male or female – is almost guaranteed to spoil them. In some countries, it is actually sons who are spoiled. I know, it seems hard to believe, but in much of Asia men are not expected to cook, budget or clean, and the onus of sexual restraint is entirely on the female. In the US, this is inverted, hence the tendency for young women to be in debt despite lack of personal hardship or adverse circumstances. Unless your habits are terrible, if your parents supported you through college you should be firmly in the black by your mid twenties, yet this is rarely the case for young American women. Furthermore, if you never lose in divorce and have more access to public funds, you should likewise be able to save plenty even without a stable marriage, but again this is not the norm.

In Japan, on the other hand, women are placed in charge of family funds from a young age. In China, they are responsible for preventing or making up for mistakes made by their husbands and brothers, and sometimes their fathers. I know a Chinese woman who grew up poor and now owns a multi-million dollar company; before she found success she had to bribe officials to get her brother out of jail repeatedly and pay for her father’s heart disease treatment. Can anyone imagine a twenty-something American woman doing that? It’s almost unthinkable. Chinese women are remarkably savvy when it comes to personal and household finances. Without affirmative action and hand-holding, I’d expect that a majority of the woman-owned businesses in the US would be run by Asian women, despite the fact that they comprise only a few percent of the population.

The sad thing about it is that budgeting shouldn’t require any extraordinary abilities. All it takes is a little work and some common sense. Given her problems, I support Clark-Flory’s decision to delegate financial management to her husband, but the fact that she has to do this in the first place is tragic. If we finally started treating our women like responsible human beings with some agency in the real world, maybe it wouldn’t be necessary for men to pick up the slack in yet another part of the domestic domain.

When you look at the big picture, it’s truly amazing how much feminism has done to infantilize women.

A fine article, thank you.

The cultural comparison is especially interesting: it explains succinctly where the impression that Asian women are ‘better’ comes from.
",2021-10-20,2021-12-28,,,,,,,54624,"American Dating"
"11/10/2024 17:26:17","12/10/2024 10:17:03","How to Recognize Your Value in Online Relationships","[[https://bit.ly/3ZXkDCH What Do Women REALLY Want?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4f1GInL The Top 10 Natural PUA Film Characters]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YklQCF Relax Dude I Am Not Swinging From Your Nuts]]
[[https://bit.ly/4eYzb9k How To Survive Dating a ‘Walking Smoker’]]
[[https://bit.ly/4eG22j0 Setting Yourself Apart From the Herd]]
[[https://bit.ly/3ZXkH5p The Best Reasons to Withhold Your Cakes]]
[[https://bit.ly/3ZXkHSX He Finally Has Me And Now He’s Bored?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3zJmTms 12 Things Dull People Do That Make Them Boring]]
[[https://bit.ly/4f4a9FZ The Independent Single Woman: Self-Satisfaction]]

I realize men like sex. So do women. But being a good lover or being all about complimenting her body, her looks, etc is not something that is going to set you apart from other men and get you laid any faster.

Even ""sort of attractive"" women get that sort of sexual attention all the time.

She be more into you, turned on by you, and ""remember you"" above the others if you don't ACT like the others.

Trust me, if you're thinking mostly about ""get to the sex but hide it""....she knows and is withholding it out of spite.

She basically wants the opposite of what you want ( assuming this is a dating situation and not a NSA consensual thing).

She wants you to treat her like she's awesome for every reason that is NOT about sex, her body, her sexual skills, her pretty face, etc.

YOU want the sex to be happening, want the sexual compliments, want the sexual attention, want the physical prowess compliments, etc.

It makes logical sense if you think about it for a minute. Men have to ""strive"" to get complimentary sexual attention from women in general.

Women have to ""strive"" to AVOID sexual attention from men in general.

So all you have to do to get her to have sex with you faster, be attracted to YOU above the other dudes, and to WANT to give you sex/companionship faster you just have to treat her like she's hot for a billion OTHER reasons.

It's really simple, it's the men who make it complicated by not understanding that.

April 13, 2010 12:40:00 PM EST
Adrian said...
Lady Raine, I really don't think you understand men vis a vis their sex drive and to say further that, 'Women have to ""strive"" to AVOID sexual attention from men in general' is complete nonsense. Guys go out most friday nights the world over and see women by the score walking around city centres with their bits hanging out. Not exactly striving to avoid sexual attention, is it?

April 13, 2010 1:49:00 PM EST
Lady Raine said...
""What is the key indicator that a woman looks at? She may not even know it, but as I look at my history, it is very clear to me. So what is it? Patience. Men who are getting laid have a much higher degree of patience with women. Why? Because there is no NEED for them to get laid, as they already have a woman (or a few).
",2022-10-27,2022-10-30,,,,,,,45654,Rome
"14/03/2025 15:28:25","14/03/2025 15:28:25","How to Spot Someone Who Is Just Using You for a Babysitter","[[https://bit.ly/3DGDSYk Is He Assertive or Just Angry?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4bPGeAK Why I’m Done Playing by Traditional Dating Rules]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iFx6kI Modern Romance: The New Dating Rules]]
[[https://bit.ly/4itFjbF Can You Spot the Four Types of Men Out There?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3FECPbT What to Do When a Friendship Becomes Toxic]]
[[https://bit.ly/4itS7yR How to Take Advantage of Being Single]]
[[https://bit.ly/4bPGeRg He Acted Like He Was Still Single]]
[[https://bit.ly/4kRzWVl Following My Dream Nearly Cost Me My Marriage]]


Reply

Cali Bradshaw
March 22, 2011 at 5:55 pm #
Haha, sweet! I was actually really annoyed with myself about that. I was like, “oh way to be a bad speller, self.” Wonderful to know I am just an uncommon speller :)

Reply

Lo
March 21, 2011 at 10:11 pm #
Wow, I’m shocked by some of these comments. Cali, you said it so plain and simple: it’s NOT about the money. I guess it’s difficult for some people to see past that. Even if you are a woman who sincerely offers to pay or believes it to be the right thing to do, it doesn’t mean you don’t enjoy the feeling of a guy paying for you because it is a form of being taken care of, and like Lex and Kel pointed out, one of the few that are left in this age of poking and texting.

Cali is simply trying to give insight as to WHY women appreciate and like the gesture despite the seemingly contradictory modern day expectations that are thrown around. It gets confusing and we understand. But this is how we feel; we can’t help it. She’s trying to help you guys out by letting you know.

Don’t get me wrong, there are definitely freeloaders out there, which makes both parties want to protect themselves (men from getting taken advantage of, and women from seeming like one of these unappreciative dates). I’m sorry for you guys who have fallen victim to this, but c’mon, we girls have been suckers when it comes to expectations in men too. It’s better to be safe than sorry though; if you genuinely care about the girl, show it. That’s all. Dating is not easy. If it was, this blog wouldn’t have been created and all you angries wouldn’t have put the time and effort into your comments.

",2023-03-26,2023-03-28,,,,,,,35325,SA
"10/12/2024 11:04:01","10/12/2024 11:04:01","How Women Are Owning Their Dating Journeys Today","[[https://bit.ly/3ODlgdx Rediscovering Love on My Own Terms]]
[[https://bit.ly/3D0NwED Single Men Who Want More Women]]
[[https://bit.ly/4ihRnNE Open Letter To Men Who Want More]]
[[https://bit.ly/4idyw6t For Men Who Love Poly Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/4icEwMC Progressive Love Applauds Too $hort]]
[[https://bit.ly/3CZav2Q Is Love the Most Feared Emotion?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3B05zu4 Love Kills Self Love & Self Esteem]]
[[https://bit.ly/4in48q8 Are Nagging & Cheating Equally Damaging?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3OLPRFP Why Do We Fall In Love? Is It Healthy?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4f219jW Why Master Monogamy]]

She’s the very model of a modern Cathedral Insider, and no slouch with the hyperbole-generator function key either.
I ask you!
“The wholesale sexual exploitation of young girls is going on in ‘every town and village’ in the country, says the author of the Rotherham sex abuse report.

Professor Alexis Jay, the expert who laid bare the gang-rapes of hundreds of children by predators there, has issued a chilling warning that thousands more are at risk.

She says young girls were still being groomed, threatened and raped in ‘every town and village’ across the country.” [sorry about the Wail again, but it usually has the best pictures]
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2738957/Abuser-told-abort-baby-I-d-killed-I-fell-pregnant-let-More-100-teenage-girls-Rotherham-gave-birth-rapists-children.html

“Every town and village”, Your O.B.E.ship? Are you sure?
Even remote and claustrophobic wee places like Stornoway and Orkney?
I’ve worked there on and off, and know you can’t even vacuum your car-mats without some hawk-eyed old bugger who was a mile-and-a-half off in a (entirely separate and self-contained) rainstorm commenting on the fact to you, the next weekend in the pub. And they know what you had for breakfast or were reading on the bog, too. Probably the only occult activity/power they indulge in.

So what’s Mme Jay’s agenda? Oh here we go.
“Prof Jay suggested a national legal requirement for local authorities and the police to report child sexual exploitation.
She said: ‘It would certainly help to place the scale of the problem across the country because at this time, we simply don’t know.’ “ [my emph.]
So it’s steady as she goes, more kneejerk denunciations, now under threat of “proceedings” and “discipline”, of something nobody can even prove exists outside of already prosecuted instances.
Leading to …
.. more and more Men being swept up in the net by any means necessary, as desperate bureaucrats seek to keep the Socialwork Stasi and their secret children’s-panel hearings placated. And fed. Much like their child-support doppelganger.
And lots and lots more luvverly early-retirement, gold-plated-pension, zero-accountability posts for suitably-qualified … wimminz! Huzza huzza. I’d never have guessed.
",2024-10-28,2024-11-19,,,,,,,342,Rome
"25/02/2025 10:33:45","25/02/2025 10:33:45","If social media apps went down, so would cheating.","[[https://bit.ly/3D2ANld The Top 10 White Lies People Tell In Online Dating Profiles]]
[[https://bit.ly/41vh1rX Things I Wish I Knew About Dating When I Was 22]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iep6qp 8 Reasons You’re Single]]
[[https://bit.ly/4ig4Bth Let’s Talk About Negging]]
[[https://bit.ly/4gVXpl6 What Are Your Pre-Date Nerves?]]
[[https://bit.ly/41wln26 10 Things You Should Never Say To A Man In Bed]]
[[https://bit.ly/3F5nNM3 8 Things Men Want Women To Do In Bed]]
[[https://bit.ly/41uRW04 9 Things I Dread About Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/4gVqFZq I Wasn’t Jewish Enough]]

If social media apps went down, so would cheating. It’s too easy. Gals are becoming online sex workers (KIK me for money, etc.) and creepers are collecting pics by any means (if they can’t get sex, they are stealing photos for 1) personal reasons 2) share/shame/blackmail/sell. They are made for each other. Look at this reddit chat from today:

Guys help (self.kik)
submitted an hour ago by omiited
I’m snaking this girl and she asked for a pic someone send me link to attractive white person teenager also I have to make look real so taken from a cell phone
[–]-omitted- 1 point an hour ago
Send a pic of yourself bro
[–]omitted[S] 1 point an hour ago
Nvm got her nudes without picture doesn’t matter though total butter face
[–]-omitted- 1 point an hour ago
Lol msg me them

I’m kinda glad I’m not married these days because the goal of love has been replaced with the goal of lust. It’s all about self-entitlement, instant gratification and manipulating others in order to have your cake and eat it too.
RE Marriage: You can try to justify illicit affairs until the cows come home, but we all know it’s a personal choice to do it or not.
1) If you want to get married, so be it…but you give up screwing everyone else.
2)If you get married and want to screw other people, get divorced. Meanwhile, stop cockblocking
the rest of us by trying to get into a game where you don’t belong. Newsflash: We.Don’t.Want.You.
3) And stop chasing
folks who want
Either way, own it. And don’t go chasing people who are as low as you
",2022-02-25,2022-02-28,,,,,,,12,SAA
"24/02/2016 20:45:33","24/02/2016 20:45:33","Inauguration de la grainothèque.",,2016-02-13,2016-02-13,"11h00 - 13h00",,,,,"Bibliothèque de Rochefort",5580,Rochefort
"08/11/2024 17:34:34","08/11/2024 17:34:34","Is Money the True Test of Relationship Strength?","[[https://bit.ly/4ekyN4l Why Sharing Passwords With Your Partner]]
[[https://bit.ly/3UHLW0j How To Tell If A Man Is Interested In You]]
[[https://bit.ly/3CjpS5M Do’s and Don’ts for a Successful Break-Up]]
[[https://bit.ly/4fgQlPU The Dating With EXpectation Factor]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Ce6Pdg Dating Real Test Is in the Wallet]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Cj0wFa How To Know That Your Relationship Is In Trouble]]
[[https://bit.ly/4fjgi1q When Potential Becomes a Relationship Killer]]
[[https://bit.ly/48W4QGR The Unspoken Truths About Blame in Relationships]]
[[https://bit.ly/48GnhPx How Technology is Killing the Romance]]

1) first she sleeps around (if she does this only once out of wedlock, that’s sleeping around)
2) gets pregnant
3) opts to keep the kid despite the fact that she isn’t filthy rich (or even middle class)
4) struggles to raise the kid despite the fact that she knew she wouldn’t be rich the day she gave birth
5) gets arrested while trying to provide for her kid, and yet the fact that she had sex in the first place is “our fault” (I am unaware of how I, within that “our,” demanded that she fuck as many guys as possible)

even worst is

6) the cycle repeats and she has another kid and another arrest that I and everyone else within the “our” is responsible for

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Charles Martel August 2, 2014 at 05:36
OT: Single mother tortures her son for five years, eventually killing him, for social media attention.

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Mickey T August 2, 2014 at 17:03
Second degree murder because she didn’t intentionally poison the the sick boy to death and she suffers from that rare disease.
Why bother to come up with some new pathetic excuse, when the old works fine? They’re so fuc**** unimaginative they couldn’t anyway.
Why have we been created only to be cursed?

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continent August 2, 2014 at 22:18
Off topic.
Are our elected officials so offeded by primary loss that they either blame oppponents for smear campaign or leave office before serving out their term? As A G he would have been the “top cop” for the state.
",2022-11-27,2022-11-29,,,,,,,64564,"Marriage Agency"
"13/06/2023 16:27:08","13/06/2023 16:27:08","Jardin ouvert ","Fleurs locales et de saison, une alternative aux fleurs ""industrielles""
",2023-06-18,2023-06-18,"10hoo- 18hoo",https://www.facebook.com/events/602631754956493/,Gratuit,,,"Rue du Busson, 5 ","5580 ","Buissonville/Rochefort "
"29/05/2019 15:21:53","29/05/2019 15:21:53","Journée d'échange de savoirs et savoir-faire","Dès 10h

A la Brasserie de la Lesse, 4 rue du Treux à Eprave
Divers stands d'artisans, atelier poterie, produits d'entretien, customisation textile, travail de la laine, circle sound, balade de plantes comestibles, producteurs locaux, vente de vêtement au profit de la Cantine Famennoise.
A 11h30 Concert Géométrie Variable - Folk

bar - petite restauration 

A 17h repas au profit de l'école des Petits Chemins (sur réservation)

Infos cloanciaux@skynet.be",2019-06-23,2019-06-23,,,,,,"Rue du Bonnier 12",5580,Eprave
"30/01/2025 10:21:54","30/01/2025 10:21:54",Judges,"[[https://bit.ly/4h3MvdW Should Single Guys Use Emoticons]]
[[https://bit.ly/3EiEFyw Leaving the Ghosts of an Ex Behind]]
[[https://bit.ly/4haQ6Ho Bitchiness as a Defense Mechanism: Lessons from Blogging About My Ex]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h52uZq Can You be Friends With an Ex?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4gdcbUr The Men We Know We Have No Future With…]]
[[https://bit.ly/40ocvJY Men Who Ghost Before the First Date]]
[[https://bit.ly/40sSTUX No Strings Attached is Bullshit.]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Wvgp2u Do Women Really Want Equality In Relationships?]]
[[https://bit.ly/40xMbx9 Your Best Friend the Hag]]
[[https://bit.ly/40vx4Eb Why Being Single Doesn’t Suck]]
[[https://bit.ly/40qt4oJ Rules For Hanging Out With Your Ex]]
[[https://bit.ly/4gaFyGD How to Approach Guys in a Bar]]
[[https://bit.ly/40r6vjH How NOT to Approach A Guy In A Bar]]
[[https://bit.ly/40r6wUN 8 Facts about Cheating]]

Last night the roomie and I went to our local “dive” bar for a couple of quick drinks and to celebrate the holiday weekend. I use “dive” in quotes because this is not a dive in the true sense of the word. They throw a few peanuts on the floor, sure, but the crowd is not over 60, and they play bumping music and charge a cover. SO, not really a dive bar in my book.

In any case the roomie and I opted to order martinis. Why, you ask? Two reasons. One, I am a huge fan of olives. They are delicious and I could live off them if need be. And two, because I have this nifty VIP card that gets you half off your first round of drinks. I wanted to make sure we were getting a good deal (and in my book, 2 martinis for $7 dollars is a damn good deal).

So there we are, sipping our martinis, checking out guys, dancing to some Whitney Houston and having a jolly time. We talked to a couple of guys, before I zeroed in on a guy that was actually kinda cute. Good smile, cute hair, rocking the scruff, wearing flannel and holding a blackberry. I was intrigued. I decided he must be a laid back guy who actually had a job, and therefore someone I’d like to talk to.

He and his friend were standing right next to us, so it was only a matter of time before they began chatting us up. As I start to talk to the flannel wearing dude, the first thing he brings up is my martini. He’s all incredulous that I am drinking a martini in a “dive” bar. I nicely explain to him the reasoning for said drink and he looks at me unconvinced and then says that he just assumed I was one of those ” downtown girls.” As someone who hates downtown, and hates downtown girls even more, that pissed me off a lot. But I continued to talk to him for a bit, thinking, surely, he’d change his impression once he knew more about me. Nope. He had clearly decided I was a prissy bitch and not for him.

At first, I was pissed. Who the F are you to judge me based on a drink? But then I thought about it for a bit. Aren’t we all judging all the time? I mean, didn’t I want to talk to him because he was wearing flannel and carrying a blackberry? Maybe the real lesson here is to pay closer attention to how people might perceive you. I’m not saying don’t get your martinis, I’m just saying be well aware of what that martini is saying about you. Same goes for what you wear, what color your hair is, how tall your heels are, how low your shirt is, etc.

More importantly, Mr. Judger also taught me to stay open past a snap judgment. I don’t blame this dude for originally thinking that I was prissy. But I do think it was lame to hold onto that perception even after talking with me. The incident was a great reminder for me to talk to guys I wouldn’t normally consider. Just because someone is wearing a V neck doesn’t necessarily mean they are a douche, right?

So really, allow me to take this time to say a public thank you to Mr. Judger. Sir, you taught me not one, but two, valuable dating lessons and provided me with a topic for this blog post. So thank you, Mr. Judger, and good luck meeting that someone special. Hope she likes beer.",2022-01-28,2022-01-30,,,,,,,3325,SA
"15/11/2021 09:49:57","15/11/2021 09:49:57","Justice climatique X Justice Sociale : comment agir à partir des Budgets Participatifs ?","A partir de l'expérience de la Municipalité de Molina de Segura, cette conférence nous montrera à quel point les Budgets Participatifs peuvent être des dispositifs puissants pour renforcer l'inclusion sociale, notamment en matière d'implication des jeunes, et agir pour lutter contre les dérèglements climatiques.

Intervenant·e·s :

Eliseo García Cantó, maire de Molina de Segura,
Soledad Nortes Navarro, élue en charge de la participation de Molina de Segura,
José́ Manuel Mayor Balsas, responsable du BP de Molina de Segura,
José Antonio Cano Díaz, membre de l'InterBarrios (fédération des comités d'habitant·e·s) de Molina de Segura,
Yves Cabannes, expert international des Budgets Participatifs et transition des villes.

Conférence sur les Budgets Participatifs, des dispositifs puissants pour renforcer l'inclusion sociale, notamment en matière d'implication des jeunes, et agir pour lutter contre les dérèglements climatiques.

",2021-11-22T14:30:00+00:00,2021-11-22T16:30:00+00:00,,https://framaforms.org/22112021-conference-justice-sociale-x-justice-climatique-comment-agir-a-partir-des-budgets,Gratuit,,,"Atelier 29, Rue Jacques de Lalaing",1000,Bruxelles
"24/12/2023 20:39:36","24/12/2023 20:39:36","L'alimentation pour tous - Conférence",,2024-01-12T20:00:00+01:00,2024-01-12T22:00:00+01:00,,,,,,,6900,Marche
"04/01/2019 20:58:49","04/01/2019 20:58:49","L'urgence de ralentir : projection du documentaire","Dans un monde où vitesse et immédiateté sont devenues la norme, l’humain perd ses repères et s’épuise.Certains ont décidé de s’opposer – individuellement ou collectivement – à l’accélération de la marche du monde, en mettant en route des initiatives (dont les monnaies locales) qui redonnent du sens au temps et contribuent déjà au nouveau monde de demain.",2019-01-19T20:00:00+01:00,2019-01-19T22:00:00+01:00,,,"5€ ou 4 V",,,"rue du Bonnier 12, Forzée",55,Rochefort
"02/01/2025 11:08:42","02/01/2025 11:08:42","Language Matters: How We Frame Dating Stress","[[https://bit.ly/49YWnTO More On the Nuclear Family with Children Narrative]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iX9E3k Loosening the Chains of the Nuclear Family]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iSkabY Kindness and Modern Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/4gNRM8Q How to Navigate Uncertainty in Online Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DtnDgM A Dating Suggestion to the Deeply Frustrated]]
[[https://bit.ly/49X16VV Rethinking Gender Norms in Modern Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/49STOm7 Obsessing About Strangers]]
[[https://bit.ly/49UFqJW Two Dates in One]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iRFmyN Texts Or Calls And Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Pc2lqL Men Like a Challenge]]
[[https://bit.ly/4acUVxf Men Want to Feel Manly]]
[[https://bit.ly/4gPbSQf Issues with the Language of Dating Angst]]

As for my peers… ::shrug:: They pretty much know how I roll as far as dating and mating. Quite a few of them have dated/mated interracially or are doing so now, so they just look at me.  I think they’re more amazed I’m into polyamory and burlesque than into interracial dating.

Helena: I went to winter formal with a Korean guy and I went to prom with the quarterback who was Filipino. I asked him because I’d had the hugest crush on him for more than a year. My aunts and cousins came over to house before prom to help me get dressed (we call this a “champagne party” in Cali) and they weren’t at all shocked that my date was Asian. They were impressed that he rolled up in a Beemer.

But once I got to college it seemed as if dating outside your race was much more taboo. I mean you couldn’t even kick it with other folks without being seen as a fake. I was used to eating kalbi and calling my Chinese best friend’s mom Auntie Diana, so the self-segregation in college threw me for a loop. It got so bad–me hanging with white people–that a friend, who’d eventually pledge a black sorority with me, pulled me aside to tell me that word on campus was that I “wasn’t black.” Like, huh?

Then sophomore year I actually dated a white guy for a hot week. We joked about race all the time. I think it made us feel mature and so over it. Once he asked me if I’d like to be the roast beef in his white bread sandwich. Seriously. We held hands and ate at a campus cafe together maybe two times and the streets started talking. One of my older guy friends, who my mother asked to look out for me, pulled me aside and told me that it wasn’t cool for me to date the white dude. We broke up, eventually. Because he played air guitar and it was college not because folks had a problem with it. But I still remember thinking that black men had a problem with seeing me with this white man. That was in 2000.

Tami: I dated white and Asian men casually and also had a yearlong relationship with a white guy. Like Andrea, I’ve had the experience of navigating relationships with men who have never dated black women–sometimes wading through stereotypes and exoticizing. I also connected with some really good guys. None of them ever met my parents. That wasn’t by design, though.

Ultimately, the greater barrier in my longest IR relationship was class and not race. He was raised in and continued to identify with white, ethnic, working-class Chicago. I grew up the child of degreed black professionals in a suburban environment. Our outlooks and our goals were too far apart, no matter how much we liked each other. But, as someone mentioned above, I’m not sure class would have been as much a barrier, if we had race in common. That feels strange to say.
",2023-01-27,2023-01-31,,,,,,,4234,SA
"06/02/2020 20:16:38","09/02/2020 10:14:39","La suite de la suite de l'histoire","Suite à la venue du Musée du capitalisme  à Rochefort et aux nombreuses impasses (sociales, climatiques, des ressources, de la biodiversité,..) mises en évidence, est née l'envie de poursuivre... **de continuer à écrire la suite de l'histoire et du monde que nous voulons bâtir - juste, durable et solidaire - à Rochefort et dans les environs** ! 

Une première soirée ""La suite de l'histoire"" a eu lieu le 13 janvier. Nous avons vécu un moment d'imagination collective, de rêve, de projections positives pour l'avenir. 
De cette soirée ont émergé des idées, des envies, des propositions d'actions, à réaliser, à vivre, à creuser...

Cette deuxième soirée se veut dans la continuité du 13 janvier, c'est à dire  **se retrouver pour aller plus loin dans une ambiance sympa,.** sans pression ni exigence de résultat.

**__Au programme__** : 
- Retours sur la première soirée ""La suite de l'histoire""
- Voyages en utopie, en monde rêvé et désirable : lecture de quelques textes.
- Mise en route et premiers pas dans le concret des pistes esquissées

Bienvenue à toutes et tous... que vous ayez participé ou non à la première soirée ! 


Cette soirée est organisée par trois motivées, en partenariat avec le Centre Culturel de Rochefort et le Petit Théâtre de la Grande Vie, ",2020-02-17T19:30:00+00:00,2020-02-17T22:15:00+00:00,,,gratuit,,,"CCR, Rue de Behogne 5",5580,Rochefort
"15/05/2019 09:39:05","15/05/2019 09:39:05","Le charbon végétal … une technique ancestrale et novatrice ?...","De par le monde, quantité d’expériences ont été faites dans une série de domaines comme l’agriculture, la maraîchage, la sylviculture, … et semblent apporter des réponses aux différents défis que nous connaissons aujourd’hui, comme la dégradation des sols, l’augmentation des gaz à effets de serre, la sécheresse, …
« Le biochar est vu par ses adeptes comme un moyen de « soigner la Terre comme la Terre souhaiterait être soignée » (Albert Bates).
Afin de comprendre le débat autour de cette question, il faut se pencher sur les propriétés de stockage du carbone par le biochar ainsi que sur ses performances en tant que catalyseur pour stimuler la formation d'humus ou pour améliorer la conversion de nourriture végétale en protéines animales par les animaux de ferme.

3 personnes ressources viendront en parler et échanger sur leurs expériences, film à l’appui.  L’après-midi, visite d’une ferme maraichère où le biochar est utilisé en culture et en alimentation animale. Nous visiterons également la chaudière de production de biochar. Cette dernière permet de chauffer les serres.
Prendre son pique-nique. Paf : gratuit. Inscription souhaitée : 
Michèle Zeidler : 0498/12 01 39 ou Chantal Van Pevenage : infos@terrenourricière.be - http://www.terrenourricière.be/agenda ",2019-06-08T09:00:00+02:00,2019-06-08T16:00:00+02:00,,,"Gratuit sur inscription",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/LeCharbonVegetalUneTechniqueAncestraleE_charbon.png,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/LeCharbonVegetalUneTechniqueAncestraleE_fichier_charbon.pdf,"Maison de Village, rue Lahaut 3 (à côté du centre ",6950,Nassogne
"19/02/2020 09:57:19","19/02/2020 09:57:19","Le Nord : Chantier participatif - terre crue","Samedi 22 février, à la ferme agroécologique ""Le Nord"" nous avons besoin d’aide pour finir notre nouvelle serre à semis !
On ouvre donc un chantier participatif de 10h à 17h. L’objectif: mettre en place le banc à semis, qui est une masse d’inertie thermique constituée de pierres et d’un mélange argile/sable (terre crue). Il y aura donc des choses physiques à réaliser et d’autres un peu moins ;)
Venez la journée, ou une demi-journée, avec vos enfants ou parents. Il s’agira aussi beaucoup de faire des boules de terre ;)
Si vous venez la journée, prévoyez un petit pique-nique, nous vous ferons un mesclun garni des jardins du Nord :)
Café et thé chauds toute la journée aussi bien sûr !
Dites-nous si vous venez qu’on s’organise.
Des bisous.
Vos maraîcher.es du Nord
",2020-02-22T10:00:00+00:00,2020-02-22T17:00:00+00:00,,https://www.facebook.com/events/544478702833063/,gratuit,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/LeNordChantierParticipatifTerreCrue_whatsapp-image-2020-02-19-at-10.43.02.jpeg,,"Le Nord - Rue de Haid, 36 - 5580 Buissonville",5580,Buissonville
"10/02/2020 18:03:58","10/02/2020 17:13:21","Le Quatuor à Cornes (film d'animation jeune public)","Aglaé la pipelette, Rosine la tête en l'air, Clarisse la peureuse et Marguerite la coquette ne se contentent pas de regarder passer les trains. Ce petit troupeau de vaches vous entraîne dans ses aventures à travers ce programme de 3 courts-meuhtrages plein de tendresse et d'humour. 

De Arnaud Demuynck, Benjamin Botella, Emmanuelle Gorgiard et Pascale Hecquet
Film d'animation jeune public - Belgique/France - 2018 - 42'

Dans le cadre du Festival À TRAVERS CHAMPS",2020-03-25T14:00:00+00:00,2020-03-25T15:00:00+00:00,,https://www.festival-atraverschamps.be,"Film : 5 € / Art. 27 : 1,25 €",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/LeQuatuorACornesFilmDAnimationJeunePub_quatuoracornes.jpg,,"Centre Culturel des Roches : 5, rue de Behogne",5580,Rochefort
"15/11/2021 09:59:06","15/11/2021 09:59:06","Les Budgets Participatifs, un outil au service de la transition écologique","La conférence nous plongera dans les résultats de la récente étude menée par l'OIDP (Organisation Internationale de la Démocratie Participative) sur l'impact des Budgets Participatifs en matière de transition climatique. Un tour d'horizon mondial à travers une multitude d'expériences issues des différents continents.",2021-11-23T18:00:00+00:00,2021-11-23T20:00:00+00:00,,https://framaforms.org/23112021-etude-raisons-de-la-non-participation-conference-bp-outil-de-transition-ecologique,Gratuit,,,"Salle Arsenal - Rue Bruno 11",5000,Namur
"10/02/2020 18:30:39","10/02/2020 18:30:39","Les rencontres de l'écologie politique","**L’écologie politique** a parcouru un chemin considérable depuis les années 70. Son projet n’a jamais cessé d’évoluer face à un contexte en perpétuelle mutation : crise climatique, numérisation, extractivisme effréné, populismes…

Vous voulez participer aux débats de l’écologie politique du XXIe siècle ? Alors** Etopia **vous invite à venir débattre mi-mars 2020 avec de nombreux penseurs et activistes écologistes d’aujourd’hui, des anciens comme des plus jeunes.

Quatre jours durant se succéderont treize conférences, sept séminaires, des ateliers participatifs, des GreenTalks et des installations artistiques autour d’un thème central : « écologie ou barbarie ». Y seront abordés la place des technologies, l’écoféminisme, la post-croissance, l’Etat-social écologique, la démocratie à l’ère de l’anthropocène, les communs, les luttes de territoires, le populisme, etc.

Avec Vandana Shiva, Edgar Morin, Mohamed Taleb, Isabelle Stengers, Dominique Bourg, Eloi Laurent, Dominique Meda, Catherine Larrère, Paul Lannoye, Olivier De Schutter, Sophie Swaton, Jean-Baptiste Fressoz, Jean De Munck, Michel Bauwens, Géraldine Thiry, Edwin Zaccai, Raphaël Stevens, etc. Et puis… vous !",2020-03-12,2020-03-15,,https://rep.etopia.be,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/LesRencontresDeLEcologiePolitique_rencontresecologiepolitique.jpg,,"Tour et Taxis",1000,Bruxelles
"02/03/2023 14:46:53","02/03/2023 14:47:23","Les Rencontres du Commun - ou Comment faire commun face à ce qui nous arrive ? au petit théâtre de la Grande Vie !",,2023-03-24,2023-03-24,"8h30 - 17h30",http://www.ptgv.be/les-rencontres-du-commun,"participation libre et consciente (paiement en liquide sur place)  (prix conseillé : 10 euros -> payez ce que vous pouvez/voulez) ",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/LesRencontresDuCommunOuCommentFaireCom_visuel-rencontres-du-commun.jpg,,"Le petit théâtre de la Grande Vie",5580,Forzée
"22/02/2016 16:35:27","22/02/2016 16:35:27","Le Voltî - soirée d'info - Ciney","====Une monnaie locale bientôt en circulation dans la région  Marche -Rochefort  – Nassogne  - Ciney !====
Envie d’en savoir plus ? de discuter de ce projet ? 
Les initiateurs vous invitent à une soirée de   présentation/discussion.

**Au programme** :  Vidéo illustrant le sujet - Présentation de l’avancement du projet -Discussion ",2016-03-22T20:00:00+01:00,2016-03-22T22:00:00+01:00,,http://coop-site.net/rochefort/wakka.php?wiki=MonnaiElocale,gratuit,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/fichier_Invitation_3reunions_presentation_Volti.doc,"Maison citoyenne rue Charles Capelle 19",5590,Ciney
"22/02/2016 16:31:29","22/02/2016 16:32:05","Le Voltî - soirée d'info - Nassogne","====Une monnaie locale bientôt en circulation dans la région  Marche -Rochefort  – Nassogne  - Ciney !====
Envie d’en savoir plus ? de discuter de ce projet ? 
Les initiateurs vous invitent à une soirée de   présentation/discussion.

**Au programme** :  Vidéo illustrant le sujet - Présentation de l’avancement du projet -Discussion ",2016-03-21T20:00:00+01:00,2016-03-21T22:00:00+01:00,,http://coop-site.net/rochefort/wakka.php?wiki=MonnaiElocale,gratuit,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/fichier_Invitation_3reunions_presentation_Volti.doc,"Maison rurale , rue de Lahaut",6950,Nassogne
"22/02/2016 16:24:40","22/02/2016 16:27:22","Le Voltî - soirée d'info Rochefort","====Une monnaie locale bientôt en circulation dans la région  Marche -Rochefort  – Nassogne  - Ciney !====
Envie d’en savoir plus ? de discuter de ce projet ? 
Les initiateurs vous invitent à une soirée de   présentation/discussion.

**Au programme** :  Vidéo illustrant le sujet - Présentation de l’avancement du projet -Discussion ",2016-03-16T20:00:00+01:00,2016-03-16T22:00:00+01:00,,http://coop-site.net/rochefort/wakka.php?wiki=MonnaiElocale,gratuit,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/fichier_Invitation_3reunions_presentation_Volti.doc,"Centre culturel, rue de Behogne 5",5580,Rochefort
"07/04/2016 21:07:17","07/04/2016 21:07:17","Macrhgé fermier Colibris","Marché fermier mensuel qui se décentralise dans un nouveau lieu à Lessive.
Producteurs locaux et de saison : pains, produits laitiers, légumes, safran, bières,.... Epicerie du commerce équitable - Produits de soin.
A 20H : musique et bal folk avec ""Quai des vives"". Airs maritimes à chante et à danser, avec un équipage qui vous fera larguer les amarres et naviguer à travers vents et marées…",2016-04-16T15:00:00+02:00,2016-04-16T19:00:00+02:00,"A 20H : soirée folk",,,,,"rue de la Digue",5580,Lessive-Rochefort
"10/03/2017 11:35:53","10/03/2017 11:06:37","Marché fermier","Présentation du projet du GT Semences, échanges de semences et animations au sein du marché fermier des Colibris-Famenne à Malagne, dans le contexte de la journée ""Terre et Eau"".  
",2017-03-25T15:00:00+00:00,2017-03-25T19:00:00+00:00,,,,,,"Rue du Coirbois 85 ",5580,ROCHEFORT
"12/11/2019 21:08:33","12/11/2019 21:08:33","Marché fermier",,2019-11-16T15:00:00+00:00,2019-11-16T19:00:00+00:00,,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MarcheFermier4_wavreille-nov.png,,,5580,Wavreille
"10/03/2017 12:12:42","10/03/2017 11:21:08","Marché fermier. ","Présentation du projet du GT Semences, échanges de semences et animations au sein du marché fermier des Colibris-Famenne à Malagne, dans le contexte de la journée ""Terre et Eau"".",2017-03-25T15:00:00+00:00,2017-03-25T19:00:00+00:00,,,,,,"Rue du Corbois 85",5508,Malagne
"23/02/2016 21:37:32","23/02/2016 21:37:32","Marché fermier à Malagne","Marché fermier mensuel : produits locaux, sains et de saison : pains, formages, légumes, vinaigres,.... épicerie du commerce équitable, produits de soin et d 'entretien, animation.",2016-03-26,2016-03-26,"de 13 à 18H",,"entrée gratuite",,,"Rue du Coirbois 85",5580,Rochefort
"12/12/2015 11:37:09","12/12/2015 12:13:54","Marché fermier Colibris","Marché fermier des Colibris-Famenne au sein du marché de Noël de Rochefort. ",2015-12-19,2015-12-19,"15h00 - 19h00",,,,,"Devant le Centre culturel des roches. ",5580,Rochefort
"12/03/2019 11:48:51","12/03/2019 11:48:52","Marché fermier Colibris","Des produits sains et locaux respectueux de la Terre et des Hommes. Ambiance super sympa!",2019-03-16,2019-03-16,"15H à 19H",,,"https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MarcheFermierColibris2_lessive,-marche-fermier-16-mars-logo.jpg",,"Rue de l'île 6",5580,Lessive
"24/02/2016 20:47:28","24/02/2016 20:47:28","Marché fermier Colibris",,2016-02-20,2016-02-20,"15h00 - 19h00",,,,,"Rue du Bonnier 12",5580,Forzée
"11/09/2019 16:44:27","11/09/2019 16:44:27","Marché fermier Colibris","Marché de produits locaux et biologiques dans la ferme d'un producteur : produits laitiers, légumes, pains, miel, épices, vinaigres,volailles, épicerie du commerce équitable, ,... tout ce qu'il faut pour remplir votre frigo de bons produits! Mais aussi : produits cosmétiques et de soin, artisanat,..., bar, animations et petite restauration. Ce 21 septembre, le marché est accueilli par Les Pousses Vertes (maraîchage bio) à Havrenne.
Une organisation des Colibris-Famenne : 083/61.32.60.",2019-09-21T15:00:00+00:00,2019-09-21T19:00:00+00:00,,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MarcheFermierColibris4_marchés-fermiers-aout-septembre.jpg,,"Rue de Humain 27",5580,Havrenne
"11/07/2019 10:42:25","11/07/2019 10:42:26","Marché fermier Colibris ","Produits locaux et bio - commerce équitable - ambiance sympa dans une ferme de la région",2019-07-20T15:00:00+02:00,2019-07-20T19:00:00+02:00,,http://rochefortentransition.org/?MarcheF,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MarcheFermierColibris3_marchés-fermiers-aout-septembre.jpg,,"Rue du repos 31",5580,Wavreille
"27/05/2019 22:04:25","15/04/2021 15:36:14","Marché fermier Colibris - Les Basses","En ce mois de juin, le marché de produits locaux et biologiques dans la ferme d'un producteur se fera autour des terrains de maraîchage d'Emile et Camille aux Basses. Produits laitiers, légumes, pains, miel, épices, vinaigres,volailles, épicerie du commerce équitable, produits cosmétiques et de soin,... tout ce qu'il faut pour remplir votre frigo de bons produits avoir des [[https://bell-mira.com/ cils magnétique irrésistibles]]! Bar et petite restauration.
Une organisation des Colibris-Famenne : 083/61.32.60.",2019-06-15T15:00:00+02:00,2019-06-15T19:00:00+02:00,,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MarcheFermierColibrisFermeMarion_marchés-fermiers-multi-4-dates.jpg,,"15 rue de Vérenne",5590,"Les Basses"
"02/03/2020 19:05:44","15/04/2021 15:38:28","Marché fermier local, éthique et responsable","Marché fermier local, éthique et responsable,  de 15h à 19h au petit théâtre de la Grande Vie ! 
Venez rencontrer les producteurs·trices et les artisan·e·s de la région ! 
Légumes, épicerie du commerce équitable, pains, miel, jus, produits laitiers, viandes, bières artisanales, farines, café, bijoux/cuir, cosmétiques, vêtements...  Bar et petite restauration seront au rendez-vous, le tout dans une ambiance conviviale !

18h : concert de PANG - Rap 100% bio - gratuit
20h : Projection du film ""L'illusion verte"", dans le cadre du festival À travers champs -  tarif : 5€ ou Voltîs.

Il s'agit de la première édition  de l'année 2020 : tous les 3e samedis du mois (de mars à novembre), un Marché fermier prend place dans les environs de Rochefort, à chaque fois dans une ferme différente (ou autre lieu partenaire). L'occasion de passer un moment en famille et entre ami·e·s dans un cadre convivial tout en soutenant les circuits courts et l’agriculture biologique nourricière! Cette initiative est organisée par Colibris-Famenne, avec le soutien du petit théâtre de la Grande Vie.

Plus d'infos sur l'événement du 21 mars : http://[[https://bell-mira.com/ www]].lepetittheatredelagrandevie.com
Sur les marchés fermiers : https://rochefortentransition.org/?MarcheF
Sur le festival À travers champs : http://www.festival-atraverschamps.be/
",2020-03-21T15:00:00+01:00,2020-03-21T19:00:00+01:00,,http://www.lepetittheatredelagrandevie.com,gratuit,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MarcheFermier5_21-03-recto-marché-fermier-pang.jpg,,"petit théâtre de la Grande Vie - 12 rue du Bonnier",5580,Forzée
"06/12/2018 22:02:23","03/01/2019 20:49:46","Marche pour la Justice migratoire","Nous n'avons pas été entendus alors continuons !

Parce-que les luttes contre le réchauffement climatique et pour la justice migratoire sont des combats qui se rejoignent, nous apportons notre soutien au rassemblement pour la justice migratoire (on attend, selon les scientifiques, entre 250 millions à un milliard de réfugiés climatiques d'ici 2050). Nous devons tout mettre en oeuvre pour pousser nos décideurs à respecter les accords de Paris. Parce que nous n'avons pas d'autres choix que de continuer à nous mobiliser. Ils ne comprennent pas ? Tapons sur le clou ! Action ! ",2019-01-12T14:00:00+01:00,2019-01-12T18:00:00+01:00,,https://www.facebook.com/events/356858491781908/,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MarchePourLaJusticeMigratorie_46765985_2470136936333775_1880187711248138240_n.jpg,,,1030,Bruxelles
"22/02/2019 11:35:39","22/02/2019 11:35:39","Marche pour le climat","Marche pour le climat organisée dans le cadre du printemps climatique.",2019-03-16T14:00:00+01:00,2019-02-16T00:00:00+01:00,"Marche pour le climat: à partir de 14h suivie d'un marché fermier de 15h à 19h",,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MarchePourLeClimat_52887013_2136113303111378_8124357525773484032_n.jpg,,,5580,Lessive
"22/02/2019 15:48:36","22/02/2019 15:48:36","Marché R.E.L.A.I.S","Le marché RELAIS déménage le temps d'une après-midi",2019-03-15T16:00:00+01:00,2019-03-15T19:00:00+01:00,,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MarcheRELAIS_relais.jpg,,"rue de Behogne, 5",5580,Rochefort
"02/04/2025 15:20:37","02/04/2025 15:21:02","Martin, Part Two","<p><a href=""https://relationships.milaulas.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=My%20Husband%20Nags%20Me%20About%20Being%20Overweight"">My Husband Nags Me About Being Overweight</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://marriage.milaulas.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=My%20Husband%20Is%20Old-Fashioned%20and%20Sexist"">My Husband Is Old-Fashioned and Sexist</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://marriage.gnomio.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=My%20Husband%27s%20Drinking%20Is%20Ruining%20Our%20Marriage"">My Husband's Drinking Is Ruining Our Marriage</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://loveawake.gnomio.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=My%20Infertility%20Is%20Ruining%20Our%20Marriage"">My Infertility Is Ruining Our Marriage</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://dates.gnomio.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=My%20Sick%20Husband%20Got%20Better%20and%20Our%20Marriage%20Got%20Worse"">My Sick Husband Got Better and Our Marriage Got Worse</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://dating.milaulas.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=My%20Stepdaughter%20Is%20Coming%20Between%20Us"">My Stepdaughter Is Coming Between Us</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://onlinecampus.fernfh.ac.at/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Reasons%20Why%20Black%20Women%20Should%20Date%20Non-Black%20Men"">Reasons Why Black Women Should Date Non-Black Men</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://onlinecampus.fernfh.ac.at/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Black%20Women%20%7C%20Black%20Families%20%7C%20Polyamory"">Black Women | Black Families | Polyamory</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://open.insa-toulouse.fr/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=The%20BS%20Confident%20Women%20Never%20Tolerate%20From%20Men"">The BS Confident Women Never Tolerate From Men</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://open.uj.edu.pl/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=3%20Things%20You%20Can%20Learn%20From%20My%20Failed%20Relationship"">3 Things You Can Learn From My Failed Relationship</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://opencourses.uoc.gr/courses/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Things%20Men%20Say%20When%20We%E2%80%99re%20Just%20Running%20Dating%20Game"">Things Men Say When We’re Just Running Dating Game</a></p>
<p lang=""x-none""><a href=""https://openlearning.aalto.fi/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Why%20Is%20It%20So%20Hard%20to%20Be%20Friends%20With%20an%20Ex%3F"">Why Is It So Hard to Be Friends With an Ex?</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://pedagogija.net/moodle/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=The%20Awkward%20Missing%20Piece%20of%20the%20New%20Dating%20Puzzle"">The Awkward Missing Piece of the New Dating Puzzle</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://planetinteractive.us/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Not%20EVERY%20First%20Date%20is%20a%20Winner%E2%80%A6"">Not EVERY First Date is a Winner…</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://pori.mmg.fi/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Most%20Traumatizing%20First%20Kiss%20Ever"">Most Traumatizing First Kiss Ever</a></p>

A few weeks (and a few more dates) in -- still enjoying Martin's company. It doesn't seem like the casual fling that I had envisioned -- go figure, I'm starting to like like the guy! And the feeling seems to be mutual. Over a lovely dinner this week, he told me that he was really happy to be at that place at that very moment... with me.

I still have my guard up, but at the moment, I'm just taking this day by day, and enjoying it.

This dilemma always seems to come up in the early days of dating someone: we're nowhere close to declaring exclusivity with each other, but it just doesn't feel right to date other guys at this time. This mainly comes from my ridiculous paranoia, imagining the awkwardness of being out with Some New Guy, and running into Martin (after having said goodbye to him maybe ten hours prior, that very morning). I know -- New York is a big city, and it's unlikely -- but not impossible.

Saying that -- I recently talked to a new J-guy, and while I'm not exactly wowed by him, I'm contemplating a drink with him this week. I've been trying to think of places to meet for a drink where I'm unlikely to run into Martin... but I'd rather not shlep up to the Upper East Side unless absolutely necessary.
",2022-04-08,2022-04-17,,http://google.com,,,,,3244,SAD
"19/12/2024 10:43:15","19/12/2024 10:43:15","Misunderstood Gestures: When Chivalry Misses the Mark","[[https://bit.ly/3BDqpzx The Wingwoman]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VEN84T Change You Can Believe In: Yourself]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VJDLkO Quick to Pass Judgment]]
[[https://bit.ly/41z2ZGa Why Some People Hate Valentine’s Day]]
[[https://bit.ly/41GcK5f I’m Single on Valentine’s Day]]
[[https://bit.ly/41Eo164 My Secret Social Identity]]
[[https://bit.ly/49MGdNc What Exactly Is Dating? It’s Ambiguous.]]
[[https://bit.ly/41DssOE Why Love Is Not a First Sight Thing]]
[[https://bit.ly/41Ge48n Chivalry Makes Women Feel Good]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Bz0sRH Relationship Experts: Hate The Player Or The Game?]]
[[https://bit.ly/41ABtbl The Double Standard of Men and Women]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VGO20U The Double Standard of Men and Women]]
[[https://bit.ly/3BmqveY The Double Standard of Men and Women]]
[[https://bit.ly/41A5KHe 8 Ways to Make a Guy Not Want to Sleep with You]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VGgYGr 8 Ways to Make a Woman NOT Want to Sleep with You]]


Not all people have the perfect instincts that that are required to be able to discern the players from the good guys, upon one meeting. But perhaps that is only something that can be learned from trial and error. Maybe if you wrote an article on how to know which guys will treat us with respect and honor our individual feelings, whatever they may be, women might be more free to enjoy themselves without worry.

Also I have to say, when you mentioned that you would consider calling another woman if you didn’t have sex with the one you were with, I was completely turned off. In fact I have literally had someone do this to me when I refused to hook up, and it made me so grateful that I hadn’t hooked up with the person. It also pretty much ruined the guy’s chances with me. Obviously, your situation was different and it worked out better for you, but I just wanted to give my opinion.

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33jackie March 17, 2011 at 8:54 AM
Marilyn, thank you for a detailed and thoughtful response. The purpose of this essay was never to become proponent for early intimacy; rather to debunk the myths associated with it. I advocate getting “to know a woman as a human being and not just the Guardian at the Gates of the Temple Punani.” I also clearly state “There’s just no rush to jump in bed, it’s going to happen when it’s going to happen,” and I sincerely believe that. I understand and support the need to feel comfortable and there’s no hard fast rule for when this happens for any couple. Dating is a vetting process, and anyone who says they’ve never regretted having slept with someone is a liar.

As for the need to employ instincts above the pull of heart (and loins) I’ve both written about it as well as posted a video about how to recognize players. In either case, it is never okay to pressure someone for sex. Realistically the option to find another willing body always exists for both parties; hopefully the decision to engage sexually can be made out of genuine desire and not lack of fear.
",2019-10-03,2020-06-24,,,,,,,3515,SA
"16/10/2019 20:21:11","16/10/2019 18:22:29","Musée du capitalisme","Une exposition innovante sur notre système économique et culturel au contenu accessible à un large public, à travers une ambiance interactive et agréable à visiter.  
Cheminement en 4 étapes : origines, espoirs, limites et alternatives du capitalisme, en abordant des thèmes comme l'alimentation, la santé, la consommation ou la finance…

Ouvert du mardi au dimanche de 14h à 17h
Bâtiments de l'ancienne Justice de Paix, Rue de Sauvenière – 5580 Rochefort 
 
Visite guidée sur réservation 
les mercredi, samedi et dimanche
CIDJ : 084 22 30 73 pendant les heures de bureau",2019-11-12,2019-12-14,,http://rochefortentransition.org/?CapI,"2€ ou 2 Volti",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MuseeDuCapitalisme_musee-capitalisme-plus-petit.png,,"Rue Sauvenière",5580,Rochefort
"21/10/2019 18:07:50","04/10/2024 17:51:27","Musée du capitalisme : Focus Alternative","**__====Cycle de 4  lundis à 19h30====__**
**Visites/soirées ""Le début d'une nouvelle histoire"" : découvrez le Musée du Capitalisme et les alternatives locales qui sont autant d'éléments d'une nouvelle histoire à construire.**
 
**18/11 à 19H30** :  visite de l'expo interactive et pourquoi/comment construire une autre histoire ?
 
**25/11 à 19H30** : Focus ""alimentation"" : producteurs et transformateurs locaux
 
**2/12 à 19H30** :  Focus ""argent"" : Voltî, Ciro SEL, New B
 
**9/12  à 19H30**: Focus ""consommation"" : marché de produits locaux, Repair café, seconde-main,...
 
**Et en bonus le 13/01** : un moment d'imagination collective pour continuer à inventer la suite de l'histoire.  Que manque-t-il pour que notre région soit de plus en plus autonome, solidaire, organisée en un mot plus résiliente*? 
 
*(capacité d'une communauté humaine de ne pas s'effondrer au premier signe d'une pénurie (énergies fossiles, eau, nourriture,...) mais au contraire capacité à se réorganiser en intégrant ce changement, tout en conservant une même structure et une même capacité de réaction).
 

[[https://aulavirtual.cultura.pe/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=feminismo Random And Made Up Relationship Statistics That Are Indisputable]]
[[https://educaciodigital.cat/cfanougirona/moodle/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Whip%20Appeal%3A%20Why%20She%20Has%20It Signs That She’ll Probably Put It On You]]
[[https://esbowebbinstitutet.fi/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=The%20Best%20Dating%20Advice%20For%20a%20Man The Best Dating Advice For a Man]]
[[https://escuela.confiar.coop/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Why%20Monogamy%3F Why Monogamy?]]
[[https://esjfalcao-m.ccems.pt/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=5%20Selfish%20Reasons%20Why%20I%E2%80%99ve%20Never%20Cheated 5 Selfish Reasons Why I’ve Never Cheated]]
[[https://etrp.wmo.int/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Social%20Networking%20Intraux%20Pas%3A%20Don%E2%80%99t%20Do%20This Social Networking Intraux Pas: Don’t Do This]]
[[https://eufmdlearning.works/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=I%E2%80%99d%20Rather%20Be%20A%20Father%20Than%20A%20Husband I’d Rather Be A Father Than A Husband]]
[[https://euipo.europa.eu/knowledge/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Is%20Lil%20Wayne%20Actually%20Teaching%20Us%20How%20To%20Love%3F Is Lil Wayne Actually Teaching Us How To Love?]]
[[https://eva.ecdc.europa.eu/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=What%20It%20Is%20Like%20Dating%20Someone%20Breathtaking%3F What It Is Like Dating Someone Breathtaking?]]
[[https://eworks102.trainingvc.com.au/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Reviewed%20by%20Sriram Why “The Approach” Is The Hardest Thing Any Adult Has To Learn How to Do]]",2019-11-18T19:30:00+01:00,2019-11-18T22:00:00+01:00,,https://rochefortentransition.org/?CapI,"2€ ou 2 Volti",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MuseeDuCapitalismeFocusAlternative_musee-capitalisme-plus-petit-petit.png,,"Ancienne Justice de Paix, rue Sauvenière",5580,Rochefort
"21/10/2019 16:05:19","21/10/2019 16:05:19","Musée du capitalisme : Focus Alternative","**__====Cycle de 4  lundis à 19h30====__**
**Visites/soirées ""Le début d'une nouvelle histoire"" : découvrez le Musée du Capitalisme et les alternatives locales qui sont autant d'éléments d'une nouvelle histoire à construire.**
 
**18/11 à 19H30** :  visite de l'expo interactive et pourquoi/comment construire une autre histoire ?
 
**25/11 à 19H30** : Focus ""alimentation"" : producteurs et transformateurs locaux
 
**2/12 à 19H30** :  Focus ""argent"" : Voltî, Ciro SEL, New B
 
**9/12  à 19H30**: Focus ""consommation"" : marché de produits locaux, Repair café, seconde-main,...
 
**Et en bonus le 13/01** : un moment d'imagination collective pour continuer à inventer la suite de l'histoire.  Que manque-t-il pour que notre région soit de plus en plus autonome, solidaire, organisée en un mot plus résiliente*? 
 
*(capacité d'une communauté humaine de ne pas s'effondrer au premier signe d'une pénurie (énergies fossiles, eau, nourriture,...) mais au contraire capacité à se réorganiser en intégrant ce changement, tout en conservant une même structure et une même capacité de réaction).
 
",2019-12-09T19:30:00+00:00,2019-12-09T22:00:00+00:00,,https://rochefortentransition.org/?CapI,"2€ ou 2 Volti",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MuseeDuCapitalismeFocusAlternative2_musee-capitalisme-plus-petit-petit.png,,"Ancienne Justice de Paix, rue Sauvenière",5,Rochefort
"21/10/2019 16:06:14","21/10/2019 16:06:14","Musée du capitalisme : Focus Alternative","**__====Cycle de 4  lundis à 19h30====__**
**Visites/soirées ""Le début d'une nouvelle histoire"" : découvrez le Musée du Capitalisme et les alternatives locales qui sont autant d'éléments d'une nouvelle histoire à construire.**
 
**18/11 à 19H30** :  visite de l'expo interactive et pourquoi/comment construire une autre histoire ?
 
**25/11 à 19H30** : Focus ""alimentation"" : producteurs et transformateurs locaux
 
**2/12 à 19H30** :  Focus ""argent"" : Voltî, Ciro SEL, New B
 
**9/12  à 19H30**: Focus ""consommation"" : marché de produits locaux, Repair café, seconde-main,...
 
**Et en bonus le 13/01** : un moment d'imagination collective pour continuer à inventer la suite de l'histoire.  Que manque-t-il pour que notre région soit de plus en plus autonome, solidaire, organisée en un mot plus résiliente*? 
 
*(capacité d'une communauté humaine de ne pas s'effondrer au premier signe d'une pénurie (énergies fossiles, eau, nourriture,...) mais au contraire capacité à se réorganiser en intégrant ce changement, tout en conservant une même structure et une même capacité de réaction).
 
",2019-12-02T19:30:00+00:00,2019-12-02T22:00:00+00:00,,https://rochefortentransition.org/?CapI,"2€ ou 2 Volti",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MuseeDuCapitalismeFocusAlternative3_musee-capitalisme-plus-petit-petit.png,,"Ancienne Justice de Paix, rue Sauvenière",5580,Rochefort
"21/10/2019 16:07:06","21/10/2019 16:07:06","Musée du capitalisme : Focus Alternative","**__====Cycle de 4  lundis à 19h30====__**
**Visites/soirées ""Le début d'une nouvelle histoire"" : découvrez le Musée du Capitalisme et les alternatives locales qui sont autant d'éléments d'une nouvelle histoire à construire.**
 
**18/11 à 19H30** :  visite de l'expo interactive et pourquoi/comment construire une autre histoire ?
 
**25/11 à 19H30** : Focus ""alimentation"" : producteurs et transformateurs locaux
 
**2/12 à 19H30** :  Focus ""argent"" : Voltî, Ciro SEL, New B
 
**9/12  à 19H30**: Focus ""consommation"" : marché de produits locaux, Repair café, seconde-main,...
 
**Et en bonus le 13/01** : un moment d'imagination collective pour continuer à inventer la suite de l'histoire.  Que manque-t-il pour que notre région soit de plus en plus autonome, solidaire, organisée en un mot plus résiliente*? 
 
*(capacité d'une communauté humaine de ne pas s'effondrer au premier signe d'une pénurie (énergies fossiles, eau, nourriture,...) mais au contraire capacité à se réorganiser en intégrant ce changement, tout en conservant une même structure et une même capacité de réaction).
 
",2019-11-25T19:30:00+00:00,2019-11-25T22:00:00+00:00,,https://rochefortentransition.org/?CapI,"2€ ou 2 Volti",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/MuseeDuCapitalismeFocusAlternative4_musee-capitalisme-plus-petit-petit.png,,"Ancienne Justice de Paix, rue Sauvenière",5580,Rochefort
"08/01/2025 09:18:52","08/01/2025 09:18:52"," My first heartbreak","[[https://bit.ly/4a8WpIB An Ode to Emily]]
[[https://bit.ly/3PqnoFX More Than Meets The Eyes]]
[[https://bit.ly/40ohyLQ Should I Tell Her How I Feel?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4aeydEU The Play Date]]
[[https://bit.ly/4a9vj3X Dogs, Cats, and the Art of Dating: Lessons from the Cab Ride]]
[[https://bit.ly/4aofffb The Colorado Connection That Could Never Be]]
[[https://bit.ly/3PqnoWt When Love Feels Like a DIY Project: The Fixer-Upper Dilemma]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DG5ug2 Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others]]
[[https://bit.ly/4a5OThE Should You Settle?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4a3xgPz Is There Hope For The Gender Gap?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Poz1x5 Cheating is a Cop Out]]
[[https://bit.ly/4a5TuQU The Dance of Second Chances]]

Her name was Nicole. I had actually met her a few years earlier as she was one of my mom’s students in middle school. Now we were in high school and she was…oh my, the greatest thing ever. We had been friendly, she moreso than me because I was still painfully shy at that point. We’d made plans to hang out one day when something happened. She grabbed my hand while we were walking and just held on. Hey, I thought to myself, I really like this.

When we said goodbye, she gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I felt like I finally had someone that liked me. I mean, those are all good signs, right? We hung out a couple of other times and the handholding continued. I was getting excited and decided that it was time to officially ask her on a date. I called her up one day intending to ask but before I even got the chance she started talking about how she didn’t want to date anyone, how she couldn’t imagine having a boyfriend, etc. She wasn’t mentioning me specifically, though it did put a halt on my plans. No problem, I told myself, I’ll just wait.

After school one day I thought I’d swing by her locker to say hi. Her locker was on the other side of the building from mine, but on the same floor right by the exit. It was easy for me to grab my stuff and then walk by on my way out. As I got closer I could see she wasn’t alone at her locker, it looked like my friend Dan was there. Yes, it was Dan, cool. I got a little closer and the picture became clearer…and I started to feel sick. There was Nicole, my crush, and Dan, my friend, making out in front of her locker. I’m pretty sure my jaw dropped and I pondered what I should do. Do I say something? If so, what do I say? I caught myself staring and so did the only thing I could think to do: I ducked into the nearest classroom and moved away from the door. I could feel the tears welling up in my eyes and the nausea growing in my stomach. I took several deep breaths and waited five minutes until I was sure that they were gone.

I was absolutely devastated. I’m pretty sure I went home and cried for about an hour until there was not a drop of moisture left in my body from which tears could be formed. I felt so betrayed and sick. She had toyed with my emotions and lied to me. I never really recovered from that scene, and she never really understood why I wasn’t talking to her that much anymore.",2019-01-01,2023-05-08,,,,,,,2132142,SSA
"13/11/2024 16:42:49","13/11/2024 16:42:49","My husband asked a woman he knows to send him pictures of her boobs. Why would he do that?","[[https://bit.ly/3ALVd0r What It’s Like to Be a Guy]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YJGBqn Do You Want Me To Come Over or Nah?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YIxExO The Top 10 Natural PUA Film Characters]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YNN1Vu Six Fundamental Rules Of Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/48NziTt She's Out Of My League?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YJdd3C 6 Simple Ways To Attract Guys]]
[[https://bit.ly/48JPXqI 4 Things You Should Know About Arguing With Your Man]]
[[https://bit.ly/3APtCLQ A Guide to Recognizing Red Flags in Online Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YD19Ri My Worst One Nite Stand Competition]]
[[https://bit.ly/4ergOJz Is Friend With Benefits Really Possible?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4foiapx How White People Date]]
[[https://bit.ly/48ThypK Letter From An Ex-Girlfriend]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YNw7GN Seducing Someone More Attractive Than You]]

Because he's a scumbag and wants to cheat on you. He may not think it's cheating, but it is. Oh, it is. Even if he hasn't slept with her, sexting and asking for nude photos is cheating. 

If your husband is asking for nude photos from other women, it's safe to say it's over. There's really no ambiguity here. He's doing it because he wants to cheat and isn't man enough to end the marriage. So do him and yourself a favor and dump him immediately. 

It's amazing how many ways people can cheat now, right? Back in the old days, you actually had to drive to a motel with your secretary and book a room to see her naked. Now you just ask for a photo over a text. Cheaters are so lazy these days! 

Anyway, dump him. You deserve better. ",2021-11-18,2021-11-22,,,,,,,4534,"Dating Services"
"06/11/2024 16:53:42","06/11/2024 16:53:42","Name Game: Does It Matter in Love?","[[https://bit.ly/3CesTEu Things You Should Never Tell Your Dating Partner]]
[[https://bit.ly/40z86Wa Why Romantic Comedies Might Ruin Your Love Life]]	
[[https://bit.ly/40zCL5K The Pitfalls of Long-Distance Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/3NWo7Ov A Humorous Take on Culture, Fun, and Dating Standards]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Cdzm2t Whats In A Name?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4fkIhOs The Loveawake Guide to One-Night Stand Etiquette]]
[[https://bit.ly/4fuH1s9 Advice to My Younger Self]]
[[https://bit.ly/40BwhDx 3 Signs That You Might Be A Bitter Man]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Aw2YYi Let’s Be Friends.]]
[[https://bit.ly/4fenR9H Roses]]
[[https://bit.ly/3O38Knj Men Temptation and Commitment]]
[[https://bit.ly/4f6fhtv Night Out Etiquette: Nightlife Etiquette Loveawake Style]]
[[https://bit.ly/3NY9p9U Monogamy for Dummies]]
[[https://bit.ly/40HbRsC Oh No (S)He Didn’t!]]
[[https://bit.ly/4f6fkWd The Dangers of Rating Your Girlfriend]]



Believe me, I grew up in a christian doomsday cult, I have no desire to sound like a prognosticator. But all signs point to a second, much-more-painful collapse of the U.S. financial system when the BRIC’s banking “solution” to the U.S. dollar gets in full swing. When that happens, don’t own U.S. Dollars, and laugh at every baby boomer who does.

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Lastango July 21, 2014 at 12:44
I’ m glad to see the comment in this piece that “Businesses could afford to hire superfluous cute girls and give them nice salaries” during the boom years. There’s been a ton of that, in various forms, and not just by businesses.

Our society has not been as wealthy as it seemed. For example, there is no economic recovery. Instead, we are in an outright depression masked by food stamps & other entitlements, unemployment payouts, disability insurance, government hiring, government spending, personal debt, inflated university enrollments, phony unemployment stats, a hollowed-out GNP, and the transition from well-compensated fulltime jobs into marginal part-time jobs. As proof of the depression we need only look to the median income, which has been falling for more than a dozen years and is now below 1989 levels.

Now, the chickens are coming home to roost. Consider the law profession, for instance. Our society could never actually afford the vast cadre of unnecessary “vanity lawyers” adorning government, universities, corporations, and foundations. Some of these lawyers were added for political reasons. Law became a route to institutional positions and elevated incomes for large numbers of women.

When the economic crunch hit, the party was over. Organizations are shedding lawyers, and applications to law school are plummeting accordingly. Some law schools are closing, and others are reducing the size of their incoming classes. Lawyers in non-elite jobs are struggling financially.

Like law, the university bubble (together with related, parasitic organizations) has provided large numbers of women with status, high-paying jobs, security, and the sort of pensions only the state can “afford”. The growth of the administrative cadre at universities has been particularly explosive. But now that bubble is popping, and healthy alternatives to this corrupt, unaffordable, ineffective system of higher education are already emerging.
",2021-11-27,2021-11-29,,,,,,,46546,Rome
"25/10/2024 17:48:51","25/10/2024 17:48:51","Navigating Online Dating with a Joyful Heart","[[https://bit.ly/3YyXDst 5 Dumb Reasons People Use to Avoid Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YD9AgY The Six Part Guide To Keeping A Woman Happy]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YD6eKM Many Faces of Man]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YiT4RW The Real Key to a Lasting Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/4eZ4t04 The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YBx71v Recognizing a Toxic Partner Before It’s Too Late]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YD6f1i Debunking Of Six Commonly Held Relationship Fallacies]]
[[https://bit.ly/4eWVnRH Two Surefire Ways To Ensure Your Happiness]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YAnm3R Dating Mistake That Educated Women Make]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Aby1Zs Living Together Before Marriage Is A Good Idea?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Aekxfl The Secret to Male Happiness]]

shouting

like millions of other fanboys, i anxiously anticipated “matrix reloaded” and “matrix revolutions” with the nervous intensity of a virgin thrown in a locked room with jazmine cashmere. yet, my anticipation proved to be for naught, as the sequels proved that the wachowski brothers had absolutely no idea what to do after their first shot…like a virgin thrown in a locked room with jazmine cashmere.

this actually wasn’t surprising. it would have been nearly impossible for them to meet the insane build-up, and, although the ending of the first movie was intentionally ambiguous enough to lend itself to sequels, the storyline wasn’t.

what did surprise me, though, was how my feelings about the matrix were altered because of the terrible, terrible, terrible, ending of the series. i had allowed the ending to change my overwhelmingly positive perception of the beginning, a phenomenon not limited to cinema.

despite breaking every meaningful regular season nfl record, the 2007 pats are still roundly ridiculed as failures because they barely lost their last game (hahaha!!!), and even the most spidermonkey matrix circus sex is seen as pointless without a capitial O at the end unless its with the champ.

but, when ranking “powerful endings” the romantic relationship break-up stands alone, the only ending that has the potential to make you want to forget all the good sh*t that came before

admittedly, romance presents a unique dynamic. sometimes the circumstances behind a break-up are so effed up that they effectively void the entire relationship, and sometimes it takes a break-up to see how sh*tty your stupid-ass relationship truly was

thing is, most romantic relationships are predictably decent and convenient, most relationship trouble occurs because the relationship becomes an inconvenience for someone, and most break-ups are characterized by the type of and prolonged angst and passive-aggressive inaction usually found in me fail’s panties and sam mendes flicks…not the type of sh*t you think would induce a positive perception prohibitor.

i guess we do this to self-preserve. positive relationship nostalgia is the bane of new penis and fresh p*ssy. plus, there’s no better way to sabotage your relationship future than dwelling on the past and no easier way to not dwell if you convince yourself that your past was more janky than yao’s feet.
",2021-10-28,2021-10-30,,,,,,,4323,"Single Men"
"26/12/2024 11:34:05","26/12/2024 11:34:05","Navigating Relationship Expectations in a Conservative Society","[[https://bit.ly/3VXueGD A Few Thoughts on Conflict in Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VPvmfl Why Trying to ""Be More Feminine or Masculine"" is a Trap]]
[[https://bit.ly/3BJCTWp ""Not Good Enough""]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VUAFdG Chasing After Instant Chemistry is Foolish]]
[[https://bit.ly/3BLGjba Does Longevity in the Past = Mature Dater Today?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3BNkUOT Are You Really Prepared for a Relationship?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VWKPKV Guys Don’t Want to Date “One of The Guys”]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VTunuK Things I Have Learned About Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VVCVBz Fear in Dating and Relationships]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VUsWfK Does the Person You're Dating Make You Smile]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VWL2Od Marrige and Happiness]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VXu8Ph Is Your Resolution to Find Love in the New Year?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VQDqNe Disappearing Dates]]

I see where you’re coming from more clearly now. I still think it’s a nonsense argument, it’s just a different type of nonsense. Once any group decides that enough of their members would show up for a day of celebration/awareness-activism, then there is absolutely no reason to not have that day of celebration/awareness-activism. There is not one single human activity where not one single person thinks it’s unnecessary/pointless, but that’s just a perfectly valid reason for the not-interested folks to ignore it, not a valid reason for others who want to be part of it to cancel their plans.

I suppose I find it folly to celebrate one’s sexual orientation, just as I find it folly to celebrate the length of one’s nose. I can just think of no good reason not to think it is, as I said before, daft. This, then, would constitute a good reason not to hold such a celebration. The shame some feel at being bisexual should rightly be combated, but by methods far more sensible than this.

tigtog
tigtog
May 14, 2013 at 3:16 am | Permalink*
I believe there is some sort of overflow facility available here; should anyone want to pursue conversation there, I will be happy to do so.

There’s a link to the spillover post archive in the sidebar. I strongly recommend that anybody considering a reply to this latest from Pantheus (Πενθεύς) resist the urge to reply to any points in this thread.

karak
karak
May 14, 2013 at 1:54 am | Permalink
About a year ago I was talking to my mother about some kind of interesting perspective within the LGBT community I was unaware of, and she started snapping at me as I pontificated and patronized her on the issue (can’t for the life of me remember what it was). And she finally said, “You KNOW I’m bisexual, right?!” and I was stunned.

Because I did know my mother dated women, and I did know she was really active in our local LGBT community when I was a child, and I had never even considered “hey my mom might be bisexual” because, of course, she was my mom and she married a man and had a child.

",2022-12-25,2022-12-28,,,,,,,3424,SA
"12/12/2015 11:37:33","21/01/2016 15:57:02","nouvelle année","c'est reparti",2016-01-01,2016-01-01,,,,,,,5580,"rochefort "
"12/12/2015 11:33:16","12/12/2015 12:09:54",Nowel,"Il arrive sur le dos d'un âne",2015-12-24,2015-12-24,,,,,,,5580,rochefort
"15/04/2025 17:35:33","15/04/2025 17:36:08",Over.,"<p><a href=""https://marryme.milaulas.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=We%20Lived%20Separate%20Lives"">We Lived Separate Lives</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://marryme.gnomio.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=We%20Were%20Living%20Like%20Roommates"">We Were Living Like Roommates</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://chestnutdev.mrooms3.net/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=The%20Real%20Reason%20You%20Haven%27t%20Found%20Your%20Perfect%20Partner"">The Real Reason You Haven't Found Your Perfect Partner</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://moodlemoot.hu/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Why%20Aren%27t%20You%20Married%3F%20Facing%20Your%20Love%20Alibi"">Why Aren't You Married? Facing Your Love Alibi</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://gwb.schule.at/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Ever%20Have%20A%20False%20Positive%20In%20Dating%3F"">Ever Have A False Positive In Dating?</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://webwork.maa.org/moodle/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Chasing%20Love%3A%20When%20Manifestation%20Loses%20its%20Charm"">When Love Manifestation Turns Into Mani-Frustration</a></p>
<p><a href=""http://moodle.eestaff.org/tag/index.php?tag=are%20you%20discounting%20yourself%20in%20love%3F"">Are You Discounting Yourself In Love?</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://prepa13.sems.udg.mx/moodle/tag/index.php?tag=ordering%20love%20like%20a%20latte"">Ordering Love Like A Latte</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://www.nepo.unicamp.br/moodle/tag/index.php?tag=looking%20for%20a%20quick%20fix%20for%20your%20love%20life%3F"">Looking For A Quick Fix For Your Love Life?</a></p>
<p><a href=""https://www.gzzjzbeograd.edu.rs/tag/index.php?tag=impatient%20for%20mr.%20right%3F"">Impatient for Mr. Right?</a></p>

After 14 months of dating, Sam and I broke up this past weekend after struggling for the past few months.   I don't have the energy or inclination to go into details, but put simply:  we're at very different places in our lives.   He's in the midst of a divorce, with 3 young kids, and knows for sure that he doesn't want to get married again.    I could go either way as far as marriage, but I DO know that I want to live with someone -- I'd really like someone to come home to.    And he's not sure when / if he can offer that.

There's so much more, but I'll leave it at that.     Terrible roller coaster at the moment:  one minute, I'm feeling relieved not to be feeling the frustration I've been carrying the past few months.    The next minute, I'm sobbing in my office with my back to the door, hoping no one comes in.

I feel no desire whatsoever to jump back on the online dating bandwagon just yet.   Need to give time time.
",2023-04-28,2023-04-29,,http://google.com,http://google.com,,,,575673,SA
"06/02/2020 21:54:39","02/03/2020 18:00:14","PANG - concert gratuit !","Concert gratuit de rap 100% bio !

Parce que l’écologie aussi peut être fun, PANG nous parle des alternatives durables de manière positive et décomplexée.
Les 3 MCs mettent à contribution la palette de leurs talents : flow, beatbox, folie... au service d’un show énergique !

Plus d'infos sur l'événement du 21 mars au petit théâtre de la Grande Vie, avec un marché fermier (15 à 19h) et la projection du film ""L'illusion verte"" à 20h : http://www.lepetittheatredelagrandevie.com

Plus d'infos sur PANG :
https://www.facebook.com/Pangmusic/
2 liens vidéos : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTU98pNmdtc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GTuoo1X0YfY",2020-03-21T18:00:00+00:00,2020-03-21T19:30:00+00:00,,http://www.lepetittheatredelagrandevie.com,gratuit,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/PanG_pang.jpg,,"petit théâtre de la Grande Vie - 12 rue du Bonnier",5580,Forzée
"22/09/2019 18:04:54","22/09/2019 18:04:54","Participez au site WiKi des initiatives locales face aux crises globales","Face à un avenir qui fait peur, des citoyens ont décidé de ne plus attendre un changement venu d’ailleurs mais de prendre leur avenir local entre leurs mains. Dans la région de Rochefort-Marche-Ciney des personnes sont déjà engagées dans de nouvelles manières de vivre ensemble, simples, 
gaies et porteuses d'espoir.

Un site leur est consacré, porté par « Rochefort en Transition » et « Colibris Famenne ». Il présente les initiatives de ces deux groupes d'action et de sensibilisation. Il ouvre également ses pages à tous ceux qui, depuis peu ou  très longtemps participent à cette transition vers un monde plus juste, plus viable et plus joyeux.

Ce site est un « wiki », construit au départ d'un logiciel libre qui  invite à la participation (même si on n'est pas webmaster) et qui facilite la coopération.

Venez découvrir ce site et comment y participer le Mercredi 2 octobre à 20H au petit théâtre de la Grande Vie à Forzée. 
Si c'est possible, amenez votre ordinateur portable.",2019-10-02T20:00:00+00:00,2019-10-02T22:00:00+00:00,,"http://rochefortentransition.org/?page principale",,,,"Rue du Bonnier 12, Forzée",5580,Rochefort
"22/01/2025 10:42:20","22/01/2025 10:42:20","partner-rated masculinity","[[https://bit.ly/4jsGp8s When Do You Walk Away]]
[[https://bit.ly/40HiScz It Is All Facebook’s Fault…]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Cglp4i How To Be Single at Your 10 Year Reunion]]
[[https://bit.ly/4au1kUw Are One Night Stands Bad?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4atLN7j The Truth About Free Dating Sites]]
[[https://bit.ly/4jBE7nQ Writing Good Loveawake.com Emails]]
[[https://bit.ly/4au87gZ Taking it Slow vs Taking it Nowhere]]
[[https://bit.ly/40HQffC 26 Things I’ve Learned About Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/40Ht4SB Being Selfish in A Relationship]]
[[https://bit.ly/40EpmJo Signs of a Douchebag]]
[[https://bit.ly/40JgF0c Rules for a Skype Date]]

It has been hypothesized that female orgasm evolved to facilitate recruitment of high-quality genes for offspring. Supporting evidence indicates that female orgasm promotes conception, although this may be mediated by the timing of female orgasm in relation to male ejaculation. This hypothesis also predicts that women will achieve orgasm more frequently when copulating with high-quality males, but limited data exist to support this prediction. We therefore explored relationships between the timing and frequency of women’s orgasms and putative markers of the genetic quality of their mates, including measures of attractiveness, facial symmetry, dominance, and masculinity. We found that women reported more frequent and earlier-timed orgasms when mated to masculine and dominant men—those with high scores on a principal component characterized by high objectively-measured facial masculinity, observer-rated facial masculinity, partner-rated masculinity, and partner-rated dominance. Women reported more frequent orgasm during or after male ejaculation when mated to attractive men—those with high scores on a principal component characterized by high observer-rated and self-rated attractiveness. Putative measures of men’s genetic quality did not predict their mates’ orgasms from self-masturbation or from non-coital partnered sexual behavior. Overall, these results appear to support a role for female orgasm in sire choice.

http://www.ehbonline.org/article/S1090-5138%2811%2900027-4/abstract

Evidence of intralocus sexual conflict: physically and hormonally masculine individuals have more attractive brothers relative to sisters

(or put another way, alpha fathers lead to man-jawed daughters).

[heartiste: rumer willis wept.]


on March 30, 2012 at 12:42 pm | ReplyAnonymous
I’m sure there is something a masculine man can do to have beautiful daughters.
",2022-01-21,2022-01-30,,,,,,,3333,SA
"18/12/2018 10:04:22","03/01/2019 18:16:40","Pas de Loi climat! Pas de rue de la Loi","**Pas de loi climat ?**
Cette nouvelle marche pour le climat est organisée en raison du refus du gouvernement flamand de signer une déclaration proposée à Katowice, où avait lieu la COP24, par un groupe de pays se voulant à la pointe de l’ambition climatique.

Rise for Climate a donc décidé d’organiser une nouvelle manifestation, à laquelle devrait se joindre Greenpeace.",2019-01-27,2019-01-27,"de 12 à 17H",https://www.facebook.com/events/211489939755265/permalink/213813792856213/,,,,,1030,Bruxelles
"27/05/2019 22:16:01","27/05/2019 22:16:01","Poatger ouvert au CPAS de Rochefort","**Le CPAS de Rochefort et le Groupe Semences organisent leur première journée « potager ouvert ».**

Rendez-vous le samedi 15 juin de 10h00 à 17h00 dans le jardin du CPAS Rue du square 7 à Rochefort.
Accès gratuit à toutes et tous ! Journée conviviale sous le signe de la découverte, du partage et de la simplicité. 
Trucs et astuces pour planter semer et récolter  proposés par le Groupe Semences.
Découverte des activités  organisées au sein du CPAS.  ",2019-06-15T10:00:00+02:00,2019-06-15T17:00:00+02:00,,,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/PoatgerOuvertAuCpasDeRochefort_fichier_affiche-potager-ouvert.pdf,"Rue du Square 7",5580,Rochefort
"15/11/2021 09:56:14","15/11/2021 09:56:14","Pourquoi les citoyen·ne·s ne participent-iels pas ?","Présentation de l'étude sur les raisons de la non-participation des citoyen·ne·s aux Budgets Participatifs SUIVIE d'une conférence sur les Budgets Participatifs comme outil de la transition écologique, basée sur les résultats d'une étude mondiale menée par l'OIDP.

23/11/2021 - 14h30-16h30
L'étude sur les raisons de la non-participation, réalisée à l'initiative des citoyen·ne·s de Molina de Segura, s'ancre dans 4 expériences de BP issues de territoires, échelles et enjeux différents : Molina de Segura (Espagne), Conil de la Frontera (Espagne), Valongo (Portugal) et le Département du Gers (France).

Organisation Periferia et Inter-Environnement Wallonie",2021-11-23T14:30:00+00:00,2021-11-23T16:30:00+00:00,https://framaforms.org/23112021-etude-raisons-de-la-non-participation-conference-bp-outil-de-transition-ecologique,,Gratuit,,,"Salle Arsenal - Rue Bruno 11",5000,Namur
"05/12/2015 18:11:25","05/12/2015 18:14:02","Projection de En Quete de Sens","//Pour sortir des impasses dans lesquelles s'engouffrent notre société, ce n?est pas de plus de savoir, de plus de technologie, ou de croissance dont les hommes ont besoin, mais de plus de recul, de bon sens, plus de liens entre eux, en un mot : de plus de sagesse.//

__**Le point de départ**__
Quand Nathanaël retrouve Marc à New York, les deux amis ne se sont pas vus depuis 10 ans et leurs trajectoires les ont éloignés : Nathanaël vient de finir un film environnemental en Inde, Marc, lui, exporte de l?eau en bouteille pour une multinationale?
Mais un accident vient interrompre son « rêve américain ». Cloué au lit, il se résout à visionner une série de documentaires laissés par Nathanaël sur la ?marchandisation du monde?. Dès lors, sa conscience ne le laissera plus tranquille. Oubliant ses plans de carrière, Marc rejoint Nathanaël en Inde où ils commencent une épopée improvisée. ",2015-12-10T20:00:00+01:00,2015-12-10T22:00:00+01:00,,,"5 euros - soupe offerte à 19H30",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/bf_imageEqS.jpg,,"rue du Bonnier 12, Forzée",5580,Rochefort
"06/02/2020 21:44:25","02/03/2020 18:08:37","Projection du film : L'illusion verte","Aujourd’hui, les industriels investissent beaucoup de temps et d’argent à ""verdir"" leur image : voitures électriques, huile de palme labellisée bio ou encore produits issus du commerce équitable… Tout est fait pour nous déculpabiliser et expliquer que nous pourrions sauver le monde en consommant ces produits. Une pratique dangereusement populaire nommée greenwashing ou éco-blanchiment. Mais si à défaut de sauver le monde, ces achats responsables ne faisaient qu’enrichir les multinationales ? Werner Boote et Kathrin Hartmann parcourent le monde pour révéler l’envers du décor. 

""Depuis quelques années, notre rapport occidental à l'écologie semble avoir pris un tournant radical. (…) Si à une époque, il fallait vendre du plus vite ou du moins cher, aujourd'hui il semblerait que les attentes des consommateurs(trices) se tournent davantage sur du plus vert"" (Justine, La Ferme Le Nord)

Dans le cadre du festival du film sur la ruralité ""À travers champs""

La projection du film est précédée par un marché fermier  (15h - 19h) et un concert de PANG (18h)

Plus d'infos sur l'événement du 21 mars : http://www.lepetittheatredelagrandevie.com
Sur le festival À travers champs : http://www.festival-atraverschamps.be/
Sur les marchés fermiers : https://rochefortentransition.org/?MarcheF",2020-03-21T20:00:00+00:00,2020-03-21T22:00:00+00:00,,http://www.festival-atraverschamps.be,"Film : 5 € ou Voltî",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/ProjectionLIllusionVerte2_21-03-verso-a-travers-champs-l-illusion-verte.jpg,,"petit théâtre de la Grande Vie - 12 rue du Bonnier",5580,Forzée
"10/11/2018 12:49:11","12/11/2018 14:48:44","Rassemblement national Pour le climat","Trois ans après la signature de l’accord de Paris, les émissions de CO2 augmentent à nouveau en Belgique à cause d’un manque de courage politique et de coopération. 

Il faut donc passer à la vitesse supérieure et beaucoup se bougent déjà en Belgique.

Rassemblement à la gare du Nord à 12h, spectacle climatique au Parc du Cinquantenaire jusque 17h",2018-12-02,2018-12-02,"de 12 à 17H",http://www.claimtheclimate.be,,,,"Gare du Nord, Bruxelles",1000,Bruxelles
"12/12/2015 11:34:00","07/02/2016 00:44:23","Réunion GT Semences",,2015-12-16,2015-12-16,"19h45 - 22h00",,,,,PTGV,5580,Forzée
"10/02/2020 17:46:19","10/02/2020 17:46:19","RECLAIM - création théâtrale écoféministe","Quatre coeurs, un projet : une création théâtrale écoféministe.

""Comment en sommes nous arrivé.e.s là? Certaines voix expriment un parallèle entre l'exploitation des ressources naturelles et celle des femmes. Ce parallèle nous amène à appréhender autrement notre histoire commune, consciente et inconsciente. Sentir à l'intérieur de nous où nous avons été blessé.e.s, et où nous blessons notre humanité. Et par cela même, la contacter.""

Le mouvement écoféministe nous invite à explorer comment nous pouvons transformer ce qui nous éloigne de notre humanité et notre douleur en pouvoir d'action, et c'est d'abord en apprenant à l'aimer. Ce sont ces quelques mots, quelques images, quelques voix, quelques idées que nous vous partagerons lors de notre spectacle RECLAIM.

Une adaptation libre du recueil de textes écoféministes choisis et présentés par Emilie Hache.

Mise en scène : Lexane Madessis
Avec Fei-Lin Benoît, Hélène Stoléar et Paloma Reyes Moraga

Pas de billetterie sur place, réservez et achetez vos places en ligne via ce lien : www.billetweb.fr/reclaim

Bar et petite restauration sur place ouvert avant et après le spectacle",2020-03-06T20:00:00+00:00,2020-03-06,"Accueil dès 19h, fermeture du bar 23h30",https://www.facebook.com/events/391553341747109/,"15 €",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/ReclaimCreationTheatraleEcofeministe_reclaim.jpg,,"162, chemin de Vieusart",1300,Wavre
"10/02/2020 18:48:01","26/04/2021 18:14:09","RECLAIM - création théâtrale écoféministe","Quatre coeurs, un projet : une création théâtrale écoféministe.

""Comment en sommes nous arrivé.e.s là? Certaines voix expriment un parallèle entre l'exploitation des ressources naturelles et celle des femmes. Ce parallèle nous amène à appréhender autrement notre histoire commune, consciente et inconsciente. Sentir à l'intérieur de nous où nous avons été blessé.e.s, et où nous blessons notre humanité. Et par cela même, la contacter.""

Le mouvement écoféministe nous invite à explorer comment nous pouvons transformer ce qui nous éloigne de notre humanité et notre douleur en pouvoir d'action, et c'est d'abord en apprenant à l'aimer. Ce sont ces quelques mots, quelques images, quelques voix, quelques idées que nous vous partagerons lors de notre spectacle RECLAIM.

Une adaptation libre du recueil de textes écoféministes choisis et présentés par Emilie Hache.

Mise en scène : Lexane Madessis
Avec Fei-Lin Benoît, Hélène Stoléar et Paloma Reyes Moraga

Pas de billetterie sur place, réservez et achetez vos places en ligne via ce lien : www.billetweb.fr/reclaim

Bar et petite restauration sur place ouvert avant et après le spectacle. 

Vous trouverez ici une gamme de [[https://supportpc-pro.com/products/leolto support ordinateur]]",2020-03-07T20:00:00+01:00,2020-03-07,"Accueil dès 19h, fermeture du bar 23h30",https://www.facebook.com/events/391553341747109/,"15 €",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/ReclaimCreationTheatraleEcofeministe2_reclaim.jpg,,"162, chemin de Vieusart",1300,Wavre
"27/06/2025 15:24:25","27/06/2025 15:24:25","Relationship Advice: Bored With My Marriage","<h2>Advice for Fighting Off the Marital Ho-Hums and Tips for Keeping Mr. Routine & Mrs. Ritual Out of Your Relationship</h2>
<p style=""text-align: center;""><img src=""https://web.archive.org/web/20080119122653im_/http://askapril.com/images/articles/is_it_over.jpg"" alt="""" width=""600"" height=""400"" /></p>
<p>If you love your wife and there is enough good in your life, chances are this applies to you -- you just need to shake things up a little bit  <span style=""color: #000000;"">and you'll be just fine. </span></p>
<h3><span class=""alister"">First Shake Up Starts with Yourself</span></h3>
<p>It’s completely normal to be bored in life and in marriage, but boredom is NOT a grounds for divorce. In fact, there are lots of kinds of boredom, and before you shake it up in your marriage make sure that you’re happy with your own life in the ways that are easy to fix. For example, are you exercising and do you feel fit? If not, you could easily get blue and depressed. Get a physical. Start a workout routine, join a gym, and start taking care of yourself. That is truly the first step to adding spice to your marriage. If you’re down in the dumps you’re not going to make much of a lover.</p>
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<p style=""text-align: left;"">After you get your exercise routine going, start eating well. No more lunch from a drive-through. Take care of your body as if you were both the coach and the star athlete in training. Then make sure your hair is great, your nails and skin are great – yes, guys, I’m talking to you – and vamp up your wardrobe. It doesn’t take a million bucks. Just a new pair of shoes, a cashmere sweater, and for goodness sakes, get rid of those ripped boxers!<em> Now,</em> you’re ready to shake it up in your bedroom, and your wife will have taken notice if you’ve done everything I’ve just asked of you.<br /><span class=""alister""><br />Shake it Up in the Bedroom:</span><br /><em><br /><strong>1. Examine your taboos</strong>. </em>If there is something you would NEVER do in bed, figure out why you would never do it-- and while you're figuring it out -- try doing it -- on a smaller scale, if necessary -- to see what kind of thrill you get. Sometimes our fears and anxieties are the key to our pleasure. Recognize that sometimes anxiety is excitement. Try to tell the difference between the two when they're happening to you. Never do anything that makes you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, but at the same time, remember -- you're in a rut, and you want to get out of it. Especially in the bedroom. Start stepping out of the rut by opening your mind just a crack.</p>
<p><strong><em>2. Baby steps.</em></strong> Increments of change are really important in sex – as well as a sense of humor. You're never going to go from a virgin to a lap dancer in twenty seconds. It may take years and even decades before you feel comfortable doing certain things, sexually -- and sometimes you just don't get there at all. But goals are only there to guide us. When it comes to sex, the journey is the goal, and the sooner you learn that, the better sex you're going to have. Getting out of a sexual rut is tougher than it looks -- especially when you leave out some or most of the steps in between A and B. If you want to try something new, and you don't achieve exactly what you set out to achieve, it’s very easy to quit. You can quickly feel that you’re shot down, or that things didn’t go the way you wanted them to. Don’t get dejected and give up! Just slow down, and adjust your goal to something smaller. Allow yourself to be in the moment and enjoy each tiny step along the way. The payoff if you succeed is huge and exponential. A great sex life is the gift that keeps on giving, so push the envelope by examining the edges of it.<br /><em><br /></em><em><strong>3. Make your sex life X-rated</strong>.</em> Once you’ve figured out what those boundaries are, and where you’d like to go – whether it’s role playing, dressing up, sensual toys, electric toys, a little light bondage – or whatever it is – shake it up by getting out of the house. Hit a sex shop with your partner -- or a best friend -- for ideas and an afternoon of shopping that can lead to an evening of hot sex. Be open-minded. If you need to have lunch with a glass of wine before you take this shopping spree, do it! This can be great fun. Especially if it’s something you’ve never done before and are a little anxious -- or just excited -- about doing.<br /><br /><strong><em>4. Put the lust in wanderlust.</em></strong> Travel like you've never traveled before. If you've never slept on the ground under a full moon, get a tent and a couple of sleeping bags and plan a down and dirty camping and fishing trip. On the other hand, if you're always budget minded, splurge on a spa vacation with mud baths, massages, seaweed wraps and every other decadent thing you can think of. Pack a suitcase and book some last minute plane tickets for a weekend of indulgence or pack up the car and take a great road trip. Make sure you stay focused on the goal – intimacy and sex – but shaking up your environment and getting out of your house and your own bedroom can do wonders for your sense of creativity, sexuality and fun. Bring some little shake-it-up toys from your shopping spree in your suitcase!</p>
<p><span class=""alister"">Expectations Can Be Dampers on Sexuality:</span></p>
<p>How many times in a marriage has one person come to bed ready for sex, and their partner didn't respond the way they expected, so they just threw in the towel and went to sleep, disappointed? A lot! It's difficult to shake up your own expectations of what will happen in the bedroom, but being flexible gives your sex life and your marriage more of a chance.</p>
<p>So many of us watch television, read magazines, and glimpse tabloid photos of celebrity or fictional marriages in movies and on shows and we forget that that is not real life. It's just little glimpses into other people's lives, most of which we know NOTHING about. And sometimes, it's not even glimpses into real lives -- it's glimpses into fictional lives of television characters and movie plots written to grab an audience's attention and titillate.</p>
<p>When we start comparing ourselves to fiction and celebrity, we lose touch with reality and sometimes throw away a good relationship to chase what isn't even real! That only leads to eventual disappointment and depression. Stay grounded! Remember what is real, and if you forget, get out of your house and your neighborhood and even your circle of friends and look around at what is real. You'll see that life can be pretty mundane sometimes and that is normal. Accept it, and your enjoy peaks and valleys that come naturally in your relationship -- and if they aren't coming quickly enough, like a good martini, shake it up gently, and luxuriate in the enjoyment.</p>",2022-06-23,2022-06-25,,http://google.com,,,,,35325,SA
"13/05/2016 20:58:03","13/05/2016 20:58:03","Rencontre circuit court","Parce que plusieurs initiatives existent déjà dans la région (producteurs locaux, GAC, marché fermier, magasins à la ferme,…) et que des citoyens souhaitent passer à la vitesse supérieure en matière de circuits courts ...
c'est à dire :
- faciliter l'accès physique et économique à un nombre plus important d'habitants aux produits sains de notre région ;
- encourager la production locale et la création de « richesses » et d'emplois locaux.

Venez en discuter, faire part de propositions, découvrir des expériences existantes,… ",2016-05-31T19:30:00+02:00,2016-05-31T22:00:00+02:00,,,,,,"Centre culturel, rue de Behogne",5580,Rochefort
"24/02/2016 22:58:43","05/03/2016 16:18:15","Rencontre  CJC Rochefort","Le sous-groupe de Semences isabelle et Françoise rencontre les animateurs du CJC pour évaluer faisabilité d'un jardin fleuri derrière la bibliothèque ... (test Claude :))

Beau test ! Tu n'aurais pas imaginé un horaire 15.00 - 18.00 ? ;-) 
Peut-être un peu long ? Mais, je pense riche en projets concrets à réaliser ? 
Réponse au test par Isabelle :-))",2016-03-02T15:00:00+01:00,2016-03-02T17:00:00+01:00,,,,,,"Avenue de Forest,19",5580,Rochefort
"08/11/2018 09:06:39","23/10/2020 18:13:16","Rencontre Colibri/transition","Depuis quelques  mois, ces deux groupes se réunissent réfléchir à la suite de leurs actions, à comment et pour quoi mettre leurs forces en commun.

https://gab.com/Stonecoldman/posts/105079347445292111
https://gab.com/Stonecoldman/posts/105084733256167774
https://www.slidebatch.com/23-10-links
https://papaly.com/categories/share?id=d1d446e704554a749c8a5ec1d2a35f5e
https://www.plurk.com/p/o26avg
https://www.plurk.com/p/o26awo
https://www.plurk.com/p/o26axq
http://sqworl.com/126o2v
http://www.23hq.com/okcupid/photo/76384304
https://m.allmyfaves.com/index/mobiletab/tabid/1457515
https://www.symbaloo.com/mix/tier2210
https://wfc2.wiredforchange.com/o/8001/p/salsa/web/blog/public/index.sjs?blog_entry_KEY=1694
https://www.soyuz.ru/profile/blog/817
https://www.htgifa.hindustantimes.com/forum/registertion/1105/
http://www.de.kuas.edu.tw/community/viewtopic.php?CID=17&Topic_ID=2621
http://www.smartbiz.com/blog/entry/2359
http://www.juntadeandalucia.es/averroes/centros-tic/21700381/helvia/bitacora/index.cgi
",2018-11-07T19:30:00+01:00,2018-11-07T22:00:00+01:00,,,,,,"Rue de la Héronnerie 2",5580,Lessive
"13/12/2018 16:01:34","13/12/2018 16:01:34","Rencontre Colibri/transition","Pour lancer une deuxième phase de réflexion et d'action, des membres de Colibris-Famenne et de Rochefort en Transition se réunissent et font le point",2018-12-13T20:00:00+01:00,2018-12-13T22:00:00+01:00,,,,,,,5580,Lessive
"05/02/2019 12:08:19","05/02/2019 12:08:19","Rencontre Habitat Léger en Condroz Famenne","Ateliers - stands infos - projection - rencontre - témoignages - concert -  ...
A partir de 10h
Bar et petite restauration
Infos et inscription: www.lepetittheatredelagrandevie.com
",2019-05-19,2019-05-19,,,gratuit,,,"Rue du Bonnier 12",5580,Forzée
"22/02/2019 15:43:54","22/02/2019 15:43:54","Rencontre littéraire","=====Collaborer avec la terre et ses êtres vivants=====
Présentation du livre de Chantal Van Pevenage, Editions Weyrich 2018

""Comment maintenir la vie du sol, être à son écoute, gérer et associer les cultures ?  .... Collaborer avec la terre, c'est se rendre compte que  nous formons un tout avec les êtres vivants, les végétaux et les micro-organismes qu'elle renferme. C'est plonger au coeur du vivant, revenir à la source, pour être le jardinier d'une terre vivante.""

Collaborer avec la terre, c’est échanger entre êtres vivants : la terre, les végétaux, les micro-organismes, les insectes, les rongeurs… et nous-mêmes. C'est aussi observer, regarder, écouter, sentir ce que nous disent la terre et ses « compagnons ». La travailler avec force ne lui convient pas : elle donnera le meilleur d’elle-même si elle est traitée avec douceur.
Comment maintenir la vie du sol, être à son écoute, le couvrir, gérer les rotations et associations de cultures… Chantal Van Pevenage met ici à notre disposition une série d’outils pour « accompagner la terre », veiller à son équilibre et entrer dans le monde de la co-création. Chantal Van Pevenage gère un potager depuis 35 ans. En recherche d'amélioration constante, elle s'efforce d'approfondir les techniques potagères en vue d'acquérir plus d'autonomie et de restaurer sa souveraineté alimentaire. Elle partage son expérience par le biais de formations et transmet ici un savoir précieux, fruit de nombreuses années d'expériences.",2019-03-10T13:30:00+01:00,2019-03-10T15:00:00+01:00,,http://www.ccr-rochefort.be,gratuit,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/RencontreLitteraire_shutterstock_1038814393.jpg,,"rue de Behogne, 5",5580,Rochefort
"05/02/2019 12:05:26","23/04/2019 21:02:37","Repair Café Buissonville",,2019-05-05,2019-05-05,,,,,,,5580,Buissonville
"26/03/2019 12:16:59","26/03/2019 12:16:59","repair café buissonville",,2019-05-05T14:00:00+02:00,2019-05-05T18:00:00+02:00,,,gratuit,,,"rue du parwet 4",5580,buissonville
"10/03/2016 21:29:18","10/03/2016 21:29:18","Réunion d'info","Soirée pour découvrir le projet de l'école des petits chemins",2016-03-10,2016-03-10,20H-22H,,,,,,5580,Rochefort
"05/03/2016 16:12:45","07/03/2016 14:53:39","Réunion de coordination",,2016-03-09,2016-03-09,19.45-22.00,,,,,"Rue du Bonnier 12",5580,Forzée
"25/03/2016 13:07:12","25/03/2016 13:07:26","Réunion de coordination",,2016-04-20,2016-04-20,"19h45 - 22h00",,,,,"Rue du Bonnier 12",5580,Forzée
"12/12/2015 15:40:35","12/12/2015 15:43:34","Réunion de rentrée","Qu'est-ce qu'on fait maintenant ?",2015-12-14,2015-12-14,20H,,,,,,5580,Forzée
"20/04/2016 22:00:05","20/04/2016 22:00:05","Réunion du groupe porteur du projet de monnaie locale, le Voltî",,2016-05-03T20:00:00+02:00,2016-05-03T22:30:00+02:00,,,,,,"Centre culturel, Chaussée de l'Ourthe 74",6900,Marche
"23/03/2016 22:03:48","23/03/2016 22:03:48","Rèunion du groupe porteur du Voltî",,2016-04-12T20:00:00+02:00,2016-04-12T22:30:00+02:00,,,,,,,5590,Ychippe
"01/06/2016 18:15:58","16/08/2016 21:53:30","Réunion du Groupe Semences",,2016-06-29T19:45:00+00:00,2016-06-29T22:15:00+00:00,,,,,,"PTGV Forzée",5580,Rochefort
"04/09/2016 16:14:38","04/09/2016 16:14:38","Réunion du Groupe Semences","Point sur les diverses activités effectuées. Collaboration avec les autres grainothèques.
Organisation pratique pour les prochains mois.",2016-09-21T19:45:00+00:00,2016-09-21T22:15:00+00:00,,,,,,,5580,Forzée
"04/09/2016 16:14:40","04/09/2016 16:14:40","Réunion du Groupe Semences","Point sur les diverses activités effectuées. Collaboration avec les autres grainothèques.
Organisation pratique pour les prochains mois.",2016-09-21T19:45:00+00:00,2016-09-21T22:15:00+00:00,,,,,,,5580,Forzée
"14/11/2016 18:50:24","14/11/2016 18:50:24","Réunion du Groupe Semences","A l'ordre du jour :
- organisation de la soirée Ciné-Docu ""Le potager de mon Grand-Père""
- organisation de la Commande Groupée 2017
- Prochain Marché Fermier : tri des semences avec les nouveaux tamis
Bienvenue à toutes et tous",2016-11-16T19:00:00+00:00,2016-11-16T22:00:00+00:00,,,,,,"Petit Théâtre de la Grande Vie",5580,"Forzée Rochefort"
"15/01/2017 19:47:37","15/01/2017 19:47:37","Réunion du Groupe Semences","Réunion d'organisation.
Le point sur la Commande Groupée de Semences",2017-01-18T20:00:00+00:00,2017-01-18T22:00:00+00:00,,,,,,"Petit Théâtre de la Grande Vie à Forzée",5580,Rochefort
"15/01/2017 19:50:41","15/01/2017 19:50:41","Réunion du Groupe Semences","Réunion d'organisation du groupe.
Le point sur la Commande Groupée",2017-01-18T20:00:00+00:00,2017-01-18T22:00:00+00:00,,,,,,"Petit Théâtre de la Grande Vie à Forzée",5580,Rochefort
"10/02/2019 13:42:46","10/02/2019 13:42:46","Réunion du Groupe Semences","Réunion mensuelle",2019-03-14T20:30:00+01:00,2019-03-14T22:30:00+01:00,,,,,,,5580,HAVRENNE
"05/03/2016 16:10:11","15/03/2016 12:59:18","Réunion GT Semences",,2016-03-16T19:45:00+01:00,2016-03-16T22:00:00+01:00,,,,,,"Rue du Bonnier 12",5580,Forzée
"15/11/2018 10:24:44","15/11/2018 10:24:44","Réunion préparatoire ... à la réunion ""élargie"" Colibris-Transition du 13 décembre","Nous voulons faire de la réunion ""élargie"" du 13 décembre un moment où on se retrouve, avec les groupes Colibris et Transition, pour faire le point ensemble et envisager les actions communes dans le futur (phase deux Transition & Colibris). N'hésitez pas à aller sur ""Espace collaboratif"" pour y mettre vos désirs de thèmes à aborder. ",2018-11-19T11:00:00+01:00,2018-11-19T14:00:00+01:00,,,,,,"Chez Jean",5590,"Wavreille "
"09/10/2019 21:37:17","10/10/2019 08:35:15","Royal Rebellion à Bruxelles","**Sire, notre royaume brule !**

Rejoignez Extinction Rebellion pour sa première action de désobéissance civile de masse en Belgique ! Le samedi 12 octobre, nous allons tous ensemble occuper les jardins du palais royal de Bruxelles. Nous invitons le roi à déclarer un état d'urgence climatique et écologique en Belgique.

Toute personne résidant en Belgique est invitée à venir siéger au sein des nombreuses assemblées populaires installées dans le jardin du roi. Un vaste programme thématique sera mis en place et nous débattrons des solutions à apporter pour répondre à la crise climatique et écologique actuelle.",2019-10-12T13:00:00+00:00,2019-10-13T14:00:00+00:00,,https://www.extinctionrebellion.be/en/royal-rebellion,gratuit,,,"Au palais Royal",1000,Bruxelles
"11/09/2019 18:54:20","01/10/2024 17:48:00","RV Gare du Nord","Le vendredi 20 septembre des actions locales auront lieu dans tout le pays. Ensuite ces groupes rejoindront la capitale. Nous nous rassemblons à 13h30 à la gare de Bruxelles Nord pour le cortège national, plein d'animation et de couleurs.   

[[https://shop.onclick.co.uk/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Dating%20Turn-Offs 10 ways to make potential love interests say “umm, nevermind. i’m good”]]
[[https://siap-elearning.org/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Real%20Love%20Isn%27t%20Always%20Fireworks%20And%20Butterflies Real Love Isn't Always Fireworks And Butterflies]]
[[https://singersalud.milaulas.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=The%20Coolest%20Things%20About%20Being%20In%20A%20Relationship The Coolest Things About Being In A Relationship]]
[[https://skupnost.sio.si/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Unpacking%20the%20Behavior%20That%20Drives%20Us%20All%20Crazy Unpacking the Behavior That Drives Us All Crazy]]
[[https://solarenergytraining.org/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Why%20I%20Hate%20%E2%80%9CGood%20Girl%E2%80%9D%20Problems Why I Hate “Good Girl” Problems]]
[[https://spacedge.nss.org/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Retarded%20Relationship%20Paradoxes Retarded Relationship Paradoxes]]
[[https://ssp.nidm.gov.in/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Extremely%20Tempting%E2%80%A6And%20Toxic%20Types%20Of%20Women Extremely Tempting…And Toxic Types Of Women]]
[[https://students.scuolascuola.com/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=5%20Very%20Smart%20Ways%20To%20Help%20You%20Stay%20Faithful 5 Very Smart Ways To Help You Stay Faithful]]",2019-09-20T13:30:00+02:00,2019-09-20T17:00:00+02:00,,http://www.klimaatcoalitie.be/node/536,,,,"Gare du Nord",1000,Bruxelles
"21/08/2018 17:17:04","21/08/2018 17:17:04","Salon des Associations - Rochefort","Présence de représentants d'associations rochefortoises - Présentation d'activités
Présence de diverses activités de transition",2018-08-26T10:00:00+02:00,2018-08-26T18:00:00+02:00,,,,,,"Hall omnisport de Jemelle",5580,Rochefort
"21/11/2019 09:33:30","21/11/2019 09:33:31","Salon Zéro déchets","Cadeaux faits main - Stop aux gaspillages - idées pour économiser.
Boutures, crème hydratante, récup tee shirt, furoshiki, tawashi, semences, choco, nettoyant universel, couture récup,...
Causerie : Vivre avec (beaucoup) moins d'énergies fossiles ?",2019-11-30T14:00:00+00:00,2019-11-30T19:00:00+00:00,,http://lepetittheatredelagrandevie.com,"entreé libre",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/SalonZeroDechets_zero-déchet-couleur-1-.jpg,,"Rue du Bonnier 12, Forzée",5580,Rochefort
"14/10/2020 10:19:26","14/10/2020 10:19:28","Sauve qui peut !","Dans le cadre du Festival Financité 2020 - Spectacle théâtre/clown

//Théophile rêve de sauver le monde, il faut abattre le capitalisme… On est toutes et tous d’accord. Oui mais comment? Ce Don Quichotte va tenter l’action de désobéissance civile violente, la manifestation pacifique, la culpabilisation individuelle, les petits gestes quotidiens, le don sans limite à l’autre…

Jusqu’où va-t-il aller et surtout… va-t-il y arriver ? Une création un rien provocante qui pose plus de questions avec humour (noir ou pas) qu’elle ne donne de réponses.
Comment l’humain, en souffrance, peut agir seul ou à plusieurs pour soigner ce monde qu’il n’aime pas tel qui l’est sans toutefois se brûler les ailes?
Et vous, par où vous voulez commencer pour changer le monde ?//

Le spectacle sera suivi d'un bord de scène où l'on questionnera nos propre champ d'action. Quelles sont les actions qui nous fédèrent ? Comment savoir si nous avons de l'impact ? De notre manière de consommer, à l'endroit où nous plaçons notre argent en passant par les manifestations climats, chacun·e peut agir et questionner.",2020-10-23,2020-10-23,19H30-22H,https://www.financite.be/fr/event/sauve-qui-peut-festival-financite-2020-3,Gratuit,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/SauveQuiPeut_financite_festival_banner1080x1080_2020_01.jpg,,"Petit théâtre de Forzée, rue du Bonnier 12",5580,Rochefort
"13/05/2016 21:26:39","15/05/2016 21:26:09","Séance d'info Ecole des petits chemins","présentation du projet pédagogique du jardin d'enfants ainsi que l'avancement du schmilblick! Il reste des places!!

[[http://rochefortentransition.be/wakka.php?wiki=EducatioN Plus d'infos]]

",2016-06-01T20:00:00+02:00,2016-06-01,,,,,,"14 rue de l'Ile ",5580,Lessive
"10/01/2025 10:44:19","10/01/2025 10:44:19","Shut up and be frakking epic already!","[[https://bit.ly/4a8syQs Why Is Self-Esteem Important For Dating?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h6OoWZ Top Free and Paid Online Dating Websites]]
[[https://bit.ly/4ad0QC7 Seizing New Dating Opportunities]]
[[https://bit.ly/3WfL6sn The Perfect Movie Date at Home]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h3rJe2 Single Men Don’t Have Body Image Issues]]
[[https://bit.ly/4hbd1lv What Makes a Good Man or a Good Woman?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4h6Opdv Equating ‘Sexuality’ with Male Sexuality]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Wec7MR Why in the World Would I Ever Get Married?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4ac3OqG How Jealousy Can Work For Us]]
[[https://bit.ly/4a7Gf2h The Catalano Generation is Revolutionizing Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/4a9mFTc Mexico City's Short-Term Marriage Proposal]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DKfZPt Even in Relationship You’re All Alone]]
[[https://bit.ly/4a9jgnw I Lack the Commitment Gene]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DKfUeD Stop Crying and Be a Man]]

Ever have one of those moments where time slows down and you realize with clarity that you are going to die?  Or you suddenly feel dizzy with the idea of infinity–no, not in a drugged out bender sort of way, but in an “OMG why am I endlessly complaining about traffic, or the dog barking, or how Twilight is an inexplicable vomit-inducing phenomenon when I am such a small part of this infinite space?

Well, take a peek at “The universe doesn’t give a flying f*** about you” at Johnny B. Truant for a little existential stupor mixed with a good ol’ kick in the pants from Johnny.  (And forewarned, there are a few a lot of expletives, but…at least he’s fired up!)

Most people think that they need to be tapped on the shoulder by the Epic Fairy if they ever hope to be epic, or if they’re ever going to have the audacity to do something truly epic. But it’s not true. Want to be epic? Just do epic s***. There’s nothing else to it.

There is only now. If you have power, it’s now. If you can change anything, you have to do it now. If you want to be or to have that next great thing, be it. Have it. Take it. Own it. Do it. Become it.  Be awesome. Do epic s***.  Do it now. The clock is ticking.

It’s a longer article, but just the right mixture of geek, TV references and kick a** motivation for this fine day. ",2022-01-28,2022-01-30,,,,,,,2141,Dates
"10/02/2020 19:19:09","10/02/2020 18:19:57","Soirée de clôture du festival À Travers Champs","**__La Ferme d'Emilie à 20h__**
Nathalie Lay
France-2019-25'
Documentaire

Sur les traces de leur père, Emilie et son frère Brian donnent tout pour produire la meilleure viande possible dans le respect du bien-être de leurs animaux et avec les ressources des terres de leur ferme, jusqu'à ce projet du tout premier camion-abattoir mobile pour reprendre la main sur l'abattage et ancrer ainsi leurs valeurs dans le premier label éthique du bien-être animal en élevage...

**__Le milieu de l'horizon à 20h30__**
Delphine Lehericey
Belgique, Suisse-2019-92'
Avec Luc Bruchez, Laetitia Casta, Thibaut Evrard, Clémence Poesy,...
Fiction

1976. Un été de fournaise et de sécheresse dans toute l’Europe. Dans la modeste ferme familiale vaudoise de Gus, jeune garçon de 13 ans, sent bien que la chaleur n’affecte pas seulement les animaux ou les champs, mais vient aussi perturber le comportement des adultes qui l’entourent. Cet été de caniculaire, qui sera celui de son apprentissage initiatique, servira de toile de fond à l’érosion de l’univers du jeune garçon : celui du monde paysan traditionnel plombé par la sécheresse, celui de son père, ruiné, celui de sa cellule familiale avec l’explosion du couple de ses parents. En quelques mois, il aura définitivement laissé derrière lui l’innocence de l’enfance.
**__
Soirée de clôture du Festival de 18h30 - 20h avec aussi : __**
- animation musicale par le groupe “Musique d’Action Paysanne”
- buffet : du pain, du vin et du fromage
- remise des prix du Jury Jeunes et Agriculteurs",2020-03-29T18:00:00+00:00,2020-03-29T22:30:00+00:00,,https://www.festival-atraverschamps.be,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/SoireeDeClotureDuFestivalATraversChamps_lafermed-emilie.jpg,,"Centre Culturel des Roches : 5, rue de Behogne",5580,Rochefort
"13/12/2018 16:05:22","13/12/2018 16:05:22","Soutien aux migrants : délit ou devoir de solidarité?-","Beaucoup de citoyen·e·s s'investissent déjà, ou souhaitent s’investir dans l’aide aux personnes migrantes. Mais concrètement, que peut-on faire sans entrainer de conséquences négatives pour la personne aidée et pour l’aidant·e ? Quelles actions de terrain  peut-on entreprendre sans entrer dans l’illégalité ?

Des éclairages légaux seront apportés sur la « problématique » de la solidarité aux migrants. Nous aborderons des questions telles que « puis-je accueillir un réfugié chez moi pour une nuit ? », « le conduire à l’hôpital ? », « lui fournir de la nourriture ? » etc…

**Suivi d'un cinéclub à 20h** :  ""La Villa"" de Robert Guediguian

Dans une calanque près de Marseille, au creux de l’hiver, Angèle, Joseph et Armand, se rassemblent autour de leur père vieillissant. C’est le moment pour eux de mesurer ce qu’ils ont conservé de l’idéal qu’il leur a transmis. Lorsque de nouveaux arrivants venus de la mer vont bouleverser leurs réflexions…

 ",2018-12-15T18:00:00+01:00,2018-12-15T22:00:00+01:00,,,"Débat gratuit - Film : 5€/V",,,"rue du Bonnier 12, Forzée",5580,Rochefort
"16/10/2019 18:27:42","16/10/2019 18:27:42","SPG - Formation","**Cette formation s’adresse **aux paysanNEs déjà installéEs ainsi qu’aux porteurs de projets et aidants

**Objectifs :**
Les éléments de base, ainsi que les caractéristiques clés, seront examinés afin que vous puissiez ensuite participer pleinement au développement du SPG du MAP qui a été réalisé par et pour les paysan.ne.s.

De la théorie à la pratique, nous avons la possibilité de nous rassembler pour améliorer notre système alimentaire. Pour développer l’agroécologie paysanne en tenant compte des critères ""Énergie – Équité – Nature – Santé"" selon un modèle SPG pratique et évolutif : pour une faible consommation d’énergie fossile, un revenu et un temps de travail digne pour les paysannes et paysans, des partenaires engagés, des véritables consomm’acteurs concernés, une production écologique, des aliments de qualité, forts en goût et en nutriments,…",2019-11-13,2019-11-14,"9H à 18H",http://www.lemap.be/le-spg-systeme-participatif-de-garantie,,,,"Agricovert au 37 Chaussée de Wavre ",5030,Gembloux
"16/10/2019 18:30:39","16/10/2019 18:30:39","SPG - Formation","**Cette formation s’adresse** aux paysanNEs déjà installéEs ainsi qu’aux porteurs de projets et aidants

**Objectifs **:
Les éléments de base, ainsi que les caractéristiques clés, seront examinés afin que vous puissiez ensuite participer pleinement au développement du SPG du MAP qui a été réalisé par et pour les paysan.ne.s.

De la théorie à la pratique, nous avons la possibilité de nous rassembler pour améliorer notre système alimentaire. Pour développer l’agroécologie paysanne en tenant compte des critères ""Énergie – Équité – Nature – Santé"" selon un modèle SPG pratique et évolutif : pour une faible consommation d’énergie fossile, un revenu et un temps de travail digne pour les paysannes et paysans, des partenaires engagés, des véritables consomm’acteurs concernés, une production écologique, des aliments de qualité, forts en goût et en nutriments,…",2019-11-18,2019-11-19,"9H à 18H",http://www.lemap.be/le-spg-systeme-participatif-de-garantie,,,,"Ferme-Ecole Arc en Ciel, située à Les Hayettes, 12",6920,Wellin
"31/10/2024 17:37:46","31/10/2024 17:37:46","Steer Clear of Dating Disasters: Practical Tips for Success","[[https://bit.ly/48wFcIf Why I Keep Falling for Nurses and Teachers]]
[[https://bit.ly/48tTFVB Holiday Gifts to Avoid While Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/40rBMEG Avoiding Dating Pitfalls with These 8 Mental Trick]]
[[https://bit.ly/40w4mEO A Look at Hollywood’s Relationship with Black Pain]]
[[https://bit.ly/48tTLMX Wild Cherry Flags]]
[[https://bit.ly/48psB9V The Perils of Past Relationships]]
[[https://bit.ly/40neoIs Jealousy: Wasted Energy or Relationship Fuel?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4fg9Gkc Master the Science of Getting Dumped with Style!]]

 [...] you get the idea!) Here are some fun questions to ask someone you are interested in >>>Questions to Ask A Love Interest<<<<< Here is another link to some really great Nubian Poetry [...]

Myron Says:
January 6th, 2012 at 8:08 am
Back when I did my mountain ops training, I once accidentally knocked my helmet off a cliff. I dove for it and caught it before it went over a sheer drop. To my credit I caught it. To my detriment I almost fell off a goddamn cliff to save a helmet.

SEO Says:
January 22nd, 2012 at 5:08 pm
Hi There

I think, its not just the answers that count, what counts the most is, if he just knows, what he/she is looking out of you, is clear, straight forward and honest

Regards

Issabell Ryder Says:
June 7th, 2012 at 2:39 pm
So idk if my friend just likes me as just that or as a could be more! He tOok me to prom and we had a great time but now when we hang out it seems like there could be more to it! But we r never alOne and when we get talking and have a moment it gets interupted! The worst part is he’s going to college next year and I will only get to see him on holidays! Wut do I do!?!?

MidoriLei Says:
June 7th, 2012 at 2:51 pm
Issabell Ryder,

He needs a little help if he likes you. But not too much help:) Tell him you’ll miss him when he goes off to college. See if he takes it from there. You only want to give “hints” that you’re interested, not outright tell him. Let him muster up the courage to tell you first. Give him a chance to man up… but help him out a little by giving SUBTLE hints that something could possibly be there for you. Does that make sense? Do you need more examples?

Issabell Ryder Says:
June 7th, 2012 at 3:48 pm
",2021-10-30,2021-10-31,,,,,,,453453,"Free Dating"
"31/01/2019 17:45:51","31/01/2019 17:45:51","suite du festival terres nourricières","

Aviculture. Solutions pour des élevages rentables, de qualités.

Journée ouverte à tous – citoyens, agriculteurs et éleveurs - dans la continuité du festival et dans le même esprit.

Nous proposerons un moment de rencontre avec un spécialiste d’élevage de poulets à grande échelle et une visite de ferme. Cette journée se veut une journée de rencontres, d’échanges, de réflexion, d’information sur ce que représente un élevage de poulets, de qualité, lié au sol et respectueux de l’environnement et de l'animal.
Programme

    10h à 12h : théorie sur le sujet avec film à l’appui (maison Rurale de Nassogne)
    12h à 13h30 : moment de repas et de partage (maison Rurale de Nassogne, merci de prendre votre pique-nique)
    14h à 16h : visite d’une ferme de la région (départ de la maison Rurale à 13h30 ; covoiturage souhaité)

Merci de vous inscrire pour la bonne organisation de la journée voir contact: infos@terrenourricière.be ou 0498 120 139
",2019-02-16,2019-02-16,"de 9h30 à 16h",http://www.terrenourricière.be,gratuit,,,,6953,Nassogne
"12/11/2024 17:41:59","12/11/2024 17:41:59","Swipe Right, Spend Light: Keeping Virtual Romance Alive on a Budget","[[https://bit.ly/3UM2wMy Signs Men Look For Before Approaching]]	
[[https://bit.ly/3UMKNEQ It’s Okay Not To Fight For Your Girl]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YN2JAt I Have No White Friends]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Z0kVYl When Romance Gets Real]]
[[https://bit.ly/3AAz05E How Fashion Trends Test Masculinity and Memory]]
[[https://bit.ly/3ABOuGt Getting Ready for ‘I Do’]]
[[https://bit.ly/3UJKBGg Why Is It Hard For Men To Write About Sex?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Z0Fkwt Why Love Means Tolerating Each Other's Quirks]]
[[https://bit.ly/4hXZyyH When Love Escapes Us.]]


Maybe they’ll explicitly say “rap music killed him.” Maybe they’ll be dangerously (and lazily) racist, using terms like “thug music” and making sure that, when they refer to rap music, they always put “music” in quotes. Or maybe they’ll be more subtle, using terms like “helped cultivate a nihilistic environment” and “reinforced a culture of learned helplessness.” Maybe they’ll even appear to be conflicted about what they’re saying by beginning a piece with a paragraph letting everyone know they enjoy rap music too, and proving their rap cred by name-dropping J Dilla and Talib Kweli.
Maybe, as happened during Michael David Dunn’s trial for Jordan Davis’s murder, someone will imply that a rap song has any blame whatsoever for the cowardly, murderous intent that causes a man to shoot multiple times at a truck despite no reason to fear for his safety and also have such a callous disregard for life that he orders a pizza afterwards.

Anyway, it will happen again.

And when it does, when someone tries again to put rap music on trial instead of the actual murderer—or the justice system, or income inequality, or substandard schools, or the prison-industrial complex, or how “the irrelevance of black life has been drilled into this country since its infancy,” or anyone or anything else that may have had an actual, tangible influence on the crime—by asking or implying “Did rap music cause this murder?”, my answer then will be the same as it is now:

Fuck no.

In the 10 years since The College Dropout dropped, Kanye West has gone from a guy whose name I used to pronounce Kay-Knee to arguably my favorite rapper (it’s either him or Ghostface) and inarguably the most important person in music today. He is, at this point in his career, cultural icon, cultural arbiter, cultural thermometer, and Kardashian concubine; a singular zeitgeist whose talent is matched by his talent’s ability to partition.

But which Kanye album is the best?
",2021-11-20,2021-11-22,,,,,,,543564,"Dating Website"
"22/02/2019 15:45:50","22/02/2019 15:45:50","Symphonie paysanne - le film d'Henri Stork","Symphonie paysanne
Réalisé par: Henri Storck | Genre:  Documentaire d'archives |Durée: 1h55’ |Pays: Belgique 
|Année: 1942/44

Tous les plans de ce film sont en état de grâce: la terre et le ciel, les lignées d’arbres, les animaux (il n’y a pas dans toute l’histoire du cinéma de plus belles vaches et de plus beaux chevaux que ceux qui sont là le travail (fenaison, moisson et surtout les terribles arrachages de pommes de terre ou de betteraves qui nous rappellent sans mauvais jeu de mots les damnés de la terre). Mais sur tout plane une harmonie. Elle n’a rien d’idyllique car les images de lutte injuste avec les éléments sont très présentes. Mais il y a un apport supplémentaire, virgilien, avec la marche du monde, symbolisé par la marche parallèle de l’humain, du végétal et de l’animal.",2019-03-10T15:00:00+01:00,2019-03-10T17:00:00+01:00,,http://www.ccr-rochefort.be,"6€ ou 5 Chèques culture ou 1.25€ Article 27",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/SymphoniePaysanneLeFilmDHenriStork_small.jpg,,"rue de Behogne, 5",5580,Rochefort
"25/10/2018 21:54:18","25/10/2018 21:54:18",Test,test,2018-10-27,2018-10-27,,,,,,,5580,Rochefort
"22/10/2024 17:28:08","22/10/2024 17:28:08","The Art of Attraction: Using Confidence and Humor to Win Her Over","[[https://tribal-tta.indiancountrytraining.net/training/tag/index.php?tag=3%20common%20relationship%20mistakes%20women%20make 3 Common Relationship Mistakes Women Make]]
[[http://webtechnology.institute/moodle27/tag/index.php?tag=love%20awkwardness%20and%20regret%3A%20the%20day%20i%20walked%20away Love Awkwardness and Regret: The Day I Walked Away]]
[[https://www.fondazionemilano.eu/moodle/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Lettura Friend Zoned and Heartbroken: Lessons from an Imaginary Romance]]
[[http://www.safer-maine.org/moodle/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=ATV What Every Woman Should Know About a Man’s Code of Honor]]
[[http://xenesglosses-prestige.gr/tag/index.php?tag=how%20to%20handle%20breakups%20without%20questioning How to Handle Breakups Without Questioning]]
[[https://academia.ingeniocreativo.mx/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Attracting%20Women%20with%20Confidence%20and%20Humor Attracting Women with Confidence and Humor]]
[[https://academy.seekersguidance.org/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Keep%20Your%20Woman%20Secure%20Without%20Fighting Keep Your Woman Secure Without Fighting]]
[[https://academia.ingeniocreativo.mx/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Men%20Play%20Dating%20Games%20Too Men Play Dating Games Too]]

culminating his epic lunchtime journey for msg, the champ finally enters the sushi boat, a chinese japanese restaurant on the university of pittsburgh’s campus. coincidentally, as soon as he walks through the door, “wu tang clan aint nuthin to f*ck wit” begins to play on the champ’s ipod, a fact which is neither ironic nor paradoxical. the champ’s ipod has character.

after much debate, the champ orders seafood fried rice, and saunters to one of the few empty seats in the crowded cafe. the waiter brings the champ his meal a few moments later, and he happily digs in with an unusually large plastic kool-aid spoon he carries in his atache found near the counter, gayer than christmas morning and rod strickland.

as he’s enjoying his meal, cheesing and vigorously nodding his perfectly oval dome to “liquid swords”, the champ takes a quick glance around the room and has an epiphany.

the only black in a room of 20 or so people, the champ was the only one using a freakin spoon¹. everyone else had chopsticks, and everyone was was eating intricate sh*t like fried noodles and octopuss and crab tempura and sh*t while the champ’s black ass was scooping rice and shrimp with a giant spoon like a circus monkey.

after a few more self-aware moments, the champ became convinced that they were all recording this on their phones to be later shown on a youtube video short titled “nigger soup”.

it eventually became too much for the champ to deal with, and he eventually packed his half eaten food in a styrofoam case and left, finishing his spoonfed rice and shrimp in the lonely shameful solitude of a lightless computer lab at work.

more than any other, this sad story single-handedly encapsulates my peculiar feelings about race in america, and how racism has directly affected me.

on one hand, i’m somewhat justified to feel as if i’m under a microscope with each action and reaction under constant scrutiny and surveillance, and i have hundreds of years of evidence to assist my case

yet, the pragmatic asshole in me thinks most of my personal sensitivity is psychosomatic. sure, maybe all eyes were on me at the sushi boat, but maybe only because i was the weirdo eating rice with a giant spoon…not the black weirdo eating rice with a giant spoon.
",2024-10-09,2024-10-10,,,,,,,35345,Rome
"11/10/2024 14:29:04","11/10/2024 14:29:04","The Best Times to Swipe: How to Optimize Your Dating Chances","[[https://aerodidact.enm-toulouse.fr/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=A%20Simpler%20Guide%20to%20Single%20Men A Simpler Guide to Single Men]]
[[https://www.cmsstartpagina.nl/blog/lifestyle/top-10-signs-he-is-cheating-on-you/ Top 10 Signs He Is Cheating On You]]
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[[https://www.edu.xunta.gal/centros/eoicoruna/aulavirtual/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=10%20Steps%20to%20Get%20Over%20Your%20Ex 10 Steps to Get Over Your Ex]]
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[[https://academia.ingeniocreativo.mx/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Men%20Play%20Dating%20Games%20Too Men Play Dating Games Too]]


but many many many would take it you should see about offering ti online and letting university;s subscribe to it.

what would you call it?

The Truth about Womenz & Such 101


on June 1, 2010 at 7:20 pmObstinance Works
GreatBooksForMen writes with the fluency of a 12 year old autistic boy, but is still somehow jocular.


on June 1, 2010 at 7:23 pmgreatbooksformen
yah yah early on in life tehy saw i was special and put me in the class for the artistic children where we finger paineted all day lzozlzlzozl and then one day leaving the class i saw that tehy had misspelled “Artistic Pupils” as “Autistic Pupils.” lzozlzllzlzll! fucktard dummies!!!!


on June 1, 2010 at 7:27 pmObstinance Works
That sounds about right.


on June 1, 2010 at 7:32 pmfunhouse mirror
Basically you’re lying without lying. Still lying and you’ll pay for it one day. She simply doesn’t want to waste her time. A real man will respect that. A jerk like CR advocates the cunning (stupid) approach to just about everything. You only end up caught in your own trap thank God. She on the other hand she is asking for it but has no clue. In the end she will hopefully wise up whereas pua types are too stupid to ever wise up. Cunning is not wise…please!


on June 1, 2010 at 7:35 pmjohn
If you’re NOT seeing another girl,congratulations,you’re a beta! If you ARE seeing another girl,and you lie about it,you’re a beta pussy,too! The only thing to say in this case is,” Yes,but I only fuck her…I male LOVE to you!!”


on June 1, 2010 at 7:41 pmGorbachev
There does come a time when you need to come clean or outright lie. I’ve been in situation (with intelligent women) where it was just impossible to be misleading or to run on implication alone. You have to make firm statements and stick to them.

At that time, once you’ve established a relationship, cheating is off the menu unless you’ve got a remarkable girl.
",2022-10-23,2022-10-31,,,,,,,4356436,Rome
"13/12/2024 11:09:59","13/12/2024 11:09:59","The Pill: Little Known Facts","[[https://bit.ly/49yWLYK How Pocket-Dialing Can C*ckblock You]]
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[[https://bit.ly/4gaO7lT Dealing With Exes on Valentine’s Day]]
[[https://bit.ly/3OXBtdG A Decent Girl For a Nice Guy]]

I have never understood why some men are so irresponsible when it comes to birth control, particularly when it comes to the pill. Many of my friends have expressed a total lack of knowledge about this little miracle drug, how it works, how much it costs, and things that can make it less effective. I don’t get that.

Yes, it’s your girlfriend who is taking it, sure, but she is taking it so that when you two are enjoying the free xxx, you don’t impregnate her. So, I am going to give you guys a quick low-down of some little-know facts about the pill. Ladies, I am pretty sure some of you aren’t familiar with some of these personals statistics, so don’t go away:

1. For the birth control pill to be 99.9 percent effect, you have to take it within the same 30 minutes every single day. Why? Apparently the hormones that work to make you temporarily infertile only work 24 hours straight.

2. If you don’t take the pill at the same time every day, its effectiveness drops down to 92 percent.

3. Antibiotics can weaken the effectiveness of birth control pills.



Most doctors will inform you of that last one, and although I know that medical professionals always tell women they should be taking the pill at the same time, they don’t stress or explain why. They should. So, if you are sex dating, attached, single and looking, male or female, you should know these three little facts before making any decisions about getting it on. Happy fucking!",2022-12-17,2022-12-27,,,,,,,342223,SA
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[[https://bit.ly/3Dv3Kqg Dating a Dad: When You Like Him But Not His Kid]]


And you agreed with that quote from Melissa.

Question: Why do you not hold yourself to the same standards you expect from men? If I don’t pay for your dinner, I am cheap, but if you don’t pay for my dinner, you are being romanced?

Good luck in the dating world, toots. You continue to set women back. You are a weak, dependent, little girl.

Reply

Cali Bradshaw
March 27, 2012 at 4:38 pm #
Dude. You just commented 6 times on this post. That is too many. I suggest you check yourself and see why ANY post, written on a hot pink blog, would warrant that much of your time. Also, when trying to win an argument, many people appreciate brevity. You may have had good points, but I’ll never know as I got bored in the middle of comment #2. – Cali

Reply

Adam
July 30, 2011 at 8:44 pm #
What if you fall in love with a guy but in a year he loses his job? dump him bc he cant pay for a date now?

Reply

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[[https://bit.ly/4gNQ6wg Dating While ""Fat""]]
[[https://bit.ly/4gL16KE Men Are Hardwired to Cheat And Other Silly Stories]]
[[https://bit.ly/4gSIxnR The Conservative Backlash Towards Attempts to Liberate Relationships]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VVZLsu Seeking to Change Your Partner]]
[[https://bit.ly/3VUFZgZ Sluts Studs And Straightjaket Sexuality]]


I’m also, honestly, disappointed (to put it mildly) that the whole ‘bisexual means only attracted to cis men and women’ bullshit trope has to yet again be raised on a thread explicitly concerned with how not to be a goddamn biphobic asshole, and after several comments explicitly repudiating that interpretation. It’s not like it’s a new trope after all. I mean for fucks sake. Do we have to have sharp sticks thrust in our faces on the actual thread that says ‘don’t hurt people with sharp sticks’!? It’s not like this was framed as a discussion of what bi means – it was framed as here’s how not to be an asshole to bi people.

Sorry for the rant, but this is a sensitive topic for me.

Well, but if people aren’t assholes to bi people, mass hysteria and dogs and cats living together!

Yeah. FUck this biphobic bullshit.

dogs and cats living together!

And driving.


tee hee!

As I said upthread, I identify as someone who is attracted to multiple genders. I am not a straight person taking bisexual people to task over their label. I’m pretttttttty sure I’m not biphobic, and that it’s possible for someone like me to have issues with the label “bisexual” without biphobia being the reason.

I’m saying that for me personally, the bisexual label doesn’t work because for me personally it doesn’t fit my personal understanding of gender.

In answer to Kitty’s question – “Do you assume straight, gay and lesbian also mean only attracted to cis women/men?” – I assume the same as I do for bisexual people; that unless they say otherwise, they are almost definitely into cisgender people and are maybe into transgender people.
",2000-02-02,2020-02-05,,,,,,,43553,SA
"31/01/2025 11:08:06","31/01/2025 11:08:06","The Shit Talking Shit Tester","[[https://bit.ly/3PUzibD Do You Reveal Too Much About Your Relationship?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4jAI7F3 Be Yourself: The Truth About Authentic Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/3PTX0om Why So Many Relationships End at 90 Days]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Cx3eau There really are NO BAD DATES!]]
[[https://bit.ly/4hA2IY5 How The Law of Attraction Can Help You Find Love]]
[[https://bit.ly/3CzmynB A Dude Diner’s Doctrine]]
[[https://bit.ly/3WFjjSC Soundtrax To Your Life: Pre-Date Tunes]]
[[https://bit.ly/3PX4ve9 Ms. Awesome’s Advice for Men]]
[[https://bit.ly/3WJVo4f Bad Relationships Aren’t Investments]]
[[https://bit.ly/3WFLKja How To Get A One Nite Stand Out Of Your Apartment]]

I get back from London, and I still have weekend left of Spring Break.

So, I ride out somewhere with one of my boys.  I’m down there with Dr. Know It All, Frat Boy and a gang of friends.

And, I’m still on my shit.

Approaching like crazy.   Working on my game.

Thursday and Friday I get a couple of bad chicks facebooks and numbers.

But, Saturday night… I was on fire.

I was basically running the Krauser Day Game model at night…. in the street between the bars… with loads of alcohol and marijuana already flowing through my body.  I probably got about a dozen facebook/number closes in just one night.

All of my boys were impressed with my game.  Not only with the quality, but with my I don’t give a fuck attitude, but also with my openers.

I approach a black chick in the middle of street, who’s wearing a red dress.  At first, I liken her dress to Christmas, then to Valentine’s.  She tries to walk away from me a couple of times, but I stand my ground and motion for her to come back.  And, she keeps coming back.   Just like Moran showed me when he did the same thing to a French girl in the middle of Oxford street.

This black chick is loving my conversation.  She’s 28, I call her old, she pretends to walk off, then comes back…

“Oh my gosh!  You are just too funny, [Willy Wonka!]  I can tell you’re just going to have me laughing all of the time.  I can’t believe you called me old.”

I tell her her dress looks like a “Valentine’s present.”  She says the real “Valentine’s present” is what’s underneath her dress.

I get her Facebook and phone number, but the set went so well, I tell her I’m coming to her house when the clubs close.  She laughs and says, “call me, we’ll link up later.”

When shit closes down, me and boys are in line grabbing pizza and I text her, she texts back and I’m about to try to drop a DHV in when my phone dies.

Fuck.  Back to the car, back to the charger.

I call her.

Me:  What are you up to?
Her:  I’m at home in the bed.  Where are you?

Me:  I’m headed that way.  Text me your address.

Her:  I am in bed, [Willy Wonka]!  What does that mean when somebody is in bed?

Me:  I don’t know what that means, but I’m leaving town tomorrow.   Text me your address and I’ll come over and fuck the shit out of you.  I’m going to make you cum so many times.

Her:  Oh my gosh!  If I text you my address, you better not disappoint me!   What are you working with [Willy Wonka]?     She’s trying to ask me how big my dick is, but I’m in the car with two of my boys, so I’m not about to just be throwing measurements around like that…

Me:  I got you.  Trust me, I got you.

Her:  What are you working with?  Tell me what you’re working with!

Me:  Text me your address and find out.

Her:  You better tell your boys to wait outside for five minutes, because if you’re small, you’re not getting in!  I will laugh you out of my room!

Me:  Hahahaha!  Girl, you’re crazy.  I said I got you.

The shit tests and shit talking doesn’t stop there.  She goes on, asking me shit like what I do, why I like black girls, but I pull the plug and don’t let the shit go on like that… “Stop playing around girl, you know what you want, just text me your address.”

“I know what I want, I just don’t know if I should.  What I need you to do is answer my questions first.”

“Naw, this ain’t an interview, I’m not playing games.  I’m done answering questions.”

“You’re not going to answer my questions?  Goodnight!”   And she hangs up on me….

I just get my boys to drop me off at Dr. Know It All and Frat Boy’s place.   I still want to fuck this girl though, even though she is pissing me off when all the shit talking and questions and shit….

I send her a text:

Girl stop playing and text me that address.. you know what you want… I’m a throw you up against the wall, fuck you all over the room, make you cum so many times you can’t even take it…

She responds:

Lol I like what u sayn but u dont wanna answer my ?’s to make me feel comfortable abt da situation [Willy Wonka]

When she says this I decide to lighten up a bit:

I’m tryna make you comfortable, I just felt like you were playing around… I’m 25 in 3 weeks, from [city], go back tomorrow.  Name [Willy Wonka]… white, cute, funny, smart, and great in the sack… what else you need to know?

Her:

Lol I  just wanna know y u like black women damn [Willy Wonka] itz dat simple

I ask Frat Boy to borrow his car, I also ask him what I should say to that message, he says say something like “they’re smart and beautiful” so I say that… I also add in that they’re great at riding dick…

Then, I just call her… and run some comfort game… we’re talking about her recent trip to Seattle, blah, blah, blah… and then she says… “So, when are you coming over?”

“Are you going to text me the address?”

“I already did, I sent the text while we were talking.”

I look at my phone.  She actually did text me her address.  ”Alright, I’m on my way.”

I drive over there and take her up to her bedroom.  Make out, take her top off…. and shit… I should’ve turned the lights off first.  She’s one of those chicks that drops two points when you get her naked.   She was a 7, she’s reaching 5 territory now that I have her naked.

I turn the lights off now, and make out with her a bit more.  That two point drop really hurt my spirits though, and my erection – no way I’m reaching 100% now.  Not with a condom anyway…

I fuck her for a bit at about 75%, if that.   She’s still talking shit…. “you better keep that pace!”

I grab her hair and pull the fuck out of it to shut her up.   “Oh shit!”  is all she can say.  I just get rough as hell with her.   Then, I cum.

“[Willy Wonka], you’re not supposed to cum before I do!  I’m going to have to kick you out of my room now, I told you what was going to happen!”

She gets up and starts to put her panties back on.  I grab her and toss her ass across the bed, “This shit ain’t over”  I say and finger her for a little bit.  She cums, and then cums again.

Then, she gets up and runs to the bathroom,  ”fuck, you have magic fingers!!!  Shit, I need a towel!!  Oh my fucking god!!”

She comes back to the bed, “Oh, my gosh?  You’re still not hard?  After I came all over the place?   You must have that liquor dick!!”

Probably so.  I’m sure the weed’s not helping either…. neither is the fact that she’s a 2-pt dropper.

“I have a dainty dick,”  I say, “I need wetness to get hard.   Give me some head.”  I grab her hair and pull her head towards my dick.

“No!!”  She says, “I can’t!  I can’t do that!  I can’t give you head!”

“Why the fuck not?  If you want another round, I’ll fuck the shit out of you, but you gotta give me head first!”

“No, I can’t!  I can’t do that to my boyfriend!  I can’t do that to Jeremy!!”

She says she’ll fake it, and licks her hand and rubs my dick like that, and gets mouth kind of close to my dick and flicks her tongue and acts like she’s giving me head.   It’s shit, but it’s enough to get me a little harder.

Not for long though, as soon as I put the condom on, I start to lose it again.   I fuck her for a little while longer, but I just can’t keep it up.  I eventually just call it quits, and we both get dressed.

“It’s probably the liquor dick,”  she says, “I want to fuck you when you’re sober.  I’ll come to [my city] on Friday and fuck you again.”

“Alright.”  I say and head out the door.  She walks me out, then looks at me… “Can you pick me up?”  she says.

I pick her up and finger her for a little bit and puts her arm around my neck and pretends like we’re fucking.  ”Yeah, I can have a lot of fun with you!”  She says, “I need to get rid of this Jeremy situation.”

Ehhh….

Notch!",2021-01-28,2021-01-30,,,,,,,4322,SA
"28/11/2024 16:35:32","28/11/2024 16:35:32","The Truth About Not Paying on the First Date","The debate about who should pay on the first date is as old as dating itself. Some believe it’s tradition for the man to foot the bill, while others argue for equality in modern relationships. But what happens when you, as a man, decide not to pay? Having dated women from different countries, I’ve learned that cultural norms and individual expectations vary wildly—and the truth about skipping the check can lead to surprising revelations.

=====1. It’s Not Just About the Money—It’s About Values=====
Who pays often reflects deeper beliefs about roles in a relationship, and not paying can send unintended signals.

During a date in the United States, I suggested splitting the bill. The woman I was with appreciated the gesture, as it aligned with her views on equality. She saw it as a sign of mutual respect and independence. However, she admitted later that if I hadn’t even offered to pay, she might have questioned my interest or generosity.

Contrast this with a date I had in Ukraine, where traditional gender roles are more prevalent. When I suggested splitting the bill, the woman seemed taken aback. She later explained that in her culture, paying is seen as a man’s way of showing care and seriousness about the relationship. Not paying on a first date there might inadvertently signal disinterest or lack of commitment.

The takeaway? It’s rarely about the actual money spent but rather what the gesture—or lack of it—represents in her eyes.

=====2. The Importance of Clear Communication=====
When cultural expectations clash, discussing them openly can save the date from turning awkward.

While dating in Sweden, I noticed that paying on a first date was almost always split evenly. Swedish women value independence and see splitting the bill as an extension of that principle. On one date, I decided to pay as a surprise, only to find that it made her slightly uncomfortable. She politely explained that covering her share was important to her sense of fairness.

On the flip side, while dating in Mexico, offering to split the bill felt out of place. Mexican culture often embraces more traditional dating norms, and paying is seen as part of the man’s role. I learned to bring up the topic early on, framing it in a way that wasn’t about the money but about understanding her expectations.

By communicating openly, you avoid misunderstandings and show her that you’re mindful of her perspective.

=====3. Not Paying Can Be a Test of Character—For Both of You=====
Sometimes, not paying reveals more about her—and you—than you might expect.

In France, dating often involves a more relaxed approach to finances. On one date, I suggested not splitting the bill as an experiment to gauge her reaction. She smiled and said, “I’ll get this one, and you can grab the next.” That moment revealed her practical nature and openness to partnership. It also taught me that who pays doesn’t have to define the dynamic—it’s the willingness to share the responsibility that matters.

In contrast, I once went on a date in Singapore where I decided not to pay. Her reaction was less forgiving. She told me outright that not paying felt like a lack of chivalry, which made her question my values. While her honesty was refreshing, it also made me realize how much cultural and personal expectations shape the dating experience.

Not paying isn’t inherently wrong, but it often sparks conversations that reveal deeper truths about compatibility and values.

====Conclusion: It’s More Than Just a Check====
The decision to pay—or not pay—on a first date is rarely black and white. Across my experiences dating women from different countries, I’ve learned that it’s less about the act itself and more about the thought behind it.

In some cultures, paying signifies care and interest; in others, splitting the bill shows respect and equality. The key is to approach the situation with an open mind, clear communication, and a willingness to adapt.

Ultimately, the first date is about setting the tone for what could become a meaningful connection. Whether you pay, split the bill, or let her take the check, what matters most is showing her that you respect her values—and staying true to your own.

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[[https://bit.ly/3ASOlPc Hannibal: A Good Man Is Hard To Find]]
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[[https://bit.ly/3OAIyRf Bad Relationship Advice in Music Videos]]
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",2022-11-06,2022-11-29,,,,,,,653645,"Free Dating Loveawake"
"27/03/2025 16:42:16","27/03/2025 16:42:16","This is the “Artist” part of Pickup Artist.","[[https://bit.ly/4j71lkI Marriage vs. Addiction: Winning the Battle for Love]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Y176Ig Marriage Without Intimacy: Can Love Survive the Distance?]]
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[[https://bit.ly/3DWXmIn Marriage And Chaos: Finding Common Ground in Parenting]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DUscBy He Seemed Interested. So Why Didn’t He Call?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4j5nIH7 Online Dating Isn’t Desperation]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iRfgeP Changing Your Dating Approach]]
[[https://bit.ly/4c3yRWJ Why Modern Dating is More Complicated Than Ever]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iXYkD2 Dating Someone With Debt]]
[[https://bit.ly/41JHmCI Marriage vs. Parenthood: Life After Having a Baby]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Xw23iW The Fine Line Between Casual Dating and Commitment]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DTawpM How to Handle the Truth After Discovering a Betray]]

 “Me: (pointing to 5.5) Hey, are you a hairdresser?”

Good, if you’re not hitting, change tactics until you hit something they emotionally respond to. Interrupt their actual opener response even…like ask them your opener and then as they start to answer just cut them off and say the hairdresser thing, just to see what happens. You’ll find they follow your thread, and then you can go back to the opener later. Mystery talks about doing this a lot, setting up multiple threads that branch out, and then returning to close them up later.

“5.5: (flat) No. None of us are hairdressers.”

Oh shit, you got blown out, you should leave!!!!! Or you should call her a bitch, and show her who’s boss, fuck that bitch, yell at her and tell her she’s too fucking ugly to be a hairdresser anyway!!!

“Me: (grinning huge) You’re a fucking firecracker.”

…oh no wait. You could also do this, which is treat her attitude like she’s your silly 5yo niece pouting and calling you a poopy-head as you chuckle and grin and then completely unexpectedly compliment her.

Whether this set turns around or not, this is 100% the appropriate way to handle this kind of thing. If you watch the last set that Cajun opens on his Keys to the VIP appearance (hit Youtube up), you’ll notice he turns around the bitchiest girl in the set because he says to the friends “I like your friend, you know why? Because she’s the only one who gave me shit.” and basically compliments her on having attitude etc. From there the bitch shield is obliterated and she becomes a sweet purring little kitten.

This is the “Artist” part of Pickup Artist. I had one social circle of normal people I was out with who were mindblown because one minute a chick I was talking to was calling me an asshole and flipping me the middle finger, and the next I’m coming back to the group with her phone number lol

“6: You should go away.”

All good, they’re expecting your frame to be weak so they’re ganging up. The 5.5 is being a douche and is probably the leader of the group normally.
",2023-03-24,2023-03-26,,,,,,,1134,SA
"20/03/2025 16:28:58","20/03/2025 16:28:58","Tinder Confessions: My Tinder Boyfriend","[[https://bit.ly/4bCTPeO He Went to War and Came Back a Changed Man]]
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[[https://bit.ly/4hmImRV Workaholic Heartbreak: When Success Costs Your Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/4kACG9E Recession Realities: When Financial Stress Tests a Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/3RgepYW When Unemployment Tests Marriage]]
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[[https://bit.ly/3Y0Q64V Love Lies and Responsibility]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DTY35d The Dating Mishaps of the Ladies of Love Twenty]]
[[https://bit.ly/3RoJzxb The Black Male Preference Privilege]]
[[https://bit.ly/3RjLaV4 Anatomy of a Great (Reality) Relationship]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DQedfU Your Rear End or Your Pride]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Y24B8F Why Splitting Costs Isn't Splitting Love]]
[[https://bit.ly/3RgxeLs (Broken) Laws of Attraction ]]

It’s been a while since I wrote a Tinder Tuesday post, but I’m here with some not-so-breaking news. I FOUND A BOYFRIEND. ON TINDER (about three months ago). Sorry for the dramatic all-caps, but who woulda thunk it? Certainly not me.

When I started using Tinder, I figured I’d make up for all the casual dating I never did in college. You know, check out the prospects in the Washington metropolitan area, have a fun fling or two. I was certainly open to the idea of finding a serious relationship on Tinder, but I just didn’t really expect it to actually happen.

I can hardly believe it myself, but here I am, proof of the great flexibility of the app (which has been making the rounds at the Olympics, btw). Is it a hookup app? Yes. Is it a dating app? Yes. Is it a find-me-a-boyfriend app? Yes. I stand by my statement from a few months ago that Tinder is what you make it.

When I met my boyfriend—we’ll call him John—I knew right away things with him were going to be different (in a very good way), so I decided not to blog about him. Because I knew he was special, and I wanted privacy for the relationship to develop without writing some sort of public diary of the whole thing. And I didn’t want him to one day read this blog and think he was just entertainment for my friends and random strangers on the internet.

I will tell you a little bit about him though. Because I just can’t help myself. John is amazing. Calling your significant other amazing is really cliché and overused and just plain annoying (to me anyway), but the word is quite fitting for John. He is amazing. And thoughtful and sweet and incredibly funny. He did a great job with my first un-single Valentine’s Day: flowers and chocolate sent to my office, some cute little Hello Kitty happies (yes, I’m a fan), and a home-cooked dinner prepared while I lounged on the couch in my PJs with a glass of wine while listening to the Pandora station he created just for me. Well done, John.

So there ya have it. A happy ending. I’d like to take a moment to thank Addie, who encouraged me to use Tinder in the first place, and my roommate, who let me in on her Tindering—officially winning me over to the idea of jumping in on the action myself. If you just spent this past Valentine’s Day single and didn’t particularly like it, I’d like to encourage YOU to get on Tinder. Or Match.com or e-harmony or Christian Mingle or OkCupid or whatever floats your boat! Yes, there are some weirdos and some jerks out there, but I promise you there are some winners out there too!",2023-03-25,2023-03-28,,,,,,,24214,SA
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279B July 18, 2011 at 3:14 pm
Wait, I thought the compliments were meant to help fight crime! #Confused…

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280SmartFoxGirl July 18, 2011 at 11:31 am
Cosign…you have a nice smile, NICE dreads and excellent style. :)

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281BmoreCreative July 18, 2011 at 12:58 pm
thanks miss…;)

*maintains and resumes gully*

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282B. Brown July 18, 2011 at 7:31 am
Much of the discrepancy in compliment-giving probably has to do with the rules of engagement. We pretty much have to start with at least one compliment (not saying they’re not deserved). There has to be some reason we approach: if nothing else, it’s good to let you all know what it is so you all know we’re observant. And of course we can’t ever slip in any area after initial approach, so the compliments keep coming.

I’ve been known to give a compliment or two in my day, but receiving them? Oh, that takes a long time. In my lifetime (volume one) I’ve gotten ‘other things’ from women long before I’ve gotten compliments. It’s like the Smash Factory is on the way to Niceville (for those not in the know, there really is a city called Niceville not too far from here).

While I was home I got a compliment from a woman I met that I’d never heard before. I’ll refrain from mentioning what she actually said, but I almost asked her what she said (it came up in a conversation two days later: I reminded her and she expanded on it).

There are the compliments I’m accustomed to hearing and those that I’m not. Probably the case with most VSBs. If someone tells me I’m smart or a good dancer or a good listener (or something else), I mention my appreciation – or give a return compliment, if applicable – and keep it moving. Someone says something else, the ears perk up…but all that “she must love me” stuff has to depend on the guy, because I don’t go that far with it.

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Bienvenue à toutes et tous ! ",2016-11-19T15:00:00+00:00,2016-11-19T19:00:00+00:00,,,"C'est gratuit comme dab.",,,"Ferme Marion à Wavreille",5580,"Wavreille Rochefort"
"11/01/2019 08:42:49","15/01/2019 15:55:42","Troc/Echange de Semences","Troc/Echange de graines à la Bibliothèque de Rochefort",2019-01-19T09:30:00+01:00,2019-01-19T13:00:00+01:00,,https://www.facebook.com/Semences-Rochefort-194744197997057/,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/TrocEchangeDeSemences_fichier_troc-echange-final.pdf,,5580,Rochefort
"11/09/2019 17:36:13","11/09/2019 17:36:13"," Un cycle ""Socrate"" pour mieux comprendre le monde","D'octobre 2019 à juin 2020, le Ciep Luxembourg, accompagné d'une équipe de formateurs motivés, habitués à échanger avec des adultes, propose une formation gratuite et accessible à tous. A travers des éclairages économiques, géo-historiques, philosophiques, sociologiques, juridiques... le parcours permet de prendre du recul, de questionner nos conceptions du monde et de la vie en société, dans une ambiance conviviale et participative.

-Comprendre les rouages du  système économique capitaliste, découvrir le contexte social, culturel qui les ont engendrés.

 -S'interroger sur les fondements de nos démocraties et sur d'autres pratiques politiques possibles.

 -Analyser les crises actuelles, les jeux d'influence, de pouvoirs et mettre en avant les mouvements, les luttes populaires  porteurs de transformations radicales. 

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 ...Tels sont quelques exemples des sujets abordés avec les formateurs

Infos, inscriptions : Véronique Quinet  Tél: 063/21.87.33",2019-10-02T18:30:00+00:00,2019-10-02T21:30:00+00:00,,,,,https://rochefortentransition.org/files/UnCycleSocratePourMieuxComprendreLeMo_fichier_depliant_socrate_marche_2019_2020-v1.pdf,"8A avenue du monument",6900,Marche
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Pendant tout le temps de midi : animation musicale avec « La bande à Popol », folk joyeux et festif !

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**15H**: visite guidée  « A la découverte de quelques plantes sauvages compagnes »

**De 10H à 17H, **le jardin est libre d'accès – Possibilité de s'y installer juste pour flâner, lire un livre,...

NB : le jardin comprend de nombreux points d'eau. Les enfants restent sous la responsabilité de leurs parents.

Havrenne se trouve à proximité (11 km) de la gare de Marloie (Ligne Liège) ou de Jemelle (Bruxelles) – ",2019-06-30T10:00:00+02:00,2019-06-30T17:00:00+02:00,,http://ecologieauquotidien.be/?PagePrincipale,"Entrée libre - 10 € pour le repas sur réservation",https://rochefortentransition.org/files/UneBelleJourneeAuJardin_affiche.png,,"Rue St Antoine 23",5580,Havrenne-Rochefort
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Cette action est coordonnée bénévolement par Véronique DELTOUR, ambassadrice propreté pour la Ville de Rochefort. Il est possible de la contacter au 0471 425 723.",2019-10-20T10:00:00+00:00,2019-10-20T11:00:00+00:00,,,,,,"RV devant l'Eglise de Han-sur-Lesse",5580,Han-sur-Lesse
"23/09/2019 21:19:28","23/09/2019 19:28:03","Une heure pour ma ville - Laloux","Chaque 3ème dimanche du mois de 10h à 11h, un nettoyage est organisé dans un village avec l'aide de volontaires.

Cette action est coordonnée bénévolement par Véronique DELTOUR, ambassadrice propreté pour la Ville de Rochefort. Il est possible de la contacter au 0471 425 723.",2019-12-15T10:00:00+00:00,2019-12-15T11:00:00+00:00,,,,,,"rdv rue Saint-Barthélemy 13, salle des Fêtes",5580,Laloux
"23/09/2019 19:17:11","23/09/2019 19:17:11","Une heure pour ma ville - Lavaux-Ste-Anne","Chaque 3ème dimanche du mois de 10h à 11h, un nettoyage est organisé dans un village avec l'aide de volontaires.

Cette action est coordonnée bénévolement par Véronique DELTOUR, ambassadrice propreté pour la Ville de Rochefort. Il est possible de la contacter au 0471 425 723.",2019-11-17T10:00:00+00:00,2019-11-17T11:00:00+00:00,,,,,,"rdv  rue Baronne Lemonnier, sur la place",5580,Lavaux-St-Anne
"29/10/2019 08:00:45","29/10/2019 08:00:45","Vernissage musée","Vernissage du musée du capitalisme
Chorale ""Ne servir plus""",2019-11-09T19:00:00+00:00,2019-11-09T22:00:00+00:00,,"http://www.ccr-rochefort.be/index.php?mact=Agenda,cntnt01,DetailEvent,0&cntnt01id_event=532&cntnt01returnid=15",,,,"rue Sauvenière",5580,Rochefort
"21/11/2024 17:09:22","21/11/2024 17:09:22","What Married People Wish Single People Understood About Commitment","[[https://bit.ly/4fCjsO3 The Surprisingly Solid Dating Advice From Kanye West]]
[[https://bit.ly/4fBAmMI How To Please Your Mate]]
[[https://bit.ly/4fA9Vqx Rearranging The Deck Chairs On The Titanic of Love]]
[[https://bit.ly/4fyuvHS Ridiculous Dating Advice That’s Totally True]]
[[https://bit.ly/40TzwGF Things Men Do That Women Probably Hate]]
[[https://bit.ly/40Tzy1f Things I Think I’d Hate About Women If I Were a Man]]
[[https://bit.ly/4eHBBZB What Single People Get Wrong About Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/40TzA9n Chicken Livers and Relationship Drama]]
[[https://bit.ly/3CN9lqR Why Splitting Costs Isn't Splitting Love]]
[[https://bit.ly/4920rC6 The Instant Turn-Offs That Will Get You Cut Off]]

To the outside world, marriage might seem like the finish line of dating, but married people will tell you it’s only the beginning. Single people often romanticize marriage as an endless honeymoon, overlooking the effort it requires. Married life isn’t always glamorous; it’s about shared responsibilities, constant compromise, and choosing love even on tough days. The most successful couples understand that arguments aren’t dealbreakers—they’re opportunities to grow. Marriage also redefines intimacy; it’s no longer about grand gestures but small, everyday acts of love, like making coffee for your partner or remembering their favorite snack. Single people sometimes see marriage as losing freedom, but the truth is, when done right, it’s about gaining a partner who celebrates your individuality. Commitment isn’t about perfection; it’s about resilience, forgiveness, and finding joy in the mundane together.",2022-11-18,2022-11-28,,,,,,,564224,"Dating Service"
"18/11/2024 16:42:05","18/11/2024 16:42:05","What should you do if you are in love with someone else?","[[https://bit.ly/3USGqbk 5 Ways To Prove You’re Really In Love!]]
[[https://bit.ly/3CuKPLi Why Dating A Geek/Nerd Is Good Strategy]]
[[https://bit.ly/3O8Ygmw Break-Up Do’s And Don’ts]]
[[https://bit.ly/3UUq2Ho The “Straight” Dope On Traditional Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/3CpLYDV Things I Wish Mom Told Me About Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/3UTsCx7 The Struggle of Modern Love]]
[[https://bit.ly/3AKNwaX The Perils of Dating a Married Man]]
[[https://bit.ly/48RNz1f A Woman’s Guide Of Back Hair Acceptance]]
[[https://bit.ly/3O8INDa 10 Things Every Single Man Needs]]
[[https://bit.ly/3UTsaip Epic Meet-Cute Scenarios for Online Daters]]
[[https://bit.ly/3UO3YOs 10 Things Every Single Woman Needs]]

Couples who have been together for an extended period of time naturally tend to become used to one another. In the beginning stages of the relationship, they may well have surprised each other with romantic gestures. As time passes, however, the frequency of romantic acts often tends to slow down or stop all together.

At such times one or both partners can long for those same feelings of excitement that existed at the beginning of the relationship, and so seek comfort in a new friend or old flame. Quite often this initial innocent contact can develop into feelings of love with their confidant. Tangled in emotions, all matters of the heart are serious and it’s hard to make a decision on what to do next.

Time to self-assess

Before pursuing the new relationship or ending the old one, do a self-assessment. The self-assessment resolves two important issues. It identifies any destructive behavior affecting your relationship as well as clearly defining your expectations of the relationship.

Write down five reasons you fell in love with your partner. Were they tangible things such as your partner’s figure, or were you attracted because of goals and determination. Think about your current relationship and ask if the relationship is meeting your expectations. If it is not are you taking an active or passive role in meeting your expectations? Count up the cost of leaving your current relationship. Do you and your long term partner have major investments together such as a home or children?

Unless you are intimately involved with someone, you rarely see their bad side. Before splitting up with your long-term partner, ask yourself if you are ready to be without both people if the new relationship doesn’t work out. Most importantly, how would you feel if you learned your partner was in love with someone else? The way you’ll feel about it is probably how your partner feels about your new love interest. Even when you decide to stay in your current relationship, it may be hard to make the relationship work.

Consider counselling

Counselling is an option for individuals who can’t understand the situation for themselves but have a strong desire to save the relationship. Although individual counselling helps you work through your personal issues, couple counselling has a greater benefit. In addition to the individual issues, the couple should be able to work together as a whole to resolve conflicts. The counsellor has the ability to help the couple find the core of the problem and work towards strengthening their relationship.

Putting space between the individual you’re in love with makes it easier to forget the person and the relationship. Because taking a proactive approach accomplishes more than a reactive approach, learn to recognize signs that the relationship is in trouble. For example, don’t become a close friend with someone of the opposite sex unless both partners are friends with the person. Keep in mind, if you have to make excuses to see a person it’s not a good idea to meet that person. Stable relationships are about growing with the needs of your partner as well as the needs of the relationship.",2019-02-06,2019-07-19,,,,,,,45435,Rome
"29/10/2024 17:39:26","29/10/2024 17:39:26","When ""Just Friends"" Feels Like a Trap","[[https://bit.ly/48nJC4g Three Great Things To Do If Dateless On Valentines Day]]
[[https://bit.ly/4f3mQRG 10 Things I’ve Learned Since Becoming A Daddy]]
[[https://bit.ly/4hqeYLy How To Snag A Last Minute Valentine’s Date]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YGZlrZ 5 Fun Ways to Argue Without Breaking Up]]
[[https://bit.ly/48lDxW5 6 Signs You’ve Fallen Into The “Friend Zone”]]
[[https://bit.ly/4eXIaIj 6 Signs That A Woman Has Been Friend-Zoned]]
[[https://bit.ly/3YDYxUK A Guide To Avoiding Relationship Fumbles]]
[[https://bit.ly/4hyStEu A Guide to Making New Friends]]

Women, let’s examine some things that you should never do. Rather, things that if you were to do them to me, I’d consider whipping your a**.


1. Pull a knife.

Yes, oh yes. If you want to see how good a man’s jab is, pull a knife on him. At knife pullage, you have moved from the realm of chick I know into bastard who is threatening my life. If you even THINK about putting that knife down before the cops come…you just might get Iked. And oh yes…yes the cops are coming because if I manage to get a good lick in, I’m knocking the knife out of your hands and commencing to treat you like the man you wanted to emulate. And will do so until the cops come knockin’.

You see, I live under this little assumption:

Panama’s Postulation 7.08.009: If somebody pulls a weapon on you, always assume they are going to use it.

Which segues into this one…

2. Pull a gun.

Extreme circumstances I know. But this needs no explanation. If you decide to pull a gun, and then decide not to use it, you’ve decided for me that you are going to be beat to a living pulp and that you are interested in having your name etched out in the laurels of Black History.


Those were two extremes, but let’s move into the more common circumstances.

3) Hitting in the face with a closed fist

Do it and, well, you might have to die.  Honestly, I don’t understand where the idea that hitting a man is okay comes from anyway. Hitting, under this premise, implies manly a** behavior. Especially, when you all decide to do it repeatedly. Every hit reduces his common sense by one percentage point. At about 49 percent, homeboy might snap. I suggest you take this into consideration next time you decide to lay some mollywoppage on a man and count your “blessings.”
",2021-10-27,2021-10-28,,,,,,,455266,"Dating Sites"
"12/12/2024 11:38:49","12/12/2024 11:38:49","When “Casual” Gets Complicated","[[https://bit.ly/49t6JuJ Ladies We Need Answers]]
[[https://bit.ly/4g80eQB The Difference Between Girls and Women]]
[[https://bit.ly/4g6WwGF On Dating: Experienced or Just Plain Damaged?]]
[[https://bit.ly/4g80E9E A Chosen Season: On Being Single in My Late 20s]]
[[https://bit.ly/4g6Uxm1 The Painful Friends With Benefits Cycle]]
[[https://bit.ly/4fZuRaN 10 Reasons Why You Might Still Be Single]]
[[https://bit.ly/4ingZZs The Things Women Say That Piss Off Men]]
[[https://bit.ly/4g6WjTT Challenges Of A Male Relationship Blogger]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iGvCaC Why Relationships Commitment Scares Me]]
[[https://bit.ly/4g8CI63 The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have]]
[[https://bit.ly/3D6FGt3 Don’t Tell Me Where To Be Romantic!]]
[[https://bit.ly/4g7vgb9 Tickle Me Cheater]]


But what I quoted from Epoxy’s comment certainly qualifies as exactly the same point I have been making, and Obsidian has been making, on this thread.


LILGRL PERMALINK*
October 21, 2009 4:07 pm
Dude.

I’m not asking for social security numbers.

Watch, I will discuss a specific guy:

Once, while in New York, I went on a date with an investment banker. He was a douche-bag. He worked for Goldman-Sachs. He was 27.

DO YOU KNOW WHO HE IS?


Sofia PERMALINK
October 21, 2009 4:07 pm
How is discussing anecdotal evidence about girl ‘X’ divulging knowledge about your personal identity?!


Firepower PERMALINK
October 21, 2009 4:21 pm
LILGRL

Once, while in New York, I went on a date with an investment banker. He was a douche-bag. He worked for Goldman-Sachs. He was 27.

DO YOU KNOW WHO HE IS?

THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY?

",2000-12-30,2020-02-05,,,,,,,3425243,DA
"18/03/2025 16:41:49","18/03/2025 16:41:49","When Outside Influences Threaten Your Marriage: Staying United","[[https://bit.ly/3DzDL0U He Had an Affair Because I Stopped Initiating Sex]]
[[https://bit.ly/4hiX8sN He Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Fat]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DJhz4p He Lost Interest in Our Marriage]]
[[https://bit.ly/4hkeh5t Saving A Marriage: He Lost His Job]]
[[https://bit.ly/4ie35sj He Lets His Mother Rule Our Lives and I'm Sick of It]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DPhuME Commitment Jitters]]
[[https://bit.ly/3FBCVkF Love and Lust: When Chemistry Outruns Endurance]]
[[https://bit.ly/4heaIh2 Bi Bi Love]]
[[https://bit.ly/42ejPd6 Dealing With Your Partner’s Bedroom Confessions]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DL0vLm Can His Squalor Be Squelched?]]
[[https://bit.ly/43Zhkwy Asunder Down Under]]
[[https://bit.ly/4iaTwKD Conquering Long Distance Dating]]
[[https://bit.ly/3FBCVBb Coveting a Coworker]]

Now I won’t say that a married person’s advice is better then a single persons advice because this blog is about dating and the single people are out there right now dealing with the current climate where I can only watch and analyze from the sidelines. But I think relationship experience with another person (not a house, friends, pets, and family) is just a different ball park of coping skills your dealing with.

Hot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 6 Thumb down 6

Reply
dimplz says:
February 13, 2012 at 12:22 pm
You’re kind of proving her point. You’ve been married four years, and holding it up as some sign that your relationship is unbreakable because you value commitment. Why you may feel that way in your heart, your relationship hasn’t really stood the test of time. You have a myriad of health issues, your daughter has a myriad of health issues, and your relationship is far from healthy if the parties involved aren’t even healthy. Yet, every time she writes something about how to look for these signs, you hold your relationship up as some kind of accomplishment. You haven’t even hit your 30′s yet, have you? You have many more milestones to go, and I just think it’s a little premature for you to be claiming victory. It just shows how young you are – victory is never achieved in a relationship. It’s just a growth process. I admire your claim that you are committed, but that will only show over the years, maybe after a decade or two, like when you are old and tired and sick. Not now, while you still have youth on your side.

Hot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 8 Thumb down 3

",2024-03-25,2024-03-28,,,,,,,4534,SA
"11/03/2025 16:35:51","11/03/2025 16:35:51","Why Do Men Say Women Are Too Picky While Women Say Men Are Lazy","[[https://bit.ly/3QWSfe6 We’re All Slutty For The Right Guy]]
[[https://bit.ly/3QXZa6L Dear Men: This Is Why Loyalty Is So Important To Women]]
[[https://bit.ly/3XLbF9B How Do You Avoid Dating a Liberal/Conservative?]]
[[https://bit.ly/41EVtI7 Are You Looking For Fast Love Too?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3FhnSwB Should You Fake an Active Lifestyle for Love?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Ffy1tE When a Relationship Feels Like a Secret Mission]]
[[https://bit.ly/41HLdPc Pushing Through It]]
[[https://bit.ly/4bIFWvv Embracing The Unexpected Path Of Singlehood]]
[[https://bit.ly/3DzQ6SD Why Is It So Hard to Believe Someone Might Stay?]]
[[https://bit.ly/3XDyxI4 Am I Crazy Or Is He A Hot Mess?]]


Has anything been made worse by it’s glow in the dark nature? This product claims to be for underwater use, but I’m convinced it’s for those who gag. Either way Human Race, we made it here.

Literal songs of the day: Randy Newman and Nina Simone’s versions of, “I Think It’s Going To Rain Today.”

Gratuitous Jack Handey Quote: “If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think a cute thing to tell him is ‘God is crying.’ And if he asks why God is crying, another cute thing to tell him is ‘Probably because of something you did.’ ”

Let’s begin with a quote from  Raymond Carver:

“We are, all of us, abominably human. We are broken and we are flawed and even we ourselves barely recognize the degree to which this is true. And Love is this concept that, in its platonic ideal form, makes over other people and conceals those flaws and convinces us for brief moments that, Hey, perhaps this Other is not so flawed, is not broken, is not abominably just-like-me. And then we realize they are; and then they realize we are. But sometimes it’s just nice to be broken and flawed with someone. And it’s nice to have someone to get fucked up on bourbon and fall asleep half-naked on the couch with. And sometimes it’s nice to just pretend we’re not so flawed and broken and abominable. And it’s this concept of Love that is the problem, after all. We are broken and flawed and we created a broken and flawed concept because we have brains able to dream of things beyond ourselves and to imagine the nonexistent. But we have our bourbon and our couches and half of our clothes, so that’s okay. It’s really all okay.”

Now let’s make one thing clear: Love in the Dumps is not a conspiracy publication or love denier. We fully understand it’s essential to the advancement of our species, and, if the poets are right, might even be the meaning of it all.

But things have changed since Lord Byron. For if love was once a garden of lush red roses readily available for picking, it now resembles a grim urban lottery you play while picking up a pack of Pall Malls: for every happy winner there’s an unlucky slew who come up empty handed despite their best efforts. It’s a tight spot, mainly because we are conditioned to see love as a commodity – something you MUST HAVE, and can just get, like a toaster at Wal-Mart.
",2020-01-29,2023-02-08,,,,,,,45345,SA
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I have never, ever said the word “Bravo” to anyone, but honestly after reading your post, my brain was literally saying BRAVO. (I also never write or respond to other people’s posts, for whatever that’s worth)

Lorenzo5 years ago
I’m really glad people are finding this post as a forum to discuss their feelings on the subject. Thank you for reading and thank you for commenting!

Emily Macintosh5 years ago
This comment and the first comment by “once married” should be mandatory reading for any man or woman even considering marriage. Even married men gave me false impressions/advice about their own marriages/experiences with being the bread winner for the family until I joined the fold and by then too late… now how to save this article somewhere wifey won’t find it by accident……

Jeff5 years ago
side note, yes married no not cheating nor actively trying but I do find reading this kind of thing interesting, and totally agree that marriage is an antiquated system for society.

Jeff5 years ago
Again, just happy this can be a forum where people are talking about this. Love seeing all the comments and glad you’re not cheating or actively looking right now! Thank you for reading and thanks for your feedback!

Emily Macintosh5 years ago
Your the man!!!!!

Someone4 years ago
What about married men who do tell their wives and their wives are ok with it? My wife and I have an open relationship and we have a set of rules we each abide by. We have a happy sex life together but enjoy experiencing others every now and then. In this case, you have two adults who have agreed to a non-monogamous marriage. It’s not surprising that many women don’t understand this arrangement but it works quite well for us. I’ve attempted to use Tinder but most of the women are looking for a relationship, which isn’t going to happen with me. I do get a kick out of the reactions I get when I tell women about the open marriage.
",2022-02-02,2022-12-31,,,,,,,45262,SA
"09/10/2024 17:33:25","09/10/2024 17:33:25","Why the Black Male-to-Female Ratio Isn't What It Seems","[[https://orientamento.elearning.unipd.it/orientamento/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Things%20Every%20Grown%20Black%20Man%20Needs%20In%20His%20Life Things Every Grown Black Man Needs In His Life]]
[[https://gfarias.com/campus/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=The%20Black%20Dating%20Game The Black Dating Game]]
[[https://moodle.univ-tln.fr/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=How%20To%20Stop%20%E2%80%9CThat%E2%80%9D%20Dude%20From%20Trying%20To%20Talk%20To%20You How To Stop “That” Dude From Trying To Talk To You]]
[[https://ead.pge.rs.gov.br/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=10%20Most%20Common%20Lies%20People%20Tell%20in%20A%20Relationship 10 Most Common Lies People Tell in A Relationship]]
[[https://akademijazakme.edu.rs/tag/index.php?tag=pravnici I’ll Be Your Pappy: The Silence of the Daddy Issues]]
[[https://aci.moodlesite.pukunui.net/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Three%20Underrated%20Relationship%20Benchmarks Three Underrated Relationship Benchmarks]]
[[https://ws089.juntadeandalucia.es/moodle/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Why%20Successful%20Men%20Don%E2%80%99t%20Want%20To%20Put%20A%20Ring%20On%20it Why Successful Men Don’t Want To Put A Ring On it]]
[[https://educaciodigital.cat/cfanougirona/moodle/tag/index.php?tc=1&tag=Annoying%20Things%20Women%20Only%20Do%20If%20They%E2%80%99re%20Into%20You Annoying Things Women Only Do If They’re Into You]]
[[https://bit.ly/3Njnm1F How Every Single Young Woman Can Improve Her Luck]]


on October 29, 2014 at 7:33 pmLazyHero
Splooge, spooge on you… blacks aren’t fit for anything. FIt connotates a positive…


on October 29, 2014 at 11:33 pm | ReplyK
@splooge

Was your mom’s dad older too? I’m sure most of the things you mentioned were because your mom’s mom was older but Bipolar and other mental disorders in kids has been linked to older dads so the Bipolar was probably from your grandpa. The sperm starts having a lot more mutations after 40 so that’s something to think about.


on October 29, 2014 at 6:16 pm | Replythwack
Splooge, do you have any citations for that?

Im the last of 8, born to a 37 year old; but I stopped Greg Eliot in the 3rd round.

Am I the exception that proves the rule?


on October 29, 2014 at 8:17 pm | Replythwack
Last of 8. All with different fathers, I mean sperm donors.


on October 29, 2014 at 11:48 pm | Replysplooge
its thing i made up after findin out that fertilty drop makes disabiled babies or cousin marriages result in an average lower iq. if this is the case im thinkin genetical exceptionals are less likely like if some ons marred ther cuz an had the son at 40 what are the chances of a tall strong sexy smart guy then some short ugly dumbbass.
you could be an xception if my theory is true like disabled kids can happen in young healthy mothers.
but statistcally healthy babies are born young while disable occurs late sadly. and this is a major jump thats why im thinkin what if its the case at a lower intensity. like what if we are fitfer n smarter if ourmoms were younger n healtherwhen she borne us


on October 30, 2014 at 6:43 am | ReplyGreg Eliot
Im the last of 8, born to a 37 year old; but I stopped Greg Eliot in the 3rd round.

Third round of a rib-eatin’ contest… maybe.
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If you tease a girl with a push like “we are NOT sleeping together tonight ;) ” and she responds like “okay. (shrug)” you pushed before you had enough value to push.


You can’t be Alpha all the time. Aloofness is like catnip, but cats eventually tire of the stuff. Eventually make a time to meet up (out of the blue is best), wow her with the date (e.g., home-cooked dinner with wine, seeing a movie she wants to see (Hunger Games?), taking a walk in the park), and show that you’re interested by genuinely being nice and attentively listening: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/01/24/cold-reading-is-a-potent-seduction-tactic/

Then when it’s time for coitus, get up from your chair (assuming you’re home) and offer your hand whilst not uttering a word. Take her hand and walk towards the bedroom, again without uttering a word. You just went from down-to-earth guy wanting to get to know her to I-don’t-give-a-fuck Alpha. I’ve done this a lot and it works everytime. Never forget the push-pull.

@ Joe Eoj

Try to not get distracted by the content (i.e., the words themselves) of the text exchange (which is a tall order, indeed, considering their laconic brilliance). Rather, work to recognize the underlying principles at work.

Don’t give up– doing things wrong is an integral part of your training.

Asking vague questions.

Totally. Props to the “Okay!” man. It took me a looooooooong time to learn that you don’t have to respond to every txt.

“well we will c what is waiting for us next time. could b good. im wearing those kneehighs u said u liked.”

I tend to disqualify girls who use sloppy all-lowercase spelling and abbreviations. It means they really don’t give a deuce.

IMO, Mr. Okay did well, but should have answered “k”.

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